I doubt what I have to say hasn't been said before, but I just feel like venting.
From day one we are taught that we can achieve anything we set our minds to; that every problem can be fixed with a little elbow grease and determination. I believe American men have especially fallen victim do this idea. The American Dream... Right? The land of opportunity? What a crock of shit. The elites love it though. Our American dream but doughnuts that the elites dangle in front of our faces in order to keep us moving forward. We are always being sold on something. From platitudes to products that "enhance" male beauty, we are told that if we just do this or that we'll be successful; and if we don't it's because we didn't buy enough, practice enough, work hard enough, believe hard enough, pray enough, etc. and that it's 100% your own fault.
The reality is that most of these excuses I previously mentioned along with things like personality, confidence, game, etc.(virtues that blue-pillers accuse us incels of lacking) are really just social constructs that delude men into thinking that they have control over every aspect of their lives. These constructs are very nebulous and can easily be used by others to accuse people like us of not having enough of. They do this because those constructs are so vague that its is damn near impossible to measure and thus impossible to disprove. That's why they are always used in platitudes because they provide completely baseless motivation for people to keep moving forward. And then blue-pillers will give an extreme example of someone who proclaimed that working on that virtue made him successful when in reality that virtue just correlated with something more empirical like intelligence, looks, height, etc..
Ultimately, humans just hate the idea of determinism. Most people cannot handle the idea that your genetics and environment completely shape you life. There is no free agent in your mind that is immune to causation. The determinism pill is equivalent to the black pill imo. The one thing us humans can do is hope. We can picture our desired outcome in heads and keep reassuring ourselves that it's obtainable. The doughnut is always dangled in front of us and although we may never be able to eat it, the smell keep drawing us forward.
idk though, that just my opinion on the matter. Believe what you want.
Sorry, I suck at writing.
From day one we are taught that we can achieve anything we set our minds to; that every problem can be fixed with a little elbow grease and determination. I believe American men have especially fallen victim do this idea. The American Dream... Right? The land of opportunity? What a crock of shit. The elites love it though. Our American dream but doughnuts that the elites dangle in front of our faces in order to keep us moving forward. We are always being sold on something. From platitudes to products that "enhance" male beauty, we are told that if we just do this or that we'll be successful; and if we don't it's because we didn't buy enough, practice enough, work hard enough, believe hard enough, pray enough, etc. and that it's 100% your own fault.
The reality is that most of these excuses I previously mentioned along with things like personality, confidence, game, etc.(virtues that blue-pillers accuse us incels of lacking) are really just social constructs that delude men into thinking that they have control over every aspect of their lives. These constructs are very nebulous and can easily be used by others to accuse people like us of not having enough of. They do this because those constructs are so vague that its is damn near impossible to measure and thus impossible to disprove. That's why they are always used in platitudes because they provide completely baseless motivation for people to keep moving forward. And then blue-pillers will give an extreme example of someone who proclaimed that working on that virtue made him successful when in reality that virtue just correlated with something more empirical like intelligence, looks, height, etc..
Ultimately, humans just hate the idea of determinism. Most people cannot handle the idea that your genetics and environment completely shape you life. There is no free agent in your mind that is immune to causation. The determinism pill is equivalent to the black pill imo. The one thing us humans can do is hope. We can picture our desired outcome in heads and keep reassuring ourselves that it's obtainable. The doughnut is always dangled in front of us and although we may never be able to eat it, the smell keep drawing us forward.
idk though, that just my opinion on the matter. Believe what you want.
Sorry, I suck at writing.
