What is the cutoff for it being "ALL OVER" as incel?

[Zielony4]

Too arbitrary for me to decide. After you get past a year of college, you realize your fate. Statistically though, about ~15 percent of both genders are virgin from 20-24 but 25 and above that drops to a low single digit, so some miracle must happen that time, because the difference between virgins at 25 and life long is very little. Sorry for the brutality  :'( :'( :'(

Most of the dudes who were "incel" who "escaped" were 21, 22, and I heard of some 25-29 year olds elsewhere.

 

[KV3]

It’s gotta be 30. Wizardry is a thing for a reason. No way you could be NT by then.
Plus we have proof that users like @grotesque escaped in twenties

 

[Machiavelli]

if you didn't get laid in college, you can truly say its over over

 

[42cel]

Show me his face after puberty (i.e. around 17/18) and then I'll tell you if it's over.

 

[BlackPill47]

20. Once you're out of mandatory education and have still not been laid; it's over. Only escortceling may save you from that point.

 

[UncannyValley]

The only requirement is to be so ugly that people tend to avoid you, diminish you, mock you, and/or hate you.

 

[Deleted member 1627]

30. If your still a virgin at this age it's probably over

 

[Deleted member 3129]

grotesque lost his virginity at 36, anything is possible!

 

[Hunter]

id say 20. you didnt experience teen love, it would be suicidefuel.

 

[Zielony4]

20. Once you're out of mandatory education and have still not been laid; it's over. Only escortceling may save you from that point.

Isn't that technically under 18/19 ?

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grotesque lost his virginity at 36, anything is possible!

Lucky him  :'(

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Damn, all these votes for 30!

 

[BlackPill47]

Isn't that technically under 18/19 ?

Well I didn't want to specify college/university, as that can take years, kek. It's more about reaching your 20s as an incel. Being out in the 'real world' without being in a set peer group anymore plummets any chances of escape after that point.

 

[Grotesque]

grotesque lost his virginity at 36, anything is possible!

Losing your virginity /= Escaping.

If one makes it to age 23 (and likely before that) as a virgin, they are hopelessly mentally damaged.

 

[Zielony4]

Losing your virginity /= Escaping.

If one makes it to age 23 (and likely before that) as a virgin, they are hopelessly mentally damaged.

Do you have a definition for what escaping is?

 

[BlackPill47]

Do you have a definition for what escaping is?

IMO, it's getting laid without paying for it and becoming a noncel normie with a normal sex life. Many seem to confuse escaping with 'ascending', which is being fully Black Pilled.

 

[Grotesque]

Do you have a definition for what escaping is?

IMO, the point of it being ALL OVER is when you recognize that you're never going to procreate and raise a child in a loving family. That is the sole purpose of life.

Fucking some fatty occasionally doesn't really change anything. Brief validation boosts don't change anything.

 

[Zielony4]

IMO, it's getting laid without paying for it and becoming a noncel normie with a normal sex life. Many seem to confuse escaping with 'ascending', which is being fully Black Pilled.

Sound true... The typical normie life. I used to chase this one guy around r/incels calling him out for pretending to be incel, even though he had sex just once, so wasn't incel by objective standards. Hypocritical. I'd feel upset having sex once and never again.

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IMO, the point of it being ALL OVER is when you recognize that you're never going to procreate and raise a child in a loving family. That is the sole purpose of life.

Fucking some fatty occasionally doesn't really change anything. Brief validation boosts don't change anything.

Sounds good. If only women weren't such cheaters that cuck the guys they marry, then a LTR is what most here would lust after.

True. I'm sorta glad the fat women who pretend to feel sympathy ended up rejecting me in the end.

 

[BlackPill47]

Sound true... The typical normie life. I used to chase this one guy around r/incels calling him out for pretending to be incel, even though he had sex just once, so wasn't incel by objective standards. Hypocritical. I'd feel upset having sex once and never again.

Many incels do equate inceldom to virginity. I think it's more nuanced than that. The great George Sodini was incel for 20 years despite sporadic experience at best prior to that. Escortcels are also largely tolerated as legitimate incels, as there is little personal validation in paying an FHO for sex, who would otherwise not be having sex with that person.

Sure, a one off sexual encounter is something all truecels aspire to, but if it never happens again you're pretty much in the same boat you always were, plus you would likely fucked up by the idea you've failed the only 'audition' you'll ever get. Like Forever Alone, there are degrees of it. Never penetrated/kissed/held hands, etc.

 

[takurak]

Its over the moment you realize you're 2/10.