Serious What is the real point of a relationship

[What the fuck]

So,i was looking a couple of threads about people asking for help for not being able to get girls,even if they go to the gym.Is completely understandable.
Now,i talk to myself and i wonder what is the real sense of having a relationship.Probably many of you will say WELL,HAVING A PARTNER WHO APRECIATE YOU or maybe HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE THAT LIKES YOU.
So,I'm gonna do this.I will make a list of points from my point of view,and you will tell me if you are agree or not.I will make points starting for letter a) b) c) etc etc....

Having a proper and decent relationship (healthy one) : main points (¿¿??) :

a) Good communication (development of social skills????) -----------------------------------------> AGREE OR NOT?

b) Be with somebody who likes and apreciate you.Someone who show you affection because she feels it. (being loved and cared???) --------------> AGREE OR NOT?

c) Having sex or making love (depending on how you feel and how you see it) with someone that is into you (The girl really want to have sex with you and doesn't expect you,to do something previously for her,to make love) ----------->AGREE OR NOT?

d) Having company and support ------------>SOUNDS CLICHÉ.......AGREE OR NOT?

e) Having good and bad times,including fights and discussions ------------>AGREE OR NOT?

I coudl keep going,but i want to know your troughs guys.Maybe many of you will post answers like "LOW IQ POST".If that's the case,just don't.I'm looking for serious answers.You can think this post isn't serious,but it is for me at least.Thanks for reading.Greetings.

 

[Zesto]

I want to spend my life with my waifu.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

21st century? Mostly hedonism. Procreation sometimes.

 

[Cuyen]

21st century? Mostly hedonism. Procreation sometimes.

 

[Zaetheus]

Who knows man

 

[bakadesu]

in 2018 there is no point. all females need are their smartphones for validation and sex. sub 5 men are disposable trash unless they betabux a used up roastie in her 30s

 

[What the fuck]

in 2018 there is no point. all females need are their smartphones for validation and sex. sub 5 men are disposable trash unless they betabux a used up roastie in her 30s

disposable trash? why that sounds agressive for me? you really mean it?
That's one of the things i dont understand.I saw so many guys being called losers and trash just because they are virgin.
The question is "is really a man,a loser just for being a virgin?".I known virgin guys who went and are successfull people.

 

[randomloli]

Bascially, someone to share your experiences with. Unless you're severly autustic or have some other kind of mental illness, you will naturally long for companionship. For some this means staying home watching tv shows all day, for some it's traveling, for some it's kids. This is of course in an ideal relationship which are pretty rare to see today. It was more common before when the world was smaller (no internet). Today people are never happy, especially women, it's never enough.

 

[What the fuck]

Bascially, someone to share your experiences with. Unless you're severly autustic or have some other kind of mental illness, you will naturally long for companionship. For some this means staying home watching tv shows all day, for some it's traveling, for some it's kids. This is of course in an ideal relationship which are pretty rare to see today. It was more common before when the world was smaller (no internet). Today people are never happy, especially women, it's never enough.

yeah i don't know why some people want it all.I can't even have a job or a car.I was looking up nice cars for have them for 10 years,and they cost like 70k dollars or 160k.
And most of the houses cost between 500k and 2 million.
I mean,with those terms,is impossible to reach something.
I dont like college myself.I don't want anything free but,is so hard and impossible for me.Even the rents are expensive.
I heard that in usa a person can make 15000 dollars per year or 25000.
Is so hard.

 

[tiredofthisshit]

have a bond, it's completely natural but people care too much about their point in society these days.

 

[SOCIALSUICIDE]

the real point in a relationship is to ignore the fact that your brain induced chemicals in your blood to make you attracted to other human, decided follow your biological making to procreate and now your being left stranded in a shitty marriage. Real alphas leave their mate and dont provide to their leech of a woman

 

[What the fuck]

the real point in a relationship is to ignore the fact that your brain induced chemicals in your blood to make you attracted to other human, decided follow your biological making to procreate and now your being left stranded in a shitty marriage. Real alphas leave their mate and dont provide to their leech of a woman

Yeah but having the chance of do what you want is so hard and is not for everyone.
Like i said,i would love to have my own independence and things but everything is so damn expensive that i think i should start in a shit hole and noone like that.You know what i mean?
I have basic needs like every guy.Having my own stuff and freedom somehow.For my bad luck,i dont have any of that.
Now i looked for jobs that pay well and for my own surprise,a dentist can make a lot of money in a year.
But i dont like to do something just for the money.And the problem is that i dont like college or majority of careers.
What about you socialsuicide????

 

[purple]

So,i was looking a couple of threads about people asking for help for not being able to get girls,even if they go to the gym.Is completely understandable.
Now,i talk to myself and i wonder what is the real sense of having a relationship.Probably many of you will say WELL,HAVING A PARTNER WHO APRECIATE YOU or maybe HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE THAT LIKES YOU.
So,I'm gonna do this.I will make a list of points from my point of view,and you will tell me if you are agree or not.I will make points starting for letter a) b) c) etc etc....

Having a proper and decent relationship (healthy one) : main points (¿¿??) :

a) Good communication (development of social skills????) -----------------------------------------> AGREE OR NOT?

b) Be with somebody who likes and apreciate you.Someone who show you affection because she feels it. (being loved and cared???) --------------> AGREE OR NOT?

c) Having sex or making love (depending on how you feel and how you see it) with someone that is into you (The girl really want to have sex with you and doesn't expect you,to do something previously for her,to make love) ----------->AGREE OR NOT?

d) Having company and support ------------>SOUNDS CLICHÉ.......AGREE OR NOT?

e) Having good and bad times,including fights and discussions ------------>AGREE OR NOT?

I coudl keep going,but i want to know your troughs guys.Maybe many of you will post answers like "LOW IQ POST".If that's the case,just don't.I'm looking for serious answers.You can think this post isn't serious,but it is for me at least.Thanks for reading.Greetings.

its mostly just making kids, tbh

 

[The Abyss]

Someone to continue your lineage with (not that it matters but ppl put so much enthesis on that it's unreal)

Sex when you want it

Someone to confide in, love & feel loved back

A person that you can be yourself around

Company

A way to avoid societal stigma

Make life easier by splitting responsibilities & having someone there to help you when you're I'll or down


What else is there really?

A man may love a woman but a woman only loves a man for what he can do for her unless her pussy tingles when she looks at him as in that circumstance rationality goes out the window & she's willing to do whatever he wants & he becomes perfect in her eyes for she is in a trance like a bitch in heat wanting to be submissive to him.

 

[What the fuck]

its mostly just making kids, tbh

But before making kids,it must have to be something in the relationship.You can't just have kids with someone you don't know.

You say is mostly just making kids.If thats the only goal,then the rest is a waste of time according to you?

If all the previous things before having kids,is a waste of time,then why to choose to have them?

Because the relationship will be empty without anything.Is just pointless

You can't have kids based on a pointless relationship.That would be the logic idea.

A man may love a woman but a woman only loves a man for what he can do for her.....

I would like to see a woman who earns 100k dollars per year and be with a man who earn half the amount.Would be interesting.Don't you think?

 

[SOCIALSUICIDE]

Yeah but having the chance of do what you want is so hard and is not for everyone.
Like i said,i would love to have my own independence and things but everything is so damn expensive that i think i should start in a shit hole and noone like that.You know what i mean?
I have basic needs like every guy.Having my own stuff and freedom somehow.For my bad luck,i dont have any of that.
Now i looked for jobs that pay well and for my own surprise,a dentist can make a lot of money in a year.
But i dont like to do something just for the money.And the problem is that i dont like college or majority of careers.
What about you socialsuicide????

im at uni so i can join the fbi or other gov agency in a couple of years, careermaxxing statusmaxxing moneymaxx also my family owns a house and they will help me move out when i get my shit together so thats a headstart. im starting to go to gym because of career choise and in my area living with your parents is very common and normal. when i get my independence ill just buy a high quality schoolgirl sexdoll and get rid of my biological needs and probably a dog if it gets unbearably lonely, im used to being alone i already acepted myself. im a natural introvert. after that... idk man world is too cruel. just do what you love.

 

[What the fuck]

im at uni so i can join the fbi or other gov agency in a couple of years, careermaxxing statusmaxxing moneymaxx also my family owns a house and they will help me move out when i get my shit together so thats a headstart. im starting to go to gym because of career choise and in my area living with your parents is very common and normal. when i get my independence ill just buy a high quality schoolgirl sexdoll and get rid of my biological needs and probably a dog if it gets unbearably lonely, im used to being alone i already acepted myself. im a natural introvert. after that... idk man world is too cruel. just do what you love.

gov agency? you want to be in the secret service? you talk about risking your life?

 

[SOCIALSUICIDE]

gov agency? you want to be in the secret service? you talk about risking your life?

SS is too extreme for me

 

[What the fuck]

SS is too extreme for me

i'm sure you checked the outcome (if i say it well) of very well paid jobs.
I found dentists,firefighters,orthodontists,physicians etc etc

 

[Cleftcel]

the ultimate goal of a relationship would be to procreate

 

[What the fuck]

the ultimate goal of a relationship would be to procreate

so then,the main goal of all of us is to try to ignore that natural necessity of procreating.Because then,all relationships are useless if it were not for procreation.

 

[Pinpoint]

Bascially, someone to share your experiences with. Unless you're severly autustic or have some other kind of mental illness, you will naturally long for companionship. For some this means staying home watching tv shows all day, for some it's traveling, for some it's kids. This is of course in an ideal relationship which are pretty rare to see today. It was more common before when the world was smaller (no internet). Today people are never happy, especially women, it's never enough.

never enoug hbecause we relate our happiness with oru community, and how well included we are in it. its human nature. and so when we're unlovedb ecuasep eopel are constnatly materialistic, then so shall we be. it's a vicious cycle.

 

[What the fuck]

never enoug hbecause we relate our happiness with oru community, and how well included we are in it. its human nature. and so when we're unlovedb ecuasep eopel are constnatly materialistic, then so shall we be. it's a vicious cycle.

Then we are doomed.But not everyone want to live in a mansion.Yes,in a nice modern house.Not everyone wants a ferrari or super expensive clothes.Everyone have their own standards.You will be agree with me that,having super watches like rolex,for example,is beyond stupid.

 

[Pinpoint]

Then we are doomed.But not everyone want to live in a mansion.Yes,in a nice modern house.Not everyone wants a ferrari or super expensive clothes.Everyone have their own standards.You will be agree with me that,having super watches like rolex,for example,is beyond stupid.

dad fucking does that. I don't know why. it won't boost your status because people will outsource you in value that show high dominarchical value...
but then his dumbass wants to remain delusional.
so much for the notion that being open minded and worldly wise is something to be appreciated in another.
primal capital matters. if this came from someone his ass extremely pedestalled he might feel anxious about being stupid.


Anyway, the inevitable selectivity and hatred of being unspecial creates these systems of people wanting power.
Where people resitrict themselves to aloof reservaitons instead of being courteous, and patient, and comforting. They know it comes at a price.

 

[What the fuck]

dad fucking does that. I don't know why. it won't boost your status because people will outsource you in value that show high dominarchical value...
but then his dumbass wants to remain delusional.
so much for the notion that being open minded and worldly wise is something to be appreciated in another.
primal capital matters. if this came from someone his ass extremely pedestalled he might feel anxious about being stupid.

If i would have money,i would have my limits.There is no point as having such super cars,tv,super house.Apart of that,i would live alone.Imagine a one person living in a huge condor,or a huge house.Is pointless.
So your dad is beyond superficial.Sorry man.My dad bought me a decent rolex long time ago.A silver one and i love it.And i dont have that necessity of having gold rolex with diamonds.I mean,come on.Have some "roof",have some limits.
I do understand that for many people,enjoying life is equal to having expensive things,or watching girls's asses on the street.To tell you the truth i don't watch girls in streets because is useless.I know that a girl like that would never be with someone like me.And why i would look at her to increase her ego?
Dont get me wrong,i'm not gay.But it is what it is.And is sad.

 

[Cleftcel]

,the main goal of all of us is to try to ignore that natural necessity of procreating

pretty much brother, if you don't want to be overcome with despair

 

[Blacktarpill]

To get some p0si without giving money or being a cuck
(joking btw, i really want to be in a relationship but i don't have an interest in typical sex)

 

[Pinpoint]

If i would have money,i would have my limits.There is no point as having such super cars,tv,super house.Apart of that,i would live alone.Imagine a one person living in a huge condor,or a huge house.Is pointless.
So your dad is beyond superficial.Sorry man.My dad bought me a decent rolex long time ago.A silver one and i love it.And i dont have that necessity of having gold rolex with diamonds.I mean,come on.Have some "roof",have some limits.
I do understand that for many people,enjoying life is equal to having expensive things,or watching girls's asses on the street.To tell you the truth i don't watch girls in streets because is useless.I know that a girl like that would never be with someone like me.And why i would look at her to increase her ego?
Dont get me wrong,i'm not gay.But it is what it is.And is sad.

My dad is superficial and prefers not to be self aware of anything outside of the materialistic society of America. Pretty hilarious existence. Too much stress for some prize that's totally not worth his fucking strain and selfishness he puts on other people and his life. Not really genuine friendships.
His autism prevents him from communications and conferences. And just prefers winning the mwith superficials.
It's sad that what he advocates with his ADHD doesnt't really advocate for an audience of modern sensibilities. The setting lacks all of the essentials that makes a situation normal, appropriate by modern age perception.
THere are those who let happiness get accepted from hidden sources of disinterest, or logisticals, and then there are those who have the moxie to let things improve. Talking about these things often gets screams and tacit pressures that stop people from acknowledging these things.