How the fuck can you be optimistic and confident when:
1.You have graduated college as a virgin
2.No girl has ever had a crush on you or asked you out
3.Every single fucking girl you know is taken
4.Some of these taken girls are actually planning to get married with their boyfriends
The situation is so shitty that having a defeatist attitude is logical. It's not a choice, it's not a conscious decision, its a result of your human brain processing the provided data and deducing that the situation is hopeless.
You can blame societal conditioning, hypergamy, nature, I don't care the point remains the same. What you see every day, girls having hundreds of dating options on top of being already in a relationship, most men getting shitted over in online dating, most of your friends being in happy relationships with gfs while you rot, how can you possibly even think that you have a chance?
Pessimism and defeatist mentality is merely the result if processing all this information, it's not a choice and its unfortunately forced upon you by your thinking brain.
1.You have graduated college as a virgin
2.No girl has ever had a crush on you or asked you out
3.Every single fucking girl you know is taken
4.Some of these taken girls are actually planning to get married with their boyfriends
The situation is so shitty that having a defeatist attitude is logical. It's not a choice, it's not a conscious decision, its a result of your human brain processing the provided data and deducing that the situation is hopeless.
You can blame societal conditioning, hypergamy, nature, I don't care the point remains the same. What you see every day, girls having hundreds of dating options on top of being already in a relationship, most men getting shitted over in online dating, most of your friends being in happy relationships with gfs while you rot, how can you possibly even think that you have a chance?
Pessimism and defeatist mentality is merely the result if processing all this information, it's not a choice and its unfortunately forced upon you by your thinking brain.
