Were you anti-incel (AKA bluepilled) before becoming incel?

[thespanishcel]

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

 

[Animecel2D]

Omg yes I was posting 24/7 on Inceltears before I joined my real brothers here

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Was similar to race realists. Aware of the existence of the term but never looked into any details because of an innate hesitation towards getting involved with a group of extremly low status individuals. Think that is simply human nature and people on here no longer remember that most of them were the same way at one point in time.

 

[Osman279]

Omg yes I was posting 24/7 on Inceltears before I joined my real brothers here

 

[Osman279]

Didn't know what an Incel was, started hearing the term, got baited by the YouTube algorithm in 2019

 

[Fallenleaves]

I was giga bluepilled

 

[Reprisial]

No I knew that some guys were just fucked and it's my nature to root for the underdog

 

[Darkday]

I believe everyone was bluepilled by default. Since I was always treated poorly, I never preached bluepill takes and always knew something was off.

 

[Cmonk]

I never heard of incels or the color pills till like a year ago. Especially the rise of Andrew Tate. My whole life I thought blue pill but at the same time I believe looks did matter. My teen years I knew looks matter, but I tried being myself u know blue pill lies. I have autism which also plays a part of why I couldn’t ask girls out. Long story short I try online dating, ask a cousin to hookup me with someone and thought about my sexuality, which it wasn’t for me. I’m straight. I found out what incel was and I came to conclusion that’s who I was. I embrace that fact I will be a virgin for the rest of my life and alone.

 

[Mecoja]

I didn't hate on guys like us. But I did believed that every guy can get a gf if he lowers the standards and is more outgoing.

 

[zangano1]

Ive been blackpilled before I even knew what the blackpill was. They day I found out about incels was the day I joined incels

 

[PersonalityChad]

Ive been blackpilled before I even knew what the blackpill was.

Yeah, same with me, for the most part. But i didn't really figure out everything and i needed this place to fill in some of the gaps. I thought ugly women could also be involuntarily celibate, as an example.

 

[Mango]

I was one of those "Virgin but not incel" types. I came across braincels and lookism in 2018 was taken back by the "hatred."

I saw a thread of some chinlet guy and thought they were bullying him. But looking back they were just saying the truth

 

[Ahnfeltia]

Before becoming incel blackpilled I wasn't aware of incels. Nor was I concerned with what dating was like for others. Even before encountering incels and the blackpill, I knew it was over for me and that was all that mattered to me until then.

 

[copiumdealer]

To be completely honest, when I was in my first year of highschool with my NormTard “friends”, we used to joke around and throw insults at eachother like “incel” etc.
I didn’t know what the term “incel” meant exactly.
i thought it was some sort of loser / Autistic loner who was socially awkward.

 

[Carpanesi]

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

Nope

I would never bully anyone especially if that condition also apply to me. I believe most of those who bully incels are either incels themselves (either in denial or not) or just as romantically unsuccesfull as many incels are, and do that to look like they're not

That said I have no compassion at all for whatever they're being through. There's no excuse to any kind of bullying behavior on their part, and no sympathy from me whatsoever for those who condone those behaviors

 

[zangano1]

Yeah, same with me, for the most part. But i didn't really figure out everything and i needed this place to fill in some of the gaps. I thought ugly women could also be involuntarily celibate, as an example.

I always knew females had it easy and Ivw always hatef ugly females

 

[Carpanesi]

To be completely honest, when I was in my first year of highschool with my NormTard “friends”, we used to joke around and throw insults at eachother like “incel” etc.
I didn’t know what the term “incel” meant exactly.
i thought it was some sort of loser / Autistic loner who was socially awkward.

In brazil "incel" is pretty much a term that carries only negative stereotypes

It's not a brazilian word and whenever it's mentioned online, it ALWAYS gets translated + the whole context added that causes moral panic on the viewers

So if you see "incel" in a brazilian news/site they'll pretty much follow it with elliot rodger crap and the van attack (that wasn't even carried by an incel but he wrote some shit about it so they get to say that). It makes incredibly hard for a guy if he gets identified as incel here

 

[der_komische]

i was a lib-left cuck but somewhat angry at the world for being treated like shit

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I don't remember much about this.

Like I had already heard of incels before being seriously interested in the blackpill, I most likely thought sth like "I'm not like them, but I understand what they have in their mind".

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

I was never anti incels, I was big into the red pill before it was just catching on and before that existed I had observed what I called "mosquitoes" which is the term now coined as beta orbiters which are the people I despise the most on this earth, I hated from a very early age particularly women

 

[Koomersarj]

I was one of those "Virgin but not incel" types.

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Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf.

I was never fully bluepilled but yeah I can relate. I bought into the normie lie that hairstyle made up at least 50% of looks and that anyone who wasn’t head-turning levels of deformed could become attractive with enough effort

Was similar to race realists. Aware of the existence of the term but never looked into any details because of an innate hesitation towards getting involved with a group of extremly low status individuals.

In my case I instantly looked into the details upon learning what the word meant cause I desperately wanted to prove to myself that I didn’t fit it

Came to my senses & took the blackpill in early-mid 2022. Joined the forum much later though

Ive been blackpilled before I even knew what the blackpill was

Since I was always treated poorly, I never preached bluepill takes and always knew something was off.

Roughly same here. I always knew looks mattered more than personality, but I bought into the meme that money mattered most lmao

But I did believed that every guy can get a gf if he lowers the standards and is more outgoing.

i didn't really figure out everything and i needed this place to fill in some of the gaps. I thought ugly women could also be involuntarily celibate, as an example.

This too. I unironically thought that women’s looks mattered. Thought they mattered even more than men’s cause “we can make up for it with money and status, bro!”

 

[Logic55]

Before I joined the incel community, I was a retarded bluepiller cuck. I falsely believed that being confident and more open would get me a gf, but I was dead wrong, women don't give a shit if your personality is spectacular, what matters the most in the current dating market Is your physical appearance.

 

[ElTruecel]

Was similar to race realists. Aware of the existence of the term but never looked into any details because of an innate hesitation towards getting involved with a group of extremly low status individuals. Think that is simply human nature and people on here no longer remember that most of them were the same way at one point in time.

 

[BlackcelNEET]

I was born blackpilled.

 

[deadmanwalking124]

I was bluepilled, ate up the whole "women aren't bad people, you just have to "improve" yourself until you die even for things that aren't wrong with you while good-looking and more neurotypical men get sex and relationships by existing" bullshit.

Can't say I was ever "anti-incel" though. Even though I first heard the term in a negative light, my first thought was to lurk and see for myself, and from there I realized that I've been one this whole time and being a performative good boy wasn't gonna ever stop me being a KHV. All these years later and I'm still right about that.

 

[Mecoja]

^

I was never fully bluepilled but yeah I can relate. I bought into the normie lie that hairstyle made up at least 50% of looks and that anyone who wasn’t head-turning levels of deformed could become attractive with enough effort

In my case I instantly looked into the details upon learning what the word meant cause I desperately wanted to prove to myself that I didn’t fit it

Came to my senses & took the blackpill in early-mid 2022. Joined the forum much later though


Roughly same here. I always knew looks mattered more than personality, but I bought into the meme that money mattered most lmao


This too. I unironically thought that women’s looks mattered. Thought they mattered even more than men’s cause “we can make up for it with money and status, bro!”

I believed in bunch of bullshits that were fed to me since childhood, like that men are more shallow and cheat more, that there are non whores and that women are more caring and emotional.

I knew the importance of height, looks and money, but I didn't knew that it's the start and the end of everything.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

i was a lib-left cuck but somewhat angry at the world for being treated like shit

 

[lemon21]

I was redpilled before, now i know better... i think

 

[Mentally lost cel]

no

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

 

[EngelCallDell19]

the only time i was bluepilled was when i was a child, when i grew older i got blackpilled even in my bluepilled times i never hated incels cause i didn't know what that even was

 

[TheIncelPill]

For a little bit back a decade ago. I was one of the non-SJW liberals who was dragged kicking and screaming to the right (or at least auth-center). Never to the degree of r/inceltear .

 

[Monke]

I was blackpilled as fuck since I was like 12 or something. I did not know the word of course. INever had a girlfriend, but was never trying too hard to find one due to my blackpill. I was just living my life with peculiar views of my own. Then in mid 20s I found some redpill/mgtow/manosphere content. They were just a bunch of pathetic losers, but I've learned about the pills and when I was reading about blackpill I was like, this just makes sense. You must be nuts to disagree.

 

[Uncle Axel]

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

Spic problems are not my problems.

 

[Suicide Sheep]

Yes.
I have always thought that if I acted like myself and treated people respectfully like in the movies I would have a chance of eventually finding my SO, that things would happen "naturally", as normies say. Hell, I never even had to act like a "nice guy" on purpose because I was a good person already. However, the assholes who bullied me or someone else would always get my romantic interests.
Grannies would even encourage me saying that I was a "lovely" and "handsome" guy while foids in school despised me or wouldn't even notice my existence despite being in the same class as me. God, I cringe just from remembering those horrible times and rejections.
I guess that one of the reasons I didn't want to let go from the blue pill was because I didn't want to face the harsh reality that was slowly ruining my conception of the world: that being deceptive and handsome is what makes one successful in life. Not just in love, but also in every other aspect of life.
The news media and crowd mentality also played a big role in this. I still feel guilty for letting myself be manipulated by them for so long, for being afraid of being labelled as a "XYZist" or hearing what incels had to say.
Not being afraid of having my own controversial (but scientifically proven) opinions on subjects, not relying on others or beings of unproven existence to be happy and becoming misanthropic has raised my life quality by A LOT.
Nowadays I feel independent, ready to adapt to any environment I get thrown into, even to die as a homeless person if it happens. I also know the qualities I have to seek for in order to ascend, should I ever get rich to afford them.

 

[CroatianManlet]

I discovered braincels subreddit in 2018 and there i found out about this site i remember braincels saying .is was to extreme jfl

 

[Lonelyus]

No, I havent had social media since i was a teenager

 

[AnilBashir]

maybe when I was like 5 jfl. I was not bluepilled as a teenager, but I fell for the PUA and redpill scams

 

[andinocel]

I was. I thought lonely virgin men were weird and that it was something that would never happen to me. I thought that all I had to do was be polite, a gentleman, work hard enough, and make enough money (be a betabuxx), dress well, etc....and I would find a girlfriend and eventual wife in no time. That work was never appreciated by the oneitis I was trying to impress, because they already had someone in mind.
I had known I was ugly since I was a teenager, but I swallowed the blue pill and COMPLETELY FALSE belief that "women care more about character and kindness", and followed the normie advice of working on my personality.

I didn’t know what the term “incel” meant exactly.

i thought it was some sort of loser / Autistic loner who was socially awkward.

That' what it means to normies now; they don't even bother to look up the origin of the word and what it truly means

 

[Don Vito]

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

I always knew there was some truth behind incel statements because I was so short that was impossible for me to cope with the personalitty meme. Perhaps, I thought some of them were exxagerating but it was due to the exxagerating and wrong images media and leftists often portrays about incels.

I used to hate when someone called me an incel in Internet because of hot takes. For example: "Appealing for female audiences has been one of the nails in the coffin of MCU because the greatness of comicbook storytelling lies down source material aimed for men".

Or "Disney should adapt books that were aimed for women from the start such as Hunger Games or Twilight instead pushing hard characters like Ms Marvel, Captain Marvel or She Hulk".

Sometimes these hot-takes have nothing to do with gender but rather than political views. Im Libertarian but for some reason Libertarianism is often related with inceldom to leftists. Even if majority of try-hard leftists are bluepilled incels while sex havers are careless about politics.


Nowadays I just ignore because I know Im an incel. Im aware that until I dont have a a girl with me in a pfp I will be considered as such if I deliver such takes.

 

[Namtriz912]

I went from bluepill to redpill to the blackpill, the blackpilled answered my questions and it wasn't easy to accept as I still had hope I still do now albeit it is lower but it doesn't stop me from wanting to meet my goals in life it sounds like cope but I don't want to quit before my time is up.

As for hating incels I didn't hate them as I never knew what the term was until 2017 and didn't think too much about it.

 

[Kraken]

I didn't even knew the incel community, but I identified as one when I first came across the term

 

[proudweeb]

nope. more like redpilled many years ago til I eventually stopped trying (cuz nothing worked)

 

[mcmoohyun]

I've always been a blackpilled Inkie for my whole life. There was no such thing as "becoming Incel"

 

[Progeny of Horus]

I didn't even care about women or dating till I was like 22 (no kidding) and only then I realized something is profoundly wrong as I started trying, then became blackpilled few months afterwards. Before that I was apathetic/non-applicable.

 

[VitaminCage]

Tbh when I was bluepilled I didn't know much about incels but I would have thought they exaggerated and if they tried hard enough (just improve your personality, take 10000 showers, become a billionaire ) they could get a gf. I didn't browse or post on cucktears. Then I started reading the word "incel" everywhere as an insult and I found out about the term and how it related to me. Because I was (and still I am kek) also a virgin who had tried to ascend but couldn't do it for diverse reasons.

Tbh I think that incels in denial who hate incels are still coping thinking that a foid will notice them if they do it, similar to nice guys or simps. And btw cucktears is a pathetic sub.

I was never anti incel

 

[polvorb20]

I was a soy-chugging blue-pilled male feminist type.

Part of me really believed all of that globohomo liberal bullshit, but another part of me thought that chugging soy and being "an empathetic human being who treats women with kindness without expecting anything in return" would get me pussy. It didn't.

 

[sultryloser]

Embarrassingly yes. I used to think incels were bad people. Now here i am. Funny how life shows you where you belong.

 

[Wolnir]

I've never been bluepilled. I discovered that looks are all that matter in life at around 12. I noticed that good looking people only hung out with other good looking people. Ugly people were treated worse.

Also, if you are genuinely ugly, you will most likely have experienced bullying or at least teasing because of your looks. Being bullied because of the way that you look will blackpill you.

 

[ULTRAMAN]

I believed that incels hated and wished death to women, I didn't consider myself as such but I didn't internalize it either.

when it was the time of covid, i wanted to know more and i joined this forum. only then i realized the truth and explained what had been my life of pain and intimidation. the psychologist had gaslighted me for three years lying to me telling me that mine was social phobia and that it was my fault for not wanting to integrate when in fact it was the other way around.

my only regret is that i didn't know about the black pill a long time ago. i would have planned my life better.