Blackpill Water post but, ppl dont actually like them for what they are NEVER. there's ALWAYS an exchange of services under the rug...

[Lookslikeit]

Let me expand on this. I used to think there was some magical unicorns up there waiting to be found, but thats all BS.

There isnt and hasnt been ever a person on this god forsaken planet who exchanged even a mild interaction with another for the sole purpose of interacting with another human being and "just getting to know them" and shit.

The closest thing we have of that is a man's relationship with another of absolute lower rank than he is (think a lawyer and a chill hobo talking on the side walk with each other) but even that is limited and subject to strict criteria.

99% of humans interacting with each other, there is always an underying motive behind it, no doubt about it.

To finish it off, when a person demonstrates interest on you, always have in the back of your mind what is the possible machiavellian reason as why that exchange is happening and how to make it fruitful for yourself (if that is possible)

Also, read The Prince by Machiavelli, its A MUST for any incel.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

humans are fundamentally self-serving. Whether we want to admit it or not, in the end—we are looking to benefit ourselves.

But I do believe that just because we care for ourselves and our own, it doesn’t mean we must be exploitative, nor does it mean we cannot care for others as well. The truth is, many groups in the past that managed to make significant change worked together; they put the group and its goals above themselves. So if we ever want to make change and improve our situation, we need to get past some of this cynicism.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Yeah they''re called Utility friendships

 

[guessthatsit]

To finish it off, when a person demonstrates interest on you, always have in the back of your mind what is the possible machiavellian reason as why that exchange is happening and how to make it fruitful for yourself (if that is possible)

I am too naive and gullible I will keep this in mind.

 

[guessthatsit]

Also, read The Prince by Machiavelli, its A MUST for any incel.

Elaborate?

 

[ItsOverMan]

Basically every relationship is transactional. If you don't have something to offer somebody (entertainment, money, fun pleasurable sex, access to romantic partners for the other person, job opportunities, etc.) then fuck off.

 

[PrototypeCel]

99% of humans interacting with each other, there is always an underying motive behind it, no doubt about it.

To finish it off, when a person demonstrates interest on you, always have in the back of your mind what is the possible machiavellian reason as why that exchange is happening and how to make it fruitful for yourself (if that is possible)

Also, read The Prince by Machiavelli, its A MUST for any incel.

true which is why ive been skeptical of my childhood friend who still calls me to hang out when he lifemogs me in every way
in looks girls cars money etc
i think he wants something from me but what im not sure
i even asked him this when i was drunk accidently
he said nothing and just laughed
idk
but i feel like were gonna go our own ways soon for sure
i just dont know who is going to be the one to go first

 

[PrototypeCel]

Let me expand on this. I used to think there was some magical unicorns up there waiting to be found, but thats all BS.

There isnt and hasnt been ever a person on this god forsaken planet who exchanged even a mild interaction with another for the sole purpose of interacting with another human being and "just getting to know them" and shit.

The closest thing we have of that is a man's relationship with another of absolute lower rank than he is (think a lawyer and a chill hobo talking on the side walk with each other) but even that is limited and subject to strict criteria.

99% of humans interacting with each other, there is always an underying motive behind it, no doubt about it.

To finish it off, when a person demonstrates interest on you, always have in the back of your mind what is the possible machiavellian reason as why that exchange is happening and how to make it fruitful for yourself (if that is possible)

Also, read The Prince by Machiavelli, its A MUST for any incel.

they say friends from childhood are the best kind of friends you can have but were not kids anymore
foids money cars houses are now in the picture
i dont have shit at all so im confused as to why he hasnt ditched me like the rest yet

 

[Todd Thundercock]

humans are fundamentally self-serving. Whether we want to admit it or not, in the end—we are looking to benefit ourselves.

But I do believe that just because we care for ourselves and our own, it doesn’t mean we must be exploitative, nor does it mean we cannot care for others as well. The truth is, many groups in the past that managed to make significant change worked together; they put the group and its goals above themselves. So if we ever want to make change and improve our situation, we need to get past some of this cynicism.

There definitely used to be a sense of community that has completely eroded today. It goes well beyond cynicism, especially as a lonely male. You can't pretend anyone wants to even see us succeed.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

Basically every relationship is transactional. If you don't have something to offer somebody (entertainment, money, fun pleasurable sex, access to romantic partners for the other person, job opportunities, etc.) then fuck off.

yeah its all just friendly manipulation all relationships or relations besides family ones unless you see otherwise for whatever personal reason

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

There definitely used to be a sense of community that has completely eroded today. It goes well beyond cynicism, especially as a lonely male. You can't pretend anyone wants to even see us succeed.

Yes, male community has pretty much been ripped to shreds over the last five decades or so. People don’t understand the importance of group support. And you’re right—no one really wants us to succeed. We don’t get the attention and support we need, but then again: we also don’t do enough to help and support each other.

We are just not that unified, and our problems only get worse with everyone trying to do things their own way, instead of coming together and saying ‘hey we all have similar issues—can we stop fighting each other and start working on them together?’