What are your main problems/issues right now?

[TheRealChincel]

Besides looks ofc. My major problem right now is trying to just go out and not feeling like a leper. One of my therapists thought I was “imagining” people staring and pointing at me so I invited them to go out with me but watch from a distance. He admitted defeat basically and we ended our sessions.

Now that you know my issue, what’s yours? Are you dissatisfied with your social life in general, the workcel grind, etc? Just as good things come in packages so do bad ones usually which is why I ask.

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Self esteem issues,Procrastination,I dont have a social life,I am aimless

 

[Weightcel]

I just wanna get out of this cancerous normie convention that is University.

 

[Deleted member]

looks, nothing else. that is the source of every single problem i currently have and have had in my life.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I live in a fairly liberal and yuppie area (biggest liberal city arguably in my state) and there are no young christian thots around here. I'm starting to believe I'm a locationcel.

 

[torujo]

all my problems are related to my looks

 

[0764]

Fucking depression, suicidal thoughts, schizophrenia, my self esteem issues. My job sucks, my school sucks, my social life is non existent. My family life is trash. I literally have nothing to live for

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Self esteem issues,Procrastination,I dont have a social life,I am aimless

Oh yeah and I want to add this

 

[virgin4life]

I am fat and lazy and I cant get my act together although it wouldnt be that hard.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

My only problem is my face.
And I always knew it, even when I was a kid.
If my face was ok, I would not be here and I would have a full life.

 

[Zyros]

Looks, specially frame in summer.

 

[Mainländer]

Utter lack of motivation. I'm too lazy, easily distracted and apathetic even to do things I like such as reading about politics and philosophy and learning languages. Even watching an anime is a drudgery because I keep wanting to pause it every 1 minute or so.

Those last weeks have been nothing but LDAR all the time. I managed to muster enough pep to run like once and that's it.

But like some people already mentioned ITT, it very likely stems from my poor looks. As an 8 and up I would feel motivated to strive in life.

 

[EARTH]

Existential crisis. Lack of purpose. Daydreaming addiction. Mismatch between what I want to do and what is humanly possible. My skin.

 

[orchis]

high inhib, no social skills, no friends, low iq, lazy, no purpose

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I'm an eternal NEET, essentially a hiki with crippling loneliness. Could be worse.

 

[Ritalincel]

looks

 

[Spite]

All my other problems are just symptoms of being unattractive

 

[Deleted member 8353]

All my other problems are just symptoms of being unattractive

Yeah that was the start of my problems as well, but now it's just become a self perpetuating cycle, and being ugly means I have no motivation to escape it.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I dunno, I was always a weirdo, that hasn't changed.

Right now I think I have sleep apnea related to TMJ problems, it's ruining my sleep (doesn't matter how early i go to bed / stay in bed) giving me ugly dark circles around my eyes and latent exhaustion even though I can still push myself to power through even a very long day with work, lots of walking and errands through sheer autism.
This is something incels should probably look into, a lot of them might have some latent issue like this, bad jaw/bite that is never fixed by uncaring parents or your high anxiety leading you to fear doctors, then leads to TMJ and migraines, eventually sleep apnea destroying your sleep, tinnitus and lockjaw. I think it's an easy path to becoming a miserable person, just having a shitty jaw unlike chad's straight teeth and normal bite.

Basically I can only sleep 5-6 hours per night, and always wake up with dark thoughts first thing in the morning, nasty visions and fragmented bitter thinking about foids I wanted to have in my life. It's the main problem I have right now keeping me from coping more easily.

 

[bkdreamkb]

uhh I have a presentation to do 2 hours from now and didn't studied anything

 

[VST]

>Tfw no gf

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

uhh I have a presentation to do 2 hours from now and didn't studied anything

sounds like a great opportunity to be epic and get all the girls attention

 

[TheGoat]

Im a sarcastic asshole and a procrastinator

 

[Cali_Incel]

being ugly, social outcast and terrible social skills.

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

Therapists should be gased

 

[DestroyedLife]

Switching of self esteem, sometimes i feel like a god than like the dirtiest dirt. Also anxiety, anger issues. Its hard for me to control my feelings. + Constant state of emptyness and not exactly knowing what i want from life .

 

[Deleted member 301]

Crippling alcoholism and chronic pancreatitis.

 

[Nemo9065]

Anhedonia

 

[Short Straw]

I have two major problems. 1) I hate women. 2) I am one seriously ugly motherfucker. I have been told that from the neck down I look damn good for an old guy. I am educated, gainfully employed, run/excercise frequently. I talk to people, smile, etc. I just want to get laid. I have absolutely ZERO interest in having a relationship with a whore. I would never trust any whore enough to even sleep in the same room with one.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

Utter lack of motivation. I'm too lazy, easily distracted and apathetic even to do things I like such as reading about politics and philosophy and learning languages. Even watching an anime is a drudgery because I keep wanting to pause it every 1 minute or so.

 

[TheRealChincel]

Crippling alcoholism and chronic pancreatitis.

What is pancreatitis?

 

[CopingGymcel]

Besides looks? No friends, lacking social skills, social anxiety, constant negative thoughts, angry expression (worsened by social anxiety), pessimistic thought pattern from being red pilled, spend too much time in the gym for what's normal, lazy. All of this as a result of F A C E.

 

[Deleted member 6329]

Broke, have no job at the moment, still living at home, still not knowing what the fuck to do with my life at 25, poor social skills, inability to stop watching porn(,but not a complete addict)

 

[Curious0]

My biggest problem besides my looks is that I'm a pussy when it comes to social interactions. I'm not even able to hold eye contact with a girl. At least my social anxiety decreased lately.

 

[Deleted member 301]

What is pancreatitis?

You get it from been an alcoholic and drinking stupid amounts over the years, which I have and still do. Extreme pain constantly which I take morphine sulphate amongst other things to try and numb it. Can lead to all sorts of other conditions and as I have no plans to quit drinking it will very likely lead to pancreatic cancer which will finish me off and then I shall ascend.

 

[Grotesque]

I am ugly.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Besides looks ofc. My major problem right now is trying to just go out and not feeling like a leper. One of my therapists thought I was “imagining” people staring and pointing at me so I invited them to go out with me but watch from a distance. He admitted defeat basically and we ended our sessions.

Now that you know my issue, what’s yours? Are you dissatisfied with your social life in general, the workcel grind, etc? Just as good things come in packages so do bad ones usually which is why I ask.

I just wanna fucking die tbh

 

[oldcel75]

People I killed in the military are coming to me at night.

 

[AfrikanCel]

Therapists should be gased

Oy vey

People I killed in the military are coming to me at night.

Do you feel bad about it? Is it like demons and shit?

I dunno, I was always a weirdo, that hasn't changed.

Right now I think I have sleep apnea related to TMJ problems, it's ruining my sleep (doesn't matter how early i go to bed / stay in bed) giving me ugly dark circles around my eyes and latent exhaustion even though I can still push myself to power through even a very long day with work, lots of walking and errands through sheer autism.
This is something incels should probably look into, a lot of them might have some latent issue like this, bad jaw/bite that is never fixed by uncaring parents or your high anxiety leading you to fear doctors, then leads to TMJ and migraines, eventually sleep apnea destroying your sleep, tinnitus and lockjaw. I think it's an easy path to becoming a miserable person, just having a shitty jaw unlike chad's straight teeth and normal bite.

Basically I can only sleep 5-6 hours per night, and always wake up with dark thoughts first thing in the morning, nasty visions and fragmented bitter thinking about foids I wanted to have in my life. It's the main problem I have right now keeping me from coping more easily.

Wear a mouthguard/retainer.

 

[TheRealChincel]

You get it from been an alcoholic and drinking stupid amounts over the years, which I have and still do. Extreme pain constantly which I take morphine sulphate amongst other things to try and numb it. Can lead to all sorts of other conditions and as I have no plans to quit drinking it will very likely lead to pancreatic cancer which will finish me off and then I shall ascend.

It's sad how more people are offended by that than women parading around all slutty.

 

[mylifeistrash]

i live in the west and i'm not chad

 

[ICanOnlyFapToBDSM]

everything in my life that could be fucked up is fucked up. im a different breed of incel who's problems extend beyond validating normies stereotypes of "booohoo girlz dontt like me"

so naturally im fucked, fucked dead and deep like a terminal disease. being an ugly incel, an autistic incel, a loner incel, a no life no friends incel, a no job incel, I'd probably trade being a 5'6'' baldcel manlet if it meant I had a semblance of an NT life, at least I could be a betabux or orbiter.

I'm not the ugliest incel, not the poorest, not homeless, things could always be be worse but I'm not far off. It's over.

 

[Narazz]

Money

i really think if i had some i could be a beta provider or be able to go to asia.

 

[_incelinside]

Apathy. Very low drive to do anything productive. Aimlessness. summer alergies. My laptop stopped fucking working.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Sleep apnea/being overweight
Letting go of the past

 

[YunGandUgly]

Low test, seeing my face in the mirror

 

[Norfklutz]

I don't really have any problems right now. I'm okay with everything. I've accepted that I'm not attractive. I have never tried to get gf and will never try because I know what will happen.

Well if you've never tried how do you know what will happen? Why not give girls a chance?

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

I gymcel, but am a curry and am high inhib as fuck. Feels like I'm "institutionalized". I cannot speakto any foid without sounding retarded as fuck. Have very few friends, most are just kind of "associates".

Feels like trash some days

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Low T (i think due to depression not sure yet.) and of course, height.
Low T (i think due to depression not sure yet.) and of course, height.

 

[IHateMySelf]

My big problem now is that I have no friends (no one,seriously). The other problem is that no one talk to me.Everyone ignore me.