just browsing the "most upvoted" posts on the sub all i see are memes making fun of us. it saddens me knowing that, despite everything i do to try (and believe me do i try) to not be an incel and as much as i wish i didn't have to use this forum because nobody else listens to me about this particular issue (i.e. getting no bitches),despite the very fucking real issues that I and assuredly many of the users of this forum face because of how we look, various mental conditions and disabilities, etc. and how they effect our lives in the long and short term,
we are still portrayed as whiny (which i believe we have every right to be on our own website), entitled (not all of us, I don't recall ever feeling in any way entitled to sex and intimacy) misogynists (fair enough i'll give ye that IT), all of whom face completely made up mental issues ,and could live a totally normal life with just a haircut and a shower! hell, the most upvoted post there portrays us as having created and perpetuated our own issues... i don't really see how my ugly face is my fault? or my height? or the fact i was born with ASD, a famously incurable condition? there aren't any cures for having a "badly shaped" skull, and there are no cures for being autistic that could let us "just get out there, bro!".
i still have trouble fathoming why r/inceltears are so (put plainly) fucking mean to us. an entire subreddit dedicated to getting mad about a bunch of edgy young fellas online not doing shit with their lives, and not giving a flying fuck about the root causes of why we rot on this forum for funzies on a friday night. we could be a user of inceltears' neighbour, or their brother, or even their son- would they really say to their brother's face that their issues are totally made up and they just need to get outside once in a while, despite the trajectory of this hypothetical incel's life having said otherwise?
i just wish that we were treated with empathy and people tried to understand us- understand that, yes, we are very much held behind by our negative mentalities, but that's not our fault, it's not our fault we were bullied as kids, it's not our fault we were born ugly, or autistic, or were simply socially stunted due to life circumstances outside of our control, and it's not our fault that these negative patterns of thought were beaten in to our heads by our own day-to-day lives, and they way people treat us because of simply the way we look or talk. i don't think that one person wishes they were here on a friday night instead of out partying and getting wasted. i wish that people tried to understand our problems because then maybe we wouldn't have them.
in short, please be patient, we have autism.
thank you for coming to my chud talk.
we are still portrayed as whiny (which i believe we have every right to be on our own website), entitled (not all of us, I don't recall ever feeling in any way entitled to sex and intimacy) misogynists (fair enough i'll give ye that IT), all of whom face completely made up mental issues ,and could live a totally normal life with just a haircut and a shower! hell, the most upvoted post there portrays us as having created and perpetuated our own issues... i don't really see how my ugly face is my fault? or my height? or the fact i was born with ASD, a famously incurable condition? there aren't any cures for having a "badly shaped" skull, and there are no cures for being autistic that could let us "just get out there, bro!".
i still have trouble fathoming why r/inceltears are so (put plainly) fucking mean to us. an entire subreddit dedicated to getting mad about a bunch of edgy young fellas online not doing shit with their lives, and not giving a flying fuck about the root causes of why we rot on this forum for funzies on a friday night. we could be a user of inceltears' neighbour, or their brother, or even their son- would they really say to their brother's face that their issues are totally made up and they just need to get outside once in a while, despite the trajectory of this hypothetical incel's life having said otherwise?
i just wish that we were treated with empathy and people tried to understand us- understand that, yes, we are very much held behind by our negative mentalities, but that's not our fault, it's not our fault we were bullied as kids, it's not our fault we were born ugly, or autistic, or were simply socially stunted due to life circumstances outside of our control, and it's not our fault that these negative patterns of thought were beaten in to our heads by our own day-to-day lives, and they way people treat us because of simply the way we look or talk. i don't think that one person wishes they were here on a friday night instead of out partying and getting wasted. i wish that people tried to understand our problems because then maybe we wouldn't have them.
in short, please be patient, we have autism.
thank you for coming to my chud talk.
