[Water] You just can’t force being social.

[KING NOTHING]

It’s an organic and entirely naturally developing trait similar to height.
Try all you want to “put yourself out there”, it doesn’t matter because it’s extremely obvious to normies that you’re not NT. You’re “socialfrauding” the same way a manlet wearing elevator shoes looks embarrassing.

 

[Cnidoblastos]

True. I've suffered from it in the past and sometimes in the workplace, but then I get paid for it, so I don't mind too much. But I always avoid doing it outside. In fact, I do what a good incel should do: limited and direct iterations. Nobody wants to interact with incels for too long.

 

[laanda]

i used to believe this and won't argue about it but i disagree. i now believe most people do not naturally know how to socialize with anyone but their closest friends, and don't perform better at pretending to socialize than anyone who is incel but NT
of course, if you already have close friends, you don't need to make new ones, you can just stick to your own
people tend to be very clunky when meeting new people though
even highly social individuals
it's just about appearance / nt. if you are an incel it matters, if you aren't, they go 'oh well hes just awkward because we just met'
atleast that is my opinion

part of why i believe this is i used to have quite good social skills and yet it never really worked. i learned them jestermaxxing. i am quite ugly, and i know critics usually dismiss it as me being cocky about my social skills, but you can kind of tell how you do are doing socially, as long as you are not an egotist (or non-nt)
whether i made myself interesting or not, they would not want me as their friend
meanwhile guys with personalities of a brick would be fine