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Serious What do you guys want from life and how are you managing the problem of being an incel vs your family and friend's expectations?

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fuck_ITcucks

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Personally, my life has always been utter shit, like for most of it I've been consistently bullied everywhere I've been, even at my own house by my family. The upside is that, unlike normies, I can't afford to just go with the flow and do as told all the time, since I have to do extra stuff to make my life half-decent, so I have a very clear plan of what I want from life that I've been working on for several years. Basically, the end goal for me would be to be safe in terms of consistently having food and a roof, a loving gf with a real, non-betabux, non-cucked relationship (which is really rare, ITers love to say "just go out and see the couples" but most relationships suck for the guys), not having to work 9-5, and being able to afford stuff like going on a trip once in a while, and to be able to mentally recover from how shit my life has been so far.

That's it, it's not much, but it'd make me happy, and idc about anyone else's definition of success. The only far fetched thing about it is the real relationship, but I'll either find one by looksmaxxing or rope.

As to the 9-5, honestly, I don't see myself doing it all my life, it's horrible. Anyone who can stand it is just brainwashed and used to it imo. When I have fulfilled more urgent objectives (like not being so lonely) I'll look for ways to handle that and will do whatever it takes, which will probably be something illegal, since most people are obedient so illegal ways to make money should be less saturated. But I really don't know, maybe I'm just coping and will wagecuck all my life :feelsrope:

As to how I handle being incel... Tbh I mostly pretend to be a bluepilled guy looking to betabux, since I know no one is going to question that. Aka I pretend to friends and relatives that I'm a bluepilled idiot who wastes his life working and is looking to betabux a woman who got tired of having fun with superior men. Imagine being so pathetic lmao, but it's socially accepted so it works to just say that.

How about you boyos :feelsrope:
 
What fiends?

My family wants me to die.

I wanna die. My expectations is to wagecuck until i'm brave enough
 
I WANT A DECENT LIFE
DECENT JOB, HOUSE, WIFE AND KIDS
THATS ALL I ASK
I DONT WANT TO BE RICH OR FAMOUS, I WANT TO BE HAPPY
 
I WANT A DECENT LIFE
DECENT JOB, HOUSE, WIFE AND KIDS
THATS ALL I ASK
I DONT WANT TO BE RICH OR FAMOUS, I WANT TO BE HAPPY
same
 
What i truly want , isn't possible. What i want from life rn is to just enjoy a few years of neetdom without financial issues and then a painless death , Like dying in my sleeps.

Family and friends expectations , i just try not to think about it. I can see it being a problem in the future
 
What i truly want , isn't possible. What i want from life rn is to just enjoy a few years of neetdom without financial issues and then a painless death , Like dying in my sleeps.

Family and friends expectations , i just try not to think about it. I can see it being a problem in the future
shit man that's so fucking brutal, I'm so sorry

aren't you a youngcel though? it's sad to see a brocel's life being destroyed so early

:feelsbadman: :cryfeels::feelscry:
 
i want to die, literally that's it.

but i don't have the balls to rope
 
I want girlfriend
my own place
and people to generally respect me and treat me as an adult
but i am a 5'6 manlet who sounds like a kid
 
I just want to spread the gospel
 
I just want to spread the gospel
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your avi suggests otherwise
 
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I think with effort I could better my life in the eyes of the world, but all the achievements seem and feel so empty and dull, especially after having (fore)tasted the glory of God. Since I'm anhedonic, want to be alone 80% of the time (I don't know if because of conditioning or mental deviations) and having some reproductive health issues, I don't know if a wife would be really the best idea. I don't know if I would approach life with a better likable appearance, personality and some real talents different, but now my view is more or less fixed on the Lord and Eternity, some copes like this forum and music and that I don't break down in my job because overwhelming demands sometimes.
But tbh, would be nice if there would be an "exit" or at least a "fast forward" button.
 
I've been consistently bullied everywhere I've been,
my family despises me ,some friends of my fathers saying hes 21 still doesnt have a girlfriend!,ı lashed out to that piece of shit,he was 65 years old faggot,my mother even said i was autistic while im fucking not,but if im angry they wont do shit to me,if im a good person my family will shit on me forever,fucking hell they are retarded boomers

once my father said ı have to less friends,well father maybe thats because ı was getting bullied and ostracized everwhere ı go ,and my abusive upbringing with a horrible childhood didnt helped,still think im too childhish cuz ı dont want or need to prove myself that ım grown up and drink shit and smoke cigs,ım not that kind of person

ı always hang out with my parentss friends cuz ı got none

also some whore roastie told me ı would get girlfriend post pics to instagram smoke cigaretes and shit ,ıll never listen to sociatel norms just like that :feelscry:

ı think inceldom is more than justs sex,girlfriends,its about being bullied by everyone your entire life

what ı want from life,ı dont specifically want a gf but itd be good to fuck someone,ı dont specifically want to have friends but it would be fun to hang out with them,ı just want to be happy

ıd chose a good friend circle agains a good looking girl,everthing isnt about a girl, a girlfriend wouldnt solve all your problems copers
 
Friend's expectations :feelshaha:
Wait you guys really have friends ? :feelswhat:
 
tbh I want Isekai
 
Goal is to max out on copes by devoting myself into hobbymaxxing and relaxmaxxing.
 
My only goal in life was to have kids so I could give them the life I never had but I know that will never happen, my goal know is get a job work for a few years, lose my virginity to a escort at 33 then kill myself and leave a trail of pain and misery behind so society can get a feel for what they put me through.


My family attitude towards life is nothing will change so enjoy the small things then wait for death, my family is broken in alot of ways so I get it and as for friends have not had any since I was a kid and even then it's only 4.
 
In life I want a decent job, wife, my own family, and hopefully financial freedom.

Being incel vs what my family expect me are problems revolving around my inability to find a girl who's attracted to me physically.

I don't manage such things cause nothing can be done. My parents are extremely bluepilled that when I told them I can't get a girl here (SEA country), they told me to continue my study in the West so I can get a girl there. They think cause I can't get a racematched girl here in my homeland some white gigastacy would fall for me jfl
 
Personally, my life has always been utter shit, like for most of it I've been consistently bullied everywhere I've been, even at my own house by my family. The upside is that, unlike normies, I can't afford to just go with the flow and do as told all the time, since I have to do extra stuff to make my life half-decent, so I have a very clear plan of what I want from life that I've been working on for several years. Basically, the end goal for me would be to be safe in terms of consistently having food and a roof, a loving gf with a real, non-betabux, non-cucked relationship (which is really rare, ITers love to say "just go out and see the couples" but most relationships suck for the guys), not having to work 9-5, and being able to afford stuff like going on a trip once in a while, and to be able to mentally recover from how shit my life has been so far.

That's it, it's not much, but it'd make me happy, and idc about anyone else's definition of success. The only far fetched thing about it is the real relationship, but I'll either find one by looksmaxxing or rope.

As to the 9-5, honestly, I don't see myself doing it all my life, it's horrible. Anyone who can stand it is just brainwashed and used to it imo. When I have fulfilled more urgent objectives (like not being so lonely) I'll look for ways to handle that and will do whatever it takes, which will probably be something illegal, since most people are obedient so illegal ways to make money should be less saturated. But I really don't know, maybe I'm just coping and will wagecuck all my life :feelsrope:

As to how I handle being incel... Tbh I mostly pretend to be a bluepilled guy looking to betabux, since I know no one is going to question that. Aka I pretend to friends and relatives that I'm a bluepilled idiot who wastes his life working and is looking to betabux a woman who got tired of having fun with superior men. Imagine being so pathetic lmao, but it's socially accepted so it works to just say that.

How about you boyos :feelsrope:
I just want to meet Elliot and share my experiences with him, but he's dead so I guess it's over.
 
I have no friends.
my family disowned me.
I am an autistic KHHTV.
I have a low IQ.
I failed out of HS and College.
I am below average height.
I am hideously ugly.

Game over, no chance for me. There is no fucking managing being an incel.
 
I have no friends.
my family disowned me.
I am an autistic KHHTV.
I have a low IQ.
I failed out of HS and College.
I am below average height.
I am hideously ugly.

Game over, no chance for me. There is no fucking managing being an incel.
shit man, :feelsrope:I'm so sorry

btw what's the T in khhtv?
 
My family is going to kick me out soon. They cant stand me. I can't find a job because of Coronavirus. I have no money, and only 1 friend irl left.

The rope is looking more pleasant every day.
 
I'm deformed and when you're deformed your only expectation from life is literally just being able to look like a normal human. I almost gave up and just delaying the rope hoping one day I can get a decent job and afford my surgeries. That's the only way to cope with your life if you're deformed, literally no hobbies or other aspects in life will interest you because you're too subhuman for it.
 
I'm deformed and when you're deformed your only expectation from life is literally just being able to look like a normal human. I almost gave up and just delaying the rope hoping one day I can get a decent job and afford my surgeries. That's the only way to cope with your life if you're deformed, literally no hobbies or other aspects in life will interest you because you're too subhuman for it.
brutal erfuel ngl
 
Nothing short of a miracle can save from a terrible life im afraid.
 

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