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Experiment what do you think the worst emotion to feel is?

feelsbadman32

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I'd say shame, loneliness and envy are the trifecta of worst, most soul eating emotions known, and they really all go together. Shame creates loneliness and envy
 
True regret.
 
obsession
 
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depression and anxiety.
 
Tell that to Sarge
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Helplessness, is that an emotion?
 
For me it's regret from missed opportunities followed closely by the pain of loss and the feeling of complete hopelessness.
 
Wrath and anxiety.
Or well, from all the really devastating and terrible emotions, these two are the ones I myself have most often to struggle with.
Both can be utterly shattering. Anxiety I found to be even worse, though. Anxiety can feel like suffocating and vomiting, while wrath can feel like your blood is literally boiling and you want to pull out your own hair.
 
Fear. Sort of like when you remember that death is around the corner at some point and that you will NEVER return from it. Ever.
 
Embarrassment.
 
Nobody is talking about false hope. Literally waste your life away only to have them say it doesn’t apply to you. I remember Orbiting my oneistis and have her walk away with Chad
 
The extreme form of nostalgia where you remember a better time to the point that it makes you feel sick. I used to sometimes dream about a former very happy time in my life, and waking up fell like sinking into quicksand and drowning, the realisation that you're in current reality and there's no way back.

Alternative would be deep dread, like you're about to fail your university course or something with the largest stakes up until that point in your life, that's a dark feeling.

The thing is dread, shame, etc all fade as you get older because you've already lost games with high stakes and your life is worth less generally. You've taken hits and they don't hit, the one that never leaves you or gets better is painful nostalgia.
 
The extreme form of nostalgia where you remember a better time to the point that it makes you feel sick. I used to sometimes dream about a former very happy time in my life, and waking up fell like sinking into quicksand and drowning, the realisation that you're in current reality and there's no way back.

Alternative would be deep dread, like you're about to fail your university course or something with the largest stakes up until that point in your life, that's a dark feeling.

The thing is dread, shame, etc all fade as you get older because you've already lost games with high stakes and your life is worth less generally. You've taken hits and they don't hit, the one that never leaves you or gets better is painful nostalgia.
it's true, incels have dread and despair on a level normies would never understand
 
That's the one that beckons the rope...

I don't know if "helplessness" is its own emotion, because you could be "helpless" about how angry you are, or how sad you are, or how much you yearn for someone.
 
Cringe. Looking back at the past and remembering something you think is cringy is the worst feeling. Cringe and regret together
 
An awareness of unfulfilled desire.
 
getting betrayed and having no chance of revenge, you will forever blame yourself and will harm u permanently
 
loneliness, despair and regret are my top 3
 
Embarrassment without a doubt.
 
For me it's regret from missed opportunities followed closely by the pain of loss and the feeling of complete hopelessness.
Yeah, I'd go along with hopelessness.
 
The constant need to keep fighting every turn you go
 
Regret by far. I have fucked myself up so hard from the pain of regret of missed opportunities. Once it was so bad I couldn't eat for weeks. I had to force myself to drink energy drinks and ice creams and lost heaps of weight and was very suicidal. My mind began trapped in the past. My brain stopped functioning normally like it could no longer operate at a high capacity and I was aware that I had become very low IQ. I felt nothing but pain and the only time I felt slight relief was when I was sleeping.

I escaped the hell by starting mixed martial arts classes. During the 1 hour of brazilian jiu jitsu lessons I would forget what was going on, like there was a gap in my constant stream of negative thoughts. Overtime that 1 hour gap became a bit longer and longer and eventually I spent more time having normal thoughts than regret thoughts.
 
Regret by far. I have fucked myself up so hard from the pain of regret of missed opportunities. Once it was so bad I couldn't eat for weeks. I had to force myself to drink energy drinks and ice creams and lost heaps of weight and was very suicidal. My mind began trapped in the past. My brain stopped functioning normally like it could no longer operate at a high capacity and I was aware that I had become very low IQ. I felt nothing but pain and the only time I felt slight relief was when I was sleeping.

I escaped the hell by starting mixed martial arts classes. During the 1 hour of brazilian jiu jitsu lessons I would forget what was going on, like there was a gap in my constant stream of negative thoughts. Overtime that 1 hour gap became a bit longer and longer and eventually I spent more time having normal thoughts than regret thoughts.
regret is terrible yes, i'd still say shame is the worst though because it's more than an emotion, it's an affliction, a state of being that's constant "shame is a soul eating emotion" Carl Jung
 
regret is terrible yes, i'd still say shame is the worst though because it's more than an emotion, it's an affliction, a state of being that's constant "shame is a soul eating emotion" Carl Jung

Yeah shame is probably harder to transform because regret often has a sudden catalyst but shame is usually due to a negative belief about oneself that has developed over time and the person may not even be aware of the core belief that is causing the feeling.

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Shame, because it's always there.
 

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