Serious What even are my options at this point?

[Tension]

I'm 20 now, I've never had sex, never even kissed, and at this point I don't even give a shit anymore about wasting my time trying to get a girlfriend; a girlfriend who will probably cheat on me at any given opportunity anyway. If I haven't had any luck by 20 then it's never going to happen. I'm already too far lost, a no-hoper.

I'm wondering, where do I go from here? Any serious advice on how I should cope now? I've considered a few options:

Do I stay in college and try to get a degree? - To boost my status, income etc.

Do I go low-inhib? - Just say "fuck it all" and give everyone the cold-shoulder and try to work on coping with being independent?

Do I run gay/trap game? - While this option would be fucking pathetic, honestly I'm that desperate to feel any kind of love I'd try and go for it if I absolutely had to. If there is any advantage at all to how I look, it's that I think I can pull off being a trap quite well. I'm short, small-framed, feminine facial features...

...I can't believe I just wrote all that. Look at what my life-long loneliness and rejection has lead me to. How truly saddening.

LDAR? - And just cope until I eventually rope?

Anything else?

 

[Ritalincel]

go eee ahh

 

[TheRealCaamib]

Have you tried going to a place like Philippine or Ukraine to find a sane, non-feminist wife? Why would you even want to be around manure like modern Western women?

 

[Nakuro]

ER bruh ve a hERo

 

[Tension]

Have you tried going to a place like Philippine or Ukraine to find a sane, non-feminist wife? Why would you even want to be around manure like modern Western women?

Sadly I can't really afford it at the moment, but it is something I've considered for the future. Honestly I'd feel a bit guilty if I went to the Philippines or something because if I scored with an Asian woman there I'd just be creating another incel in that country and enabling them to be race-traitors, you know?

 

[StormlitAqua]

I was at the same mentality when I was 20, that's when I first swallowed the blackpill.

I recommend staying in college, if you have a good/useful major (what is your major?). The money is fucking awesome. I can cope really well with my situation, which is very similar to yours. It's the best way to ignore the fact that a woman hasn't loved you in almost a quarter of a century of your life.

Low inhib doesn't work, unless you are good looking. If you are low inhib and not good looking, people will be afraid of you and you wont find a GF that way. Nofap is commonly associated with low-inhib. The only thing its good for is energy tbh, it won't fix your subhumanity.

Don't run trap game, fags/traps should be exterminated.

 

[TheRealCaamib]

Sadly I can't really afford it at the moment, but it is something I've considered for the future. Honestly I'd feel a bit guilty if I went to the Philippines or something because if I scored with an Asian woman there I'd just be creating another incel in that country and enabling them to be race-traitors, you know?

You wouldn't create another incel since there are millions more women than men there. Also, what do you care if you create one? Who is more important to you, yourself or some rando you have never ever seen nor will you see them? As for being a race traitor, I don't oppose miscegenation in all cases so I can't really relate to that. In any case, don't hold race in such a high importance. You no longer being incel is what matters more than race. I can understand the race part and am a racial separatist but here you have no choice. White women are too far gone.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

If you don't care what happens or what you catch then go for whores.

 

[Tension]

I was at the same mentality when I was 20, that's when I first swallowed the blackpill.

I recommend staying in college, if you have a good/useful major (what is your major?). The money is fucking awesome. I can cope really well with my situation, which is very similar to yours. It's the best way to ignore the fact that a woman hasn't loved you in almost a quarter of a century of your life.

Low inhib doesn't work, unless you are good looking. If you are low inhib and not good looking, people will be afraid of you and you wont find a GF that way. Nofap is commonly associated with low-inhib. The only thing its good for is energy tbh, it won't fix your subhumanity.

Don't run trap game, fags/traps should be exterminated.

Yeah, college is probably the best chance I have. I'm doing ICT, Networking and Programming, and probably going to continue that for another year. Sure beats the hell out of being a NEET, and you're right it does have good pay, granted I get a good job out of it.

As for low-inhib and trap game, I'll consider your advice to stay away from them.

Thanks for taking the time to write a response, I appreciate it man.

You wouldn't create another incel since there are millions more women than men there. Also, what do you care if you create one? Who is more important to you, yourself or some rando you have never ever seen nor will you see them? As for being a race traitor, I don't oppose miscegenation in all cases so I can't really relate to that. In any case, don't hold race in such a high importance. You no longer being incel is what matters more than race. I can understand the race part and am a racial separatist but here you have no choice. White women are too far gone.

I guess? I dunno, maybe I really should take a more "survival of the fittest / climb to the top of the ladder" approach. Oh and absolutely, in regards to white women being far too gone. Have been aware of that for a long time. But thanks for the advice, I might consider it.

 

[StormlitAqua]

Yeah, college is probably the best chance I have. I'm doing ICT, Networking and Programming, and probably going to continue that for another year. Sure beats the hell out of being a NEET, and you're right it does have good pay, granted I get a good job out of it.

As for low-inhib and trap game, I'll consider your advice to stay away from them.

Thanks for taking the time to write a response, I appreciate it man.

If you can get an internship in college, do that. That's the best path to getting a job, even if you have to work for a tiny wage (don't work for free, that's gay). Your major sounds STEM related, so you should be pretty good regarding pay. Now money doesn't mean anything at our age for attracting women unless you are a millionaire, but you can cope really well with said money. For example, I just bought my own house and moved out of my parents' house, giving freedom. Top-tier gaming PC and 4k tv/monitors for coping. A couple custom made guitars. These are the things that will keep you from roping. If you are not good looking, these nothing really you can do to make anything better, so you just have to survive and hope you get lucky.

 

[kekboi]

If you can get an internship in college, do that. That's the best path to getting a job, even if you have to work for a tiny wage (don't work for free, that's gay). Your major sounds STEM related, so you should be pretty good regarding pay. Now money doesn't mean anything at our age for attracting women unless you are a millionaire, but you can cope really well with said money. For example, I just bought my own house and moved out of my parents' house, giving freedom. Top-tier gaming PC and 4k tv/monitors for coping. A couple custom made guitars. These are the things that will keep you from roping. If you are not good looking, these nothing really you can do to make anything better, so you just have to survive and hope you get lucky.

High IQ post. Listen to this guy

Also imo trying to go low-inhib can help you to a certain degree. It might not help with females, but you should be able to stand up for yourself. Helps to find friends as well if you are able to initiate friendship

 

[StillBitter]

20 is still young as hell. Unless you are flat out deformed there still may be hope. Stay in college for shure because you are more likely to meet femods there and even if you don't it's better to be an incel who has a good job and money than one without.

 

[GreenBull]

I'm 20 now, I've never had sex, never even kissed, and at this point I don't even give a shit anymore about wasting my time trying to get a girlfriend; a girlfriend who will probably cheat on me at any given opportunity anyway. If I haven't had any luck by 20 then it's never going to happen. I'm already too far lost, a no-hoper.

I'm wondering, where do I go from here? Any serious advice on how I should cope now? I've considered a few options:

Do I stay in college and try to get a degree? - To boost my status, income etc.

Do I go low-inhib? - Just say "fuck it all" and give everyone the cold-shoulder and try to work on coping with being independent?

Do I run gay/trap game? - While this option would be fucking pathetic, honestly I'm that desperate to feel any kind of love I'd try and go for it if I absolutely had to. If there is any advantage at all to how I look, it's that I think I can pull off being a trap quite well. I'm short, small-framed, feminine facial features...

...I can't believe I just wrote all that. Look at what my life-long loneliness and rejection has lead me to. How truly saddening.

LDAR? - And just cope until I eventually rope?

Anything else?

I'm 21, and masculine. You go trans and I'll marry you.

 

[Barry]

If you can get an internship in college, do that. That's the best path to getting a job, even if you have to work for a tiny wage (don't work for free, that's gay). Your major sounds STEM related, so you should be pretty good regarding pay. Now money doesn't mean anything at our age for attracting women unless you are a millionaire, but you can cope really well with said money. For example, I just bought my own house and moved out of my parents' house, giving freedom. Top-tier gaming PC and 4k tv/monitors for coping. A couple custom made guitars. These are the things that will keep you from roping. If you are not good looking, these nothing really you can do to make anything better, so you just have to survive and hope you get lucky.

HIGH IQ Post.

Exact advice I'd give.

Look, you're only 20. Believe it or not, that's not old or past it.

Don't get me wrong, if you were going to be a superchad then you'd know already because you'd be banging hundreds of chicks at college.

But that doesn't mean you can't have a great life and you should build one that you want - especially if girls aren't into you.

You can still make a ton of money. You can get a nice place to live (away from criminal scum and close to places you like going) and you can spend your money and invest it and have a great time.

I haven't been on a date (fucking lol) in years and I'm not attractive so I can't see that changing, but I still have a ball of a time. I eat what I want, go out when I want, do whatever hobbies I want.

Who knows, you might actually end up getting a girl later, but basically just live a life that makes you happy without that anyway

 

[justenditall]

where do I go from here?

your options are rope or go ER.
everything else is a cope that does nothing but delay the decision, but eventually you will have to take it.
well you can also try to postpone the decision forever. in that case you will just cope until you die alone, which really isnt all that different from going straight for the rope.

but yeah, either you decide to take it out on others (ER) or you take it out on yourself (rope). the choice is yours, and you have the entire rest of your life to think about which option to pick.

 

[albie]

How about you consider how lucky you are not to have some surface dwelling superficial cat faced woman in your life. With their shit music tastes and bad clothes. Don't fall for the desire to procreate that the body is torturing you with.

I make music, violent art and devote my time to watching horror films.

Here's an example of my art...

 

[kekboi]

How about you consider how lucky you are not to have some surface dwelling superficial cat faced woman in your life. With their shit music tastes and bad clothes. Don't fall for the desire to procreate that the body is torturing you with.

OMEGACope.
You will still be reminded of your inceldom everday while walking the streets and seeing couples cross your path. You can just make the rest of your life less shitty.

 

[Firefly]

go eee ahh

 

[FuckFace]

If you're in STEM definitely go for a degree.

Do NOT try to get a regular job, try to get a job where you're surrounded by geeks if you can.

Do NOT try to fit in with normals, they have a 1000x higher threshold for degenerate behavior than you think.

 

[Dopeycel]

20 is young as fuck tbh.

 

[Nunu]

Lol, you're only 20. Wait til your 22 at least.

 

[Adamski]

I don't know. To me as a 25 year old, 20 seems so young, but looking back I was probably too far gone at that age. Its only got worse and worse each year.

 

[JovanD]

Do what i did and find a decent enough tranny gf.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Sad man. I was incredibly pubertycel-looking at 20 (mistaken for 14) and dropped out of university and never went back to study. I just work in a factory today earning next to minimum wage. I can never go back, its too expensive now and I'm too old to pursue a career that favours young people. I have been neet for long periods too, and sometimes I feel I should go total NEET/welfarecel by being mentally ill and never work again.

Filipino sex tourism? Plenty of small, femimine-featured men in E.Asia than can get non-ugly, petite fuckable women. With you being white you can be a novelty and carry some status. Might not be your first choice, but anything's better than playing cuck with a fat british landwhale way way past its prime.

Apart from never fucking whales, you should make sure you do not become homeless.. escortcel if you have really no other options. Life will pass you by so fast bud. I'm 41 and it seemed only like a few years ago that I was 20. It was over two decades ago now and it has passed so fast. I feel like a perma-adolescent.