Ah but what as to my last question: what if she herself could be the leverage for you to get a better option (as foids might look at you differently for the first time)?
You seem to be missing the point, and you just sound delusional when you say stuff like this - "as foids might look at you differently for the first time"
This is just pure cope, stop it
You might as well just say NAWALT while you're at it - "Not All Women Are Like That
"
First off if such a unicorn exists (your imagined better option), she's definitely not settling for a man with below average genetics when she can do better.
Secondly the problem with what I described isn't whether or not a woman
WILL DO IT, its that
EVERY WOMAN HAS THE POWER TO DO IT
The problem is that
SHE WILL ALWAYS HAVE THE POWER TO DO IT
So from that point forward
YOU ARE THE SUBMISSIVE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
There is always a looming threat hanging over your head that will control you your entire life. It will control how you speak to your gf/wife, what you buy her, how often you buy things for her, etc. You'll basically become her bitch but you'll use mental gymnastics to rationalize your servitude and call yourself "the man of the house" lol
Please read over what I said again, power and leverage is what's important. You went straight past that and skipped ahead to - "but what if I use her to get a better option"
Besides that being nothing but coping delusions, that isn't the problem. The problem is that the "better option"
CAN DO THE SAME THINGS AS THE LAST WOMAN IF SHE WANTED TO
SO NOW SHE OWNS YOU BECAUSE SHE CONTROLS YOUR ENTIRE LIFE
All you would be doing when you jump over to your "better option" is transferring ownership from one slave master to another
Whether you are dating or married she controls whether or not you get to have sex
If you get married due to her leveraging sex (which happens often) then now she has even more leverage over you due to your wealth and assets being at risk
If you have children with her (once again, sex is often leveraged for this) she now has even more leverage over you
Every step forward in a relationship today makes men dig themselves deeper and deeper into a ditch in which "their woman" has complete control over them
Your girlfriend or wife are not legally or socially obligated to have sex with you, let that sink in. Why would you even want to bother playing such a game as someone who claims to be black pilled?
Maybe you are one of those desperate and lonely types who wants women for "company" and doesn't mind not having sex (future cuck), but for me interacting with women is solely about sex, so if sex isn't a guarantee I see no point in interacting with them
No woman is so interesting that I would "date" her and basically pay her to spend time with me and eat food lol
I can have interesting conversations with other men