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Cope What do you guys consider a cope?

seija

seija

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I notice that in numerous threads and posts, the term and word cope is defined as anything to cover up the fact that we are miserable and I have seen posters mention this forum as one of the many copes that we mention? Examples such as Gymcelling, Escortcelling, Moneymaxxing, etc. are usually mentioned as copes in some way. I just want an answer before making my own conclusion.
 
Cope means anything other than fucking a girl or having her as a companion from what I gather. This is because everything you do in life ultimately boils down to trying to find a mate. If you aren't doing that, you're coping.
 
Cope = stuff you do to tune yourself out of the blackpill and inceldom to the point where you're not thinking about it.
 
A cope is an activity that mitigates the discomfort associated with existence.
 
everything that isn't rope is cope
 
There seems to be endless copes...but once they give away, there's nothing else to do but embrace the rope
 
1)being delusional about something
2)escapism
3) when you have only fullifilled your basic needs, but skip on the sexual intimacy, status and social life part and instead focus on self-actualization

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I have made my conclusion based on the ideas of coping, the word cope and the definitions I got from everyone in my head. Here is my conclusion:

A cope is something that people do to get away from the real world or from the hard truth as a whole. People will sometimes try to work hard to achieve a goal that is usually impossible to do without numerous years of hard work. People also cope in other ways by playing video games, 2d Waifu/Foid worshipping, watching anime, reading books, religion. It is because of the lack of love and understanding they get from developmental milestones such as teenage love, the first kiss, the first crush, along with delayed mental milestones, mental and emotional maturity and understanding of the world.

Thinking about @maskedman's definition of coping in general along with the modcel @i_a_m_i's definition of coping, I've come to the conclusion that existence and existing in general is just a massive cope. We live until we die and until then, we distract ourselves from reality and the hard truth by attempting to fill holes in our beings and cover it up such as doing drugs, tinder dates, video games, inceldom, forums, work, NEET, Hikikomori, NoFap, etc.

Every single cope that I have mentioned is temporary until the depressive thoughts hit you and you start to slowly realize it. That is when some people have mentioned roping and suicidal thoughts & tendencies. Copes such as anime, video games, gymcelling don't bring the joy that they have used to and have in turn made the person completely dull, making them a former shell of an individual. They start to realize that their whole life story, their existence is a cope and they start to think that the only way that they can end the cope is to die, this is where the term 'rope is cope', comes in. People who have this mindset realize that nothing can truly bring pleasure to their life and realize it is truly over for them and they cannot change in any sort of way. They realize there is no type of pleasure or change that can truly change them, not even a woman can change that type of worldview & that type of mindset because they're completely broken as human beings.

I'm trying to say that everything we do is a cope in some way and the only way to truly stop coping is just to end it all while we can still can. We can only be apart of a loop for so long, the human psyche can tolerate the same things for so long until we just snap and break out of the loop, people need change in their life in general and they can only tolerate the preexisting copes that we have for so long.

We are raised and designed to go on a loop forever, similar to a hamster when it runs around inside of its cage with its hamster ball inside, the cage is reality & life and the hamster ball is our lifestyle & our choices. This is where existentialism comes in, do we truly have free will to everything that we do, what we want to do, our desires and our ways of getting to that desire, wish or goal? No most of us don't realize this and try to deny this cope in various different ways by doing a cope as I described earlier. What I'm trying to say is existing is cope and everything else such as video games, anime, femoid worship, etc. It is just a minicope to distract us from the inevitable end of our lives.

I'm very bad at explaining alot of things and I feel like that I have dragged on some points for an unnecessary long time when I didn't need to in the first place. This conclusion took 30-50 minutes to think of and 30 minutes to even type this all out and edit the grammar in my post. I have no clue if anyone will agree or disagree with me on this.
 
Everything what is not cute adorable loli waifu
So betabuxing is coping, fucking ugly femoids also coping, and those are nasty copes, better to avoid
 
It makes you fade away from the reality.
 
Tl;dr, but this question comes up once in a while

One overlooked subaspect is unconscious coping (the lower but maybe even more powerful form of it if used wisely):
I do x to achieve y ( y = ascend get rich or whatever far goal).
It might feel good to have a seeming perspective and motivate you, but in the end this just might be self deception and your actions totally defficient for achieving your proposed goals or the goals itself are pointles, in both cases users will point it out as that what it is: a cope, basically a lighter form of a bluepill to delude yourself for the sake of your mental peace.
 
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Cope is everything that holds you back from the rope
 

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