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I was asked in a thread what I would tell my 18-year-old self in order to improve his odds of ascending.

Here it is:

:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:

"Stop reading PUA blog. Yes, you aren't very slick and confident, but there is a reason for it, and it has less to do with your neuro-atypicality, and far more to do with the way your appearance affects the treatment (that is, mistreatment) you've been receiving throughout your whole life.

"Women are not game-sexual, they are looks-sexual, for the most part. "Game" does not get you laid, or at least, not in and of itself - you must pass women's looks threshold. You do not pass it, therefore the issue is not "alpha vs. beta" behavior, but your looks.

"There is a list of things you can do to maximize your looks. Trim the hairs between your eyebrows, for God's sake; use tweezers for long-lasting effect. Get a non-nerd haircut. Look up how you can comfortably apply contact lenses, and use those instead of your unappealing glasses. Also, eventually, you should get a laser surgery and be rid of optical devices for good. Stop dressing with the style of your grandfather; he is a good role-model in many things, but not when it comes to his clothing. You can be extroverted if you like; try it. Get tattoos; it's not as painful as you believe it is, and you are not sensitive to pain anyway. Wear chains with cool pendants. Get yourself a cool watch. Always examine how people your age are dressed, and which devices they wear/use, and try to emulate it. It's doable. Try to be a normie; it's doable. Try marijuana. Buy an electric hair-trimmer and groom a stubble.

"You equate "looks" with "gym muscles." Stop it. Getting ripped can help you, but not by much. Women do not respond to muscles the way you think they do. Yes, you should learn how to lift with proper form, and buy heavier dumbbells than you currently have. But that will not in itself get you laid. But when you do lift, don't improvise; there are enough videos on YouTube explaining how to lift to actually gain muscle. Also, protein powder won't kill you; buy it and use it.

"Instead of being such a shut-in working minimum wage jobs, aim for a profession, and never miss an opportunity to socialize, so you can meet as many men and women as possible. Stop self-segregating yourself from society. Instead, make a list of all the successful things that successful people do, and try to get all of that. You lack a whole lot in your life, so it should be a pretty long list, and it will take a whole lot of time to complete it.

"And here is the most important part: height. That dark cloud constantly hovering over you? It's not your shyness, or introversion, or whatever personality flaws you believe are the cause of your being invisible to women and receiving antagonism from men. It's your height. Height is the number one trait that women find attractive in a man. You know what all the men who get laid have that you don't have? Height. You have been misled to think that the average height is 175, and that you are 174. Nope. You are 171 on a good day, and the average is 177, or in fact, taller than that among your peers. Those 7-9 centimeters you lack in height make all the difference between the way you are treated and the way you can potentially be treated. Look around you. Everyone is significantly taller among your age bracket. You have been led to believe that this is irrelevant. In fact, that is the most relevant thing anyone has ever told you. Height is the key to everything, far more-so than all of the other things combined.

[At this point, I would blackpill myself with all the studies confirming that. Unfortunately, most of these studies would have to travel back in time with me, as they were not available in 2013. I should hope to also take TikTok videos back in time with me]

"So as you can see, height is everything. Yeah, that sucks. Hard. Take the time to reflect on all that information.

"If you take nothing else from all that I've told you, at least take this: Buy elevator shoes and lifting insoles that can be fitted inside shoes. Indeed, buy a collection; make all of your shoes elevator shoes; never wear regular shoes ever again. You can even add 10 centimeters to your height if you like with that method. Try it. You can order them on the internet today, or go to a store not far away from you. You will be so amazed with the results, you will build a time machine to travel into the future just so you can thank me for that single piece of advice. Elevator shoes, plus not disclosing your real height, are the most important and fundamental factor in your ability/inability to get laid. Finally, people will start treating you like a human, and you will no longer be invisible to women; finally, you will start receiving signals from women that they may potentially be interested in you.

"While you need to improve on a whole lot, forget about getting laid without elevator shoes - your odds are insanely low that way. Your height defines you. Your height makes or breaks your ability to attract women, and currently, it never "makes," and always "breaks." You will always be unattractive, you will always be no more than 4/10 on the looks scale, because of your height. You are not attractive enough to girls with options, and girls always have options. But you can at least mitigate the situation by buying elevator shoes and always wearing them, no matter the reduction to comfort. Don't aim for comfort; aim to look like a human and not like a midget. Buy elevator shoes. Height uber alles. It's looks in general above all else, and in your case, as in the case of many men who can't get laid, it is your height that renders you involuntarily celibate more than anything and everything else.

"Buy the shoes, man."

:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
 
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i wouldn't tell myself anytihng cuz i'm not 18 yet
 
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no advice for your genetics
also studymaxxing and moneymaxxing
 
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sexratiocel said:
I was asked in a thread what I would tell my 18-year-old self in order to improve his odds of ascending.
I would tell my 18 year old self to stop being depressed and giving two shits about foids and just have fun playing video games.
kanyepilled said:
i wouldn't tell myself anytihng cuz i'm not 18 yet
kids.is
 
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I would tell myself:

1. Start ACCUTANE NOW. Do it. You will SAVE your life, fuck the 'side effects', the 'side effect' of scars is inceldom.
2. STOP orbiting her (you know who I'm talking about). She never ends up fucking you, or being your gf.
3. Study harder, stop smoking weed, it wastes years of your life
4. Rec drugs are ok once in a while, but do not do it often.
5. Hit the gym
6. Stop ORBITING HER AGAIN. This is your number one mistake in your teenage years.
7. Focus on your male friends , they are the ones that stick around. the female 'friends' are not real friends.
8. buy bitcoin and tesla stock
I really spent about 2 years or more of my life orbiting one stupid chick. FML. she ISNT EVEN THAT HOT now when I look at pics of her. I was OBSESSED. (and she knew it and took advantage, so can't blame myself too much, but I didn't know nature of women back then,)
 
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Get back to work excavating the sub-basement....

 
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I would tell myself to either go to a doctor for HGH (for at least 3cm) or kill myself.
 
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I’ll be 18 in almost 10 months
 
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I agree with everything from the OP except for the tattoos and weed thing (only attractive to trashy women and degenerates)

If I could go back in time, I would:

1 - Provide myself the lottery numbers (duh)
2 - Bring a USB drive with loads of blackpilled content and videos, as well some "redpilled" and mgtow content because why not, and give it to my younger self
3 - Tell myself to forget about women for the time being and focus 100% on getting money, give some career advices and trading tips
4 - Tell myself to not shy away from visiting escorts
5 - Tell myself to save money for surgeries, namely rhinoplasty
6 - Tell myself to gymmax focusing on getting lean first and foremost then bulking
7 - Tell myself to use platform shoes
8 - Tell myself to not approach women unless they give an opening, but to NEVER be a simp
 
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you don't understand..... some people born incel and some people born chad is only genetic you cant evade from inceldom
 
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I would tell my 16 year old self to not drop out of high school, never get fat and slay as much teen pussy as humanely possible otherwise you'll be a bitter 26 year old fat balding looser mentally crippled by lonely teen years
 
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It’s not just height it’s a combination between face and race as well
 
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At 18 it's already more than over unless you are a fakecel and maybe mentalcel to some degree. A childhood and adolescence of humiliation, rejection and being ostracized can't be undone by any amount of words or wisdom
 
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Arabcel9 said:
no advice for your genetics
also studymaxxing and moneymaxxing
Yeap. I agree. You can't change your genetics. So, that's all just a big cope.
 
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kanyepilled said:
i wouldn't tell myself anytihng cuz i'm not 18 yet
kindergarten.co
 
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reminder: the average user is 14 at most
 
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just summarize it in few words,like just be a betabuxx and nothing else actually matters.:feelsthink:
 
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I would tell myself, "Don't ever try to date the foids at your university, go for the ones you meet elsewhere".
kanyepilled said:
i wouldn't tell myself anytihng cuz i'm not 18 yet
You have so much time left to change your life, best of luck to you. :feelscomfy:
 
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investigatorcel said:
you don't understand..... some people born incel and some people born chad is only genetic you cant evade from inceldom
Determinism is really low iq
 
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sexratiocel said:
I was asked in a thread what I would tell my 18-year-old self in order to improve his odds of ascending.

Here it is:

:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:

"Stop reading PUA blog. Yes, you aren't very slick and confident, but there is a reason for it, and it has less to do with your neuro-atypicality, and far more to do with the way your appearance affects the treatment (that is, mistreatment) you've been receiving throughout your whole life.

"Women are not game-sexual, they are looks-sexual, for the most part. "Game" does not get you laid, or at least, not in and of itself - you must pass women's looks threshold. You do not pass it, therefore the issue is not "alpha vs. beta" behavior, but your looks.

"There is a list of things you can do to maximize your looks. Trim the hairs between your eyebrows, for God's sake; use tweezers for long-lasting effect. Get a non-nerd haircut. Look up how you can comfortably apply contact lenses, and use those instead of your unappealing glasses. Also, eventually, you should get a laser surgery and be rid of optical devices for good. Stop dressing with the style of your grandfather; he is a good role-model in many things, but not when it comes to his clothing. You can be extroverted if you like; try it. Get tattoos; it's not as painful as you believe it is, and you are not sensitive to pain anyway. Wear chains with cool pendants. Get yourself a cool watch. Always examine how people your age are dressed, and which devices they wear/use, and try to emulate it. It's doable. Try to be a normie; it's doable. Try marijuana. Buy an electric hair-trimmer and groom a stubble.

"You equate "looks" with "gym muscles." Stop it. Getting ripped can help you, but not by much. Women do not respond to muscles the way you think they do. Yes, you should learn how to lift with proper form, and buy heavier dumbbells than you currently have. But that will not in itself get you laid. But when you do lift, don't improvise; there are enough videos on YouTube explaining how to lift to actually gain muscle. Also, protein powder won't kill you; buy it and use it.

"Instead of being such a shut-in working minimum wage jobs, aim for a profession, and never miss an opportunity to socialize, so you can meet as many men and women as possible. Stop self-segregating yourself from society. Instead, make a list of all the successful things that successful people do, and try to get all of that. You lack a whole lot in your life, so it should be a pretty long list, and it will take a whole lot of time to complete it.

"And here is the most important part: height. That dark cloud constantly hovering over you? It's not your shyness, or introversion, or whatever personality flaws you believe are the cause of your being invisible to women and receiving antagonism from men. It's your height. Height is the number one trait that women find attractive in a man. You know what all the men who get laid have that you don't have? Height. You have been misled to think that the average height is 175, and that you are 174. Nope. You are 171 on a good day, and the average is 177, or in fact, taller than that among your peers. Those 7-9 centimeters you lack in height make all the difference between the way you are treated and the way you can potentially be treated. Look around you. Everyone is significantly taller among your age bracket. You have been led to believe that this is irrelevant. In fact, that is the most relevant thing anyone has ever told you. Height is the key to everything, far more-so than all of the other things combined.

[At this point, I would blackpill myself with all the studies confirming that. Unfortunately, most of these studies would have to travel back in time with me, as they were not available in 2013. I should hope to also take TikTok videos back in time with me]

"So as you can see, height is everything. Yeah, that sucks. Hard. Take the time to reflect on all that information.

"If you take nothing else from all that I've told you, at least take this: Buy elevator shoes and lifting insoles that can be fitted inside shoes. Indeed, buy a collection; make all of your shoes elevator shoes; never wear regular shoes ever again. You can even add 10 centimeters to your height if you like with that method. Try it. You can order them on the internet today, or go to a store not far away from you. You will be so amazed with the results, you will build a time machine to travel into the future just so you can thank me for that single piece of advice. Elevator shoes, plus not disclosing your real height, are the most important and fundamental factor in your ability/inability to get laid. Finally, people will start treating you like a human, and you will no longer be invisible to women; finally, you will start receiving signals from women that they may potentially be interested in you.

"While you need to improve on a whole lot, forget about getting laid without elevator shoes - your odds are insanely low that way. Your height defines you. Your height makes or breaks your ability to attract women, and currently, it never "makes," and always "breaks." You will always be unattractive, you will always be no more than 4/10 on the looks scale, because of your height. You are not attractive enough to girls with options, and girls always have options. But you can at least mitigate the situation by buying elevator shoes and always wearing them, no matter the reduction to comfort. Don't aim for comfort; aim to look like a human and not like a midget. Buy elevator shoes. Height uber alles. It's looks in general above all else, and in your case, as in the case of many men who can't get laid, it is your height that renders you involuntarily celibate more than anything and everything else.

"Buy the shoes, man."

:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:
18 years? already too late for someone posting in incel.is, your only chance was to have a girlfriend before puberty around 10 years old and then keep the relationship at the start of puberty and fuck her while discovering what sex was about.

Then you may luck getting her pregnant and marrying her but you will end up divorce raped at 25 years old anyways because she will find out she can have Chad.
 
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sexratiocel said:
Trim the hairs between your eyebrows
apply contact lenses
get a laser surgery
Stop dressing with the style of your grandfather
Get tattoos
Wear chains with cool pendants
Get yourself a cool watch
Try marijuana
Buy an electric hair-trimmer and groom a stubble.
"You equate "looks" with "gym muscles." Stop it. Getting ripped can help you, but not by much.

TBH op being ripped would probably help more by itself than the sum of all this other bullshit, you're repeating a bunch of "just take a shower inkwell" IT-style propaganda.


sexratiocel said:
you should learn how to lift with proper form, and buy heavier dumbbells than you currently have. But that will not in itself get you laid
Obviously OWNING heavy dumbbells and "learning" proper form won't help: it is the progressive overload which causes muscular growth and fat loss which helps.

Proper form isn't necessary to grow muscles, that's just more about avoiding injuries and being able to accurately measure progressions with a consistent baseline of movement.

sexratiocel said:
when you do lift, don't improvise; there are enough videos on YouTube explaining how to lift to actually gain muscle. Also, protein powder won't kill you; buy it and use it.
"just watch YT" is bad advice because this wouldn't help younger self ferret out the BS lifting advice


sexratiocel said:
"Instead of being such a shut-in working minimum wage jobs, aim for a profession, and never miss an opportunity to socialize, so you can meet as many men and women as possible.
Good life advice, don't know if it would actually lead to relationship fulfillment but probably more wealth/versatility.

sexratiocel said:
make a list of all the successful things that successful people do, and try to get all of that. You lack a whole lot in your life, so it should be a pretty long list, and it will take a whole lot of time to complete it.
too vague

sexratiocel said:
"And here is the most important part: height. That dark cloud constantly hovering over you? It's not your shyness, or introversion, or whatever personality flaws you believe are the cause of your being invisible to women and receiving antagonism from men. It's your height. Height is the number one trait that women find attractive in a man.
This could be true for the majority of women, though I'm not married to the idea.
I think there is at least a significant minority of women who might rank that as #2 to some other kind of criteria (ie face, wealth, ability to intimidate/murder other men, etc)
It's also not something to get tunnel vision over: I don't think there's a single woman in the world who would prefer a pathetic 6'2" guy to a 6'1" guy who mogs him in every single other respect.
It's VERY significant, but also shouldn't blind one to other stuff.

sexratiocel said:
You know what all the men who get laid have that you don't have? Height. You have been misled to think that the average height is 175, and that you are 174. Nope. You are 171 on a good day, and the average is 177, or in fact, taller than that among your peers. Those 7-9 centimeters you lack in height make all the difference between the way you are treated and the way you can potentially be treated. Look around you. Everyone is significantly taller among your age bracket. You have been led to believe that this is irrelevant. In fact, that is the most relevant thing anyone has ever told you. Height is the key to everything, far more-so than all of the other things combined.

[At this point, I would blackpill myself with all the studies confirming that. Unfortunately, most of these studies would have to travel back in time with me, as they were not available in 2013. I should hope to also take TikTok videos back in time with me]

"So as you can see, height is everything. Yeah, that sucks. Hard. Take the time to reflect on all that information.

"If you take nothing else from all that I've told you, at least take this: Buy elevator shoes and lifting insoles that can be fitted inside shoes.
WTF at this cope, are you hoping that this gets your foot in the door to a foid's affections and that she'll stick around after you remove your shoes and are suddenly visibly shorter?

I don't think such deception leads to long-term happiness. You'd see the disappointment, be relying on guilt for a girl to stick around, or maybe somehow that residual feels she got from the perceived height will stick around because she won't want to acknowledge they were height.

Elementary-school trauma for me: wore uncle's suit to a dance, it had shoulder pads. New girl (tall, big tits) into giving me a dance by chads as kind of a joke on her and me. She goes along with it I think to basically show "I'm not afraid to do what you dare me to do" or some bullshit flirtation along those lines...
(I of course didn't find out about this until later, so my bluepilled hopes were high, wanted to believe. She was new, didn't know as many people, I thought perhaps she was actually giving me a chance)
She walks up, looks at my shoulders, asks to dance, then as we set up, comments "wow I never realized your shoulders were so big"
as sort of a "I need to find something nice to say to not be a complete bitch and get a bad reputation for bullying the virgin"
so she picks something kind of like "maybe he's at least ogremaxed" as a compliment/icebreaker
grabs the shoulders, perceives the pads
that fucking droop in expression when she realized they were foam and not muscle: utter suifuel I can never erase
this is why I bought dummbells and started doing lat flies and shit, though I never really got much success from it because my hopes were too dashed to think I could ever amount to anything
it's like a glare of non-existence, a telepathic "you didn't even ogremax to compensate for your face, incel?" if those terms had actually existed in the mid-90s (they didn't)
The only thing that even approached comparing to this was when I smugly tried to impress girls i was grouped with in gym class by climbing a rock wall and got stuck 1/5 the way up.

Removing the platform shoes would be even worse than this, because shortness is permanent. If a foid is that heartbroken seeing I don't have big delts (even though I might hypothetically build them someday, still never got around to it)

sexratiocel said:
Indeed, buy a collection; make all of your shoes elevator shoes; never wear regular shoes ever again. You can even add 10 centimeters to your height if you like with that method. Try it. You can order them on the internet today, or go to a store not far away from you. You will be so amazed with the results

This seems like it would help until you actually got a GF and need to walk around a house in sock feet with her and she realizes it's a lie.
She'd break up with you and start mentioning your secret to all her GFs and you become laughingstock worse than if you never wore them.

sexratiocel said:
Elevator shoes, plus not disclosing your real height, are the most important and fundamental factor in your ability/inability to get laid.
If this got you into a girl's apartment it wouldn't get you into her bed.

You really think girls wouldn't do shit like inspect your shoes while you're taking a piss to notice the lifts, after she perceives the loss of inches in your stature?

sexratiocel said:
Finally, people will start treating you like a human, and you will no longer be invisible to women; finally, you will start receiving signals from women that they may potentially be interested in you.
Only for them to go away once you got any progress, when they realize truth.

It's like telling a bald guy "just wear a wig bro".

Yes it would help in casual interactions but it's not going to help if you got any kind of progressive intimacy.

You're basically trying to play a "Crying Game" where instead of a tranny gambling "once he realizes I'm not actually a girl he'll have feelings for me and not care" you're gambling "once she realizes I'm not short/bald she'll have feelings and not care"

But it doesn't tend to work out like that. Foids might hate the IDEA of rejecting guys for bald/height/etc but they still will, and rationalize it's for other reasons. If they pre-reject for it, it'l lbe "we just didn't click" and if they find out later and post-reject you for it, it'd be for some other reason like "he grew distant" or "he changd" or "I didn't really know him" or "we drifted apart" etc.

sexratiocel said:
forget about getting laid without elevator shoes
OP you are talking as if elevator shoes actually got you laid, but I'm thinking that's probably not the case and you're just idealizing an approach which is more fallible than you think.


sexratiocel said:
you can at least mitigate the situation by buying elevator shoes and always wearing them, no matter the reduction to comfort. Don't aim for comfort; aim to look like a human and not like a midget. Buy elevator shoes
this just seems like setting yourself up for disappointment, like wearing a wig or wearing shoulder pads or how foids wear makeup
it's high-effort for better superficial interactions doomed to fuck your esteem when someone realizes truth and finds reason to reject you for it without even admitting to that being the reason
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5. Hit the gym
too vague
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7. Focus on your male friends , they are the ones that stick around. the female 'friends' are not real friends.
kind of wish I did this but prob was so many guys orbit girls it's hard to find those who value friendship
investigatorcel said:
some people born incel and some people born chad is only genetic you cant evade from inceldom
false dichotomy, there are subchads who get laid/relationships (just much harder and more cucked) there is a continuum of middles

and obviously some choices you make can subtly change situation (ie Chadlites overperform as mid-Chads, mid-Chads underperform as Chadlites, based on life choices) which could infleunce success/happiness for borderlines
 
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You should tell your 18 year old self to immediately use HGH drugs - injectables for the high quality potent stuff.

It may not make you Chad or even normie.

But it will prevent much bullying.

Trust me.

And your career would be better if you are taller but still ugly vs a short piece of shit
 
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Deleted member 35725 said:
I was asked in a thread what I would tell my 18-year-old self in order to improve his odds of ascending.

Here it is:

:blackpill::blackpill::blackpill:

"Stop reading PUA blog. Yes, you aren't very slick and confident, but there is a reason for it, and it has less to do with your neuro-atypicality, and far more to do with the way your appearance affects the treatment (that is, mistreatment) you've been receiving throughout your whole life.

"Women are not game-sexual, they are looks-sexual, for the most part. "Game" does not get you laid, or at least, not in and of itself - you must pass women's looks threshold. You do not pass it, therefore the issue is not "alpha vs. beta" behavior, but your looks.

"There is a list of things you can do to maximize your looks. Trim the hairs between your eyebrows, for God's sake; use tweezers for long-lasting effect. Get a non-nerd haircut. Look up how you can comfortably apply contact lenses, and use those instead of your unappealing glasses. Also, eventually, you should get a laser surgery and be rid of optical devices for good. Stop dressing with the style of your grandfather; he is a good role-model in many things, but not when it comes to his clothing. You can be extroverted if you like; try it. Get tattoos; it's not as painful as you believe it is, and you are not sensitive to pain anyway. Wear chains with cool pendants. Get yourself a cool watch. Always examine how people your age are dressed, and which devices they wear/use, and try to emulate it. It's doable. Try to be a normie; it's doable. Try marijuana. Buy an electric hair-trimmer and groom a stubble.

"You equate "looks" with "gym muscles." Stop it. Getting ripped can help you, but not by much. Women do not respond to muscles the way you think they do. Yes, you should learn how to lift with proper form, and buy heavier dumbbells than you currently have. But that will not in itself get you laid. But when you do lift, don't improvise; there are enough videos on YouTube explaining how to lift to actually gain muscle. Also, protein powder won't kill you; buy it and use it.

"Instead of being such a shut-in working minimum wage jobs, aim for a profession, and never miss an opportunity to socialize, so you can meet as many men and women as possible. Stop self-segregating yourself from society. Instead, make a list of all the successful things that successful people do, and try to get all of that. You lack a whole lot in your life, so it should be a pretty long list, and it will take a whole lot of time to complete it.

"And here is the most important part: height. That dark cloud constantly hovering over you? It's not your shyness, or introversion, or whatever personality flaws you believe are the cause of your being invisible to women and receiving antagonism from men. It's your height. Height is the number one trait that women find attractive in a man. You know what all the men who get laid have that you don't have? Height. You have been misled to think that the average height is 175, and that you are 174. Nope. You are 171 on a good day, and the average is 177, or in fact, taller than that among your peers. Those 7-9 centimeters you lack in height make all the difference between the way you are treated and the way you can potentially be treated. Look around you. Everyone is significantly taller among your age bracket. You have been led to believe that this is irrelevant. In fact, that is the most relevant thing anyone has ever told you. Height is the key to everything, far more-so than all of the other things combined.

[At this point, I would blackpill myself with all the studies confirming that. Unfortunately, most of these studies would have to travel back in time with me, as they were not available in 2013. I should hope to also take TikTok videos back in time with me]

"So as you can see, height is everything. Yeah, that sucks. Hard. Take the time to reflect on all that information.

"If you take nothing else from all that I've told you, at least take this: Buy elevator shoes and lifting insoles that can be fitted inside shoes. Indeed, buy a collection; make all of your shoes elevator shoes; never wear regular shoes ever again. You can even add 10 centimeters to your height if you like with that method. Try it. You can order them on the internet today, or go to a store not far away from you. You will be so amazed with the results, you will build a time machine to travel into the future just so you can thank me for that single piece of advice. Elevator shoes, plus not disclosing your real height, are the most important and fundamental factor in your ability/inability to get laid. Finally, people will start treating you like a human, and you will no longer be invisible to women; finally, you will start receiving signals from women that they may potentially be interested in you.

"While you need to improve on a whole lot, forget about getting laid without elevator shoes - your odds are insanely low that way. Your height defines you. Your height makes or breaks your ability to attract women, and currently, it never "makes," and always "breaks." You will always be unattractive, you will always be no more than 4/10 on the looks scale, because of your height. You are not attractive enough to girls with options, and girls always have options. But you can at least mitigate the situation by buying elevator shoes and always wearing them, no matter the reduction to comfort. Don't aim for comfort; aim to look like a human and not like a midget. Buy elevator shoes. Height uber alles. It's looks in general above all else, and in your case, as in the case of many men who can't get laid, it is your height that renders you involuntarily celibate more than anything and everything else.

"Buy the shoes, man."

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I don't understand how half of what you said would catapult you into the upperstrataum of happiness which you seem to think bro. Without good looks, successful family and genes that gives you height, how would artificially making yourself taller help you? You can't be that much older now. Have you shrunk? If this will get you a good life and eventually help get you a wife, why not do it today...?

No sorry, I don't agree that this love-letter to your former self would really benefit you.

I mean, you do know that when you sleep with a girl, your shoes have to probably come off right? I don't see how height enhancing shoes is going to fool a girl all the way into giving you the sex. Even if it happened, it certainly wouldn't work twice.

Idk man...this is some weird shit your talking brother...
 
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