Serious What extacly does being an incel consist of?

[PuertoRicancel]

Reading threads on this broad I must admit I'm confused. I've seen people say you're not an incel if you have hugged a girl or even if you have female friends. I always though it was not having sex at all (which is why escortcels confuses me). Just looking for clarification since I'm a 26 year old kissless virgin.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Just looking for clarification since I'm a 26 year old kissless virgin.

You're good. Welcome newcel.

Female friends are a nono, and if you've hugs in a sexual way, that also not good (hugging in platonic or social ways is ok).

 

[PuertoRicancel]

I've also seen people say you cannot be an incel if you're ethnic or white.

 

[TheLivingFailure]

I've also seen people say you cannot be an incel if you're ethnic or white.

Avoid those people. They are trying to warp the definition.

 

[Grotesque]

An ugly face and a useless penis.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I've also seen people say you cannot be an incel if you're ethnic or white.

Any race can be incel.

 

[Evildoer]

I'm a 26 year old kissless virgin.

That describes everything. Welcome.

 

[towncel]

You're good. Welcome newcel.

Female friends are a nono, and if you've hugs in a sexual way, that also not good (hugging in platonic or social ways is ok).

 

[Colly]

Being a lifetime celibate (escorts don't count) involuntarily. Also having never been in a relationship unless you managed to be so cucked you didn't have sex once, which couldn't really even be classified as a relationship.

 

[PuertoRicancel]

Being a lifetime celibate (escorts don't count) involuntarily. Also having never been in a relationship unless you managed to be so cucked you didn't have sex once, which couldn't really even be classified as a relationship.

How can escorts not count? I've met people who were born from one night stand by their father seeing an escort and I doubt he could claim it didn't count because he paid for sex.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Strongly desiring romantic relations with females, having tried achieving them but failed to, that is the minimum requirement. If you want it, can't get it, but have had it before it's debateable if you're an incel.

 

[Colly]

How can escorts not count? I've met people who were born from one night stand by their father seeing an escort and I doubt he could claim it didn't count because he paid for sex.

Well the literal definition is obvious, but everyone has the option to pay for sex with an escort and that would mean everyone's a volcel by not doing so.

 

[Bagelcel]

There's incels on here that aren't virgins, that have gotten laid in the past but can't get laid now due to certain traits.
Some people are more truecel than others, you're defo on the more truecel side for sure being a kissless virgin at 26.

 

[Haircutbro]

For me an Incel is someone who cant get laid, and has no deeper connection to females what so ever
A guy who had sex and has female friends, that only use him, or dont care about him on a true level, can still be incel
Of course if you have sex several times a year i would not call you incel, but for me an incel is just a person who cant connect to females, and a person who females dont like/take serious etc

 

[Fullofhate]

You're good. Welcome newcel.

Female friends are a nono, and if you've hugs in a sexual way, that also not good (hugging in platonic or social ways is ok).

WTF is a "sexual hug"?

 

[StormlitAqua]

WTF is a "sexual hug"?

Hugging a hot thot and her reciprocating, hugging a potential or actual GF.

 

[Fullofhate]

Hugging a hot thot and her reciprocating, hugging a potential or actual GF.

Oh. Not me then. Nevermind.

 

[PuertoRicancel]

Hugging a hot thot and her reciprocating, hugging a potential or actual GF.

Thanks for clearing that up. At first I was like what the heck is that. I guess you meant a romantic hug

 

[CopingGymcel]

When you can't get sex from a willing female within 1-2 points of your own rating (less the lower your own rating is, e.g 4 with 3). I'm a KV at 27, who is invisible to women, that's pretty damn incel.