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Serious We think we want sex merely for enjoyment but subconsciously we want it for much deeper reasons

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All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, getting sex means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.
 
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I want sex for enjoyment
 
i just want a romantic relationship
 
This tbh. What I care for the most is affection, for me sex is secondary, you can buy it as a service or masturbate and there you have your fill so it's only important for me if it was part of a loving relationship, and i think hookup culture is shit and degenerate as well...I cannot replicate that feeling (love) unless I schizomaxx hard, and even then it's merely a glimpse it.

True. When :bluepill: meets :blackpill: .
 
my ancestors are fucking mad at me right now
 
All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, which means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.

All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, which means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.
high iq and underrated hugely underplayed element of human nature, there is a very close link between existence sex and validation, these are the three drivers of human nature, almost everything anyone does in their life goes back to the basic element of being validated by the wider group or just be a singular person IT IS HUGE.

Everything from being an aspiring painter to wanting to be the worlds strongest man, heavyweight boxing champion, best beer brewer, pub landlord, even these unbelievably diverse vocations are completely underpinned by the end goal of validation.

This is how I know this to be the case, if we do a thought experiment, the aspiring sprinter finds out he can gain muscle and physique more easily than being a champion sprinter and becomes recognised and "validated" by others for his muscles not his speed and performances. circa 90+% of people would jack in the sprinter no matter how long they have been doing it for if they received enough attention and validation for the bodybuilding over the sprinting.
The only shift is the activity they are being validated more for, and if this gets high enough they will completely change their whole behaviour from diet to exercise to places gone because of one shift in validation from one activity to another, THIS IS A FUCKING HUGE SHIFT IN A PERSONS BEHAVIOUR, THIS CANNOT BE UNDERESTIMATED HOW FUNDAMENTAL A SHIFT THIS IS.

This is why the gaslighting from normans about sex and the gaslighting regarding the chad meme and the silence on lookism is absolute hocum, EVERYTHING A HUMAN DOES IS LEVERAGED ON VALIDATION IF YOU DONT GET VALIDATED IN THE ACTIVITY YOUR DOING YOU DONT DO IT. And the lookism is the ultimate form of validation, the non verbal communication is AN UNBELIEVABLE PART OF THIS VALIDATION EVERY DAY.

Also as the reverse halo effect the reverse happens to incels, they get shit validation wherever they go their world gets smaller and smaller because they are constantly searching for an environment in which they are validated. They try many diverse places with the same poor outcome and come to the conclusion the only place with an acceptable level of validation is at home with family who either do or dont love them unconditionally
 
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All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, getting sex means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.
you are an example of "male sexual entitlement"
 
All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, getting sex means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.
no shit
 
high iq and underrated hugely underplayed element of human nature, there is a very close link between existence sex and validation, these are the three drivers of human nature, almost everything anyone does in their life goes back to the basic element of being validated by the wider group or just be a singular person IT IS HUGE.

Everything from being an aspiring painter to wanting to be the worlds strongest man, heavyweight boxing champion, best beer brewer, pub landlord, even these unbelievably diverse vocations are completely underpinned by the end goal of validation.

This is how I know this to be the case, if we do a thought experiment, the aspiring sprinter finds out he can gain muscle and physique more easily than being a champion sprinter and becomes recognised and "validated" by others for his muscles not his speed and performances. circa 90+% of people would jack in the sprinter no matter how long they have been doing it for if they received enough attention and validation for the bodybuilding over the sprinting.
The only shift is the activity they are being validated more for, and if this gets high enough they will completely change their whole behaviour from diet to exercise to places gone because of one shift in validation from one activity to another, THIS IS A FUCKING HUGE SHIFT IN A PERSONS BEHAVIOUR, THIS CANNOT BE UNDERESTIMATED HOW FUNDAMENTAL A SHIFT THIS IS.

This is why the gaslighting from normans about sex and the gaslighting regarding the chad meme and the silence on lookism is absolute hocum, EVERYTHING A HUMAN DOES IS LEVERAGED ON VALIDATION IF YOU DONT GET VALIDATED IN THE ACTIVITY YOUR DOING YOU DONT DO IT. And the lookism is the ultimate form of validation, the non verbal communication is AN UNBELIEVABLE PART OF THIS VALIDATION EVERY DAY.

Also as the reverse halo effect the reverse happens to incels, they get shit validation wherever they go their world gets smaller and smaller because they are constantly searching for an environment in which they are validated. They try many diverse places with the same poor outcome and come to the conclusion the only place with an acceptable level of validation is at home with family who either do or dont love them unconditionally

exactly, evolutionarily speaking we are programmed to want some form of acceptance from our tribe (modern human civilisation), because being accepted by others means we get into less fights with others and therefore the greater the chances of our survival. By gaining validation, we are earning society’s respect and approval, which means society is more likely to make our lives more pleasurable and enjoyable
 
This post kills the escortcel
 
Yes, if the only reason to have sex was to use a cum dumpster, then rich escortcels would have to be banned. Sex is about receiving validation, or as you put it, "an affirmation of our genetic worth." We are deemed unworthy by foids and even soyciety as a whole and this is what makes us incels.
 
nah i just wanna creampie a foid for once in my life :feelsohh:
 
All characteristics of living beings: looks, intelligence and even personality are determined by genes, getting sex means women have deemed our genes to be of sufficient quality to be passed on to future generations rather than disappearing into the void, which validates our existence because those genes represent who we are, getting sex means our existence has enough value for some part of us to continue existing long after we die.

We think we want sex merely for the enjoyment aspect of it, but the truth is we want sex because getting sex is an affirmation of our genetic worth.

when we receive sex from women, it is not just a victory for us, it is a victory for our ancestors who went through great deal of pain and suffering to spread their genes, getting sex means that the sacrifices of our ancestors were not made in vain because we are able to continue their genetic legacy.

we consciously chase sex for pleasure, but subconsciously we chase it for much deeper reasons from a biological perspective.
I disagree. I don´t like anyting. Most people who visit escorts don´t like anything outside free condomless sex. If isn´t condomless sex is just a social construct that has been sold by mass media and blackpilled incels still believing in.
 
nah i just wanna creampie a foid for once in my life :feelsohh:


this. this is all i want to experience one day in my life. i dont think escorts allow it, nor am i sure i would want to creampie a disease ridden hole. but it's not like i have much choice.
 
For me it's not about reproduction, I give 0 fks if the human race dissapears, It's not something that I can describe with words, I just want a gf, someone who likes to spend time with me and finds me attractive. That's all.
 

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