Cope What are your best copes which doesn't involve alternate reality?

[97%Pain_3%Numbness]

I coped my whole life with video games, audiobooks, movies and series but im turning 34 this year and i feel like the time now will determine how my life will be permanently.
If i don't change who i am the next years it will be set for the rest of my life.

How do you withstand the pain of reality without escaping to alternative realities?

I wish everyone a happy new year, even if we are alone und unloved we have deserved to feel good so don't be too harsh or cruel with yourself, try to make the day as comfortable as possible for you.

 

[Malsori]

Bullying gay people online

 

[97%Pain_3%Numbness]

Bullying gay people online

I put moral completely aside for now and im not dumb your answer is probably a joke.

But i just ask do you think bullying other people is the main cope of normies to get through life and does bullying other people really make you feel better because i never did it.

I was bullied and brutally humiliated but i could imagine to maybe do little jokes or something like that but nothing which really humiliates anyone except it is a bad person.

 

[VPSCel]

main cope of normies

Gossiping and trash talk is for sure one of their main copes from what I have observed.

 

[97%Pain_3%Numbness]

Gossiping and trash talk is for sure one of their main copes from what I have observed.

I think so as well. And the feeling to be better than someone. I would say at least 90% have that as a coping mechanism.

That's why life is such a hell at the rock bottom. 90% of people use you only to feel better and some of them even actively are trying to make your life worse

 

[mentalcel666]

it can be a good cope to constantly improve in one area or another, whatever you chose

sports, art, languages, science, knowledge

but the drive to get a little bit better, know a little bit more each day, discovering new things, trying to understand new scientific discoveries
can keep you going and hoping for a tomorrow permanently.

for me it is currently learning japanese, playing a moba and researching aliens
which leads me down to alot of different scientific fields

for example i read the beggining for this scientific paper and tried to really understand it, google everything i dont know.
this can be fun and rewarding

https://arxiv.org/pdf/2409.14477

(Self-sustaining living habitats in extraterrestrial environments
R. Wordsworth1,2,* and C. Cockell3)

you can do it! you can find something that brings you joy, even if its only a little bit, even if its not everyday.

i believe in you and i love you, because you are a human, like me.

we are one species and we are destined for greatness, to conquer the stars, to understand the mysteries of the universe.

we have consciousness, and it is the greatest gift and curse for any living organism.

we can actually understand who we are, what this world is around us, and piece the puzzle together.

this can be fun, just piecing the puzzle of life together, bit by bit

 

[97%Pain_3%Numbness]

it can be a good cope to constantly improve in one area or another, whatever you chose

sports, art, languages, science, knowledge

but the drive to get a little bit better, know a little bit more each day, discovering new things, trying to understand new scientific discoveries
can keep you going and hoping for a tomorrow permanently.

for me it is currently learning japanese, playing a moba and researching aliens
which leads me down to alot of different scientific fields

for example i read the beggining for this scientific paper and tried to really understand it, google everything i dont know.
this can be fun and rewarding

https://arxiv.org/pdf/2409.14477

(Self-sustaining living habitats in extraterrestrial environments
R. Wordsworth1,2,* and C. Cockell3)

you can do it! you can find something that brings you joy, even if its only a little bit, even if its not everyday.

i believe in you and i love you, because you are a human, like me.

we are one species and we are destined for greatness, to conquer the stars, to understand the mysteries of the universe.

we have consciousness, and it is the greatest gift and curse for any living organism.

we can actually understand who we are, what this world is around us, and piece the puzzle together.

this can be fun, just piecing the puzzle of life together, bit by bit

Thx a lot bro!

 

[suicidecase]

Sleep, food and masturbation.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

Exercising is a nice cope.

 

[ViciousKanga]

daydreaming

 

[curryboy420]

Smoke joint then eat burger then tell burger guy make it good or im gonna complain for free burger and also then I play GTA 5 and make a gang I get 3 guys and put them in my ceo then we drive around in SUVs and looks like gangsters