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Blackpill What doesn't kill you makes you much, much weaker

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When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 14. Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at work, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.
 
The goal of being ugly is to become a sociopath tbhtbh.
 
This is a great post. I feel for you.
 
The goal of being ugly is to become a sociopath tbhtbh.
Good luck adjusting your brain to a nonsensical jewish psychological theory and then rotting in jail for the rest of your life
 
High IQ. There's a point where you can't carry on anymore and have no resilience or motivation. It goes: Happy>resilient>breaking down>LDAR>rope
 
Can relate so much to you bro. "What doesn't kill you makes you stronger" is a fucking disgusting comforting lie. Successful people usually didn't fail or suffer that much as they say (to brainwash unsuccessful ones to work harder so that they can be lifetime slaves), they got positive experiences and feedbacks to strengthen their confidence, they're much less likely to feel insecure or have high social inhibition than people who went through so much pain and struggle.
 
for an incel drugs are the only reasons to live
 
Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.
You don't see many chads freaking out because they're late to work, that's a sub6 problem.
 
You don't see many chads freaking out because they're late to work, that's a sub6 problem.
This.

I freak out over the smallest irritations - can't find my towel where it was supposed to be, the train not coming on time, internet connection is slower than usual. A normal person doesn't even register things such as these, cause they have a party waiting for them at 9pm.
 
The goal of being ugly is to become a sociopath tbhtbh.
can agree.

Anyone who says what doesn't kill you makes you stronger has never suffered a land-mine injury. Yeah, lol, go step on a land mine, and tell me, if you survive, that you're stronger.
 
When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 14. Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at work, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

Cope

Putin was bullied in school. Then he KGBmaxxed :feelzez:
This.

I freak out over the smallest irritations - can't find my towel where it was supposed to be, the train not coming on time, internet connection is slower than usual. A normal person doesn't even register things such as these, cause they have a party waiting for them at 9pm.
Relatable tbh
 
When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 14. Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at work, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

Glad to see this has been stickied
 
I freak out over the smallest irritations - can't find my towel where it was supposed to be, the train not coming on time, internet connection is slower than usual. A normal person doesn't even register things such as these, cause they have a party waiting for them at 9pm.
High iq. It's like someone carrying 200 pounds of weight and people start throwing more little weights at them.
 
When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 14. Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at work, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.
It's an evil way how the world works, all that had it bad will have it worse, while those who had good will have it better. If you dicked a girl in your early teens your confidence will shoot through the roof, you will be happier and relaxed all through out your youth, your status will spike, all will lead to more fortune. Then if you missed out you will be sad and frustrated, zero confidence, will be seen as a loser so your status will plummet which all leads to further doom:feelsrope:
 
I think there is perfect quote from that.
"What doesn't kill you makes you stranger" - Joker from The Dark Knight. I believe that 100%. All the hardships I suffered in life sometimes made me weaker, sometimes a little bit stronger but ALWAYS it made me less normal.
 
Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life.
This really hits home
 
Maybe yes, and maybe no. Some hardship is necessary to not be a fuckin npc, but if you push over that thin edge called sanity that’s when problems arise.
 
Bookmarked because I agree.
for an incel drugs are the only reasons to live
If you have enough contacts to get drugs you're a fakecel tbh.
 
Exactly. As a kid I had some endurance with being bullied, rejected, excluded, frustrated, having to put effort into things I don't like, etc. Now all of that is pretty much gone.

When someone comes to pick on me I HAVE to ignore it and move away or else either I or the person will end up dead at this point.

What really makes you stronger is leading a happy life full of positive experiences and positive reinforcements. I see this so clearly when I look at people I know.
 
Bullying ruined the one thing I was good at, and that was studying. Once my teacher told me I could've gone to Oxford or Cambridge. But now I rot in my room and I'll never be able to live that dream.
 
Always nice to see mods actually pinning good threads.
 
What does not kill you, makes you tronger is the only phrase, which is true. This is how nature works. Go to the gym, train your muscles, almost kill yourself and you will become stronger, just like a real Saiyan.
 
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Bullying ruined the one thing I was good at, and that was studying. Once my teacher told me I could've gone to Oxford or Cambridge. But now I rot in my room and I'll never be able to live that dream.
My maths teacher at elementary school used to bully me a lot, making fun of me in front of the whole class. This made me suck at maths my entire life tbh.
 
There is a sentence that is said in my country when people return from war/trauma:

"Some die, some became like that"

You could adapt that to inceldom:

"Some became incel, some go ER."
 
If it wasn’t for my suffering I’d still be unable to live a normal and fufiling life. For as long as I can remember I’ve been an outcast and a target for cruelty. That pain was my education, it brought my shadow to the surface and removed the veil that my parents and family members drapped over my eyes. I see people, events, mindsets, and life for what they really are because of my suffering. I’ve dropped the morality that has been my greatest limitation and caused me so much trouble in the past. I now have the knowledge and the courage to set things right
 
What does not kill you, makes you tronger is the only phrase, which is true. This is how nature works. Go to the gym, train your muscles, almost kill yourself and you will become stronger, just like a real Saiyan.

bullshit, if you train really hard = overtrain yourself, you will lose muscles
 
what doesn't kill you makes you stronger is another bluepill cope, it could be true in some case physically like doing exercise but things like trying to kill you mentally like bullying is false, bullying is just as worse as murder.
 
When I look back on my life, all the tribulations and hardships I've endured I've come to the conclusion that every single one of them destroyed my soul a little bit inside. I never gained anything from being called ugly, I never gained anything from being socially excluded, I never gained anything from being awkward. I've only missed out on teenage life, on college life, on friendships, on relationships. I had a hard life and I'm 10000x weaker now than I was when I was 14. Back then I got teased in hs and had no friends, but was strong enough to endure and to say that I'm gonna come out of it alive and not let it get to me. Right now when I'm teased at work, after years of the same bullshit, I don't even have the courage to even react. I overthink shit and think about suicide all the time. I cant stand hardships anymore. I can't... I will chimp out and/or sui.I'm not even a shadow of my former self anymore, I just don't care anymore.

I've noticed similar things with different people I knew. Guys who were bullied, excluded, made fun of never really achieved anything later in life. They were much, much worse as adults. Depressed, empty, suicidal. I do not know one exception to this rule. Meanwhile the Chads and Stacies are doing just as well as they did before. Some less so than others, but in general, the lucky and beautiful and dominant are lucky and beautiful and dominant now. And stronger as well, cause if something bad happens, they know they lived through decades of joy and fun so they would endure it.

Excellent post. Today I wouldn't be able to endure what I had to 10 years ago, I´m pretty sure I would do something really crazy. I don't feel actually weaker, but tired and without any reason to cope. The more I got bullied, the faster my patience was eroded and I retaliated in an increasingly violent way. Good experiences and healthy socialization are actually what give people strength and balance, not their opposites.

Now I fully appreciate why they say "beautiful outside and inside". Handsome people have none of the mental derangements that uglier people develop in order to continue living, therefore their personalities are also more pleasant as a consequence. A new and unused shovel will always look better than a scratched and caked up with dirt shovel.
 
legit.

But I think it also makes you appreciate the good things in life much more than other people. Like I get really excited over certain experiences that normies would consider trivial.
 
bullshit, if you train really hard = overtrain yourself, you will lose muscles

This statement was made up by weaklings to avoid training. You have to go full Rich Piana.
 
Truth af, my mind is in such pitiful state that I can't even enjoy anything today, that's what years of bullying amounted to. High school was brutal af and absolute ERfuel.
 
Fuck. Agreed 100%. Ive never seen this put into words before.. needs to be stickied forever

There is no justice in this world. We all start at baseline when we’re born. Your trajectory is either up or down starting from infancy... You can’t change its course no matter what you do.. some events will shoot someone even higher up, and will send someone even further down.. the size of your skeleton determines which one you are.
 
Exactly. As a kid I had some endurance with being bullied, rejected, excluded, frustrated, having to put effort into things I don't like, etc. Now all of that is pretty much gone.

When someone comes to pick on me I HAVE to ignore it and move away or else either I or the person will end up dead at this point.

What really makes you stronger is leading a happy life full of positive experiences and positive reinforcements. I see this so clearly when I look at people I know.
This. Or I'll end up being arrested again and again...
 
What doesnt kill you makes you Ted Bundy
 

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