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SuicideFuel Wasted Teen Years

Lazyandtalentless

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I’m 18, and I feel like I’ve completely wasted my teenage years. While the popular kids were out there making memories, having fun, and living life, I’ve just been watching it all pass me by. I haven’t done anything meaningful, haven’t made any real connections, and I’m left feeling empty. These should’ve been the best years of my life, but instead, I’ve just felt stuck, invisible, and alone. It’s hard to see everyone else moving forward while I feel like I’ve missed out on everything. I just don’t know how to make up for all the time I’ve lost.
 
You can't make up for it all you can do now is LDAR till you eventually die
 
i wish i have a normal life
 
You can't make up for it all you can do now is LDAR till you eventually die
And hopefully be able to start again in the next life with better cards to play.
 
I’m 20 and I feel no different than I did at 18. It doesn’t get any better as far I know.
 
I’m 18, and I feel like I’ve completely wasted my teenage years. While the popular kids were out there making memories, having fun, and living life, I’ve just been watching it all pass me by. I haven’t done anything meaningful, haven’t made any real connections, and I’m left feeling empty. These should’ve been the best years of my life, but instead, I’ve just felt stuck, invisible, and alone. It’s hard to see everyone else moving forward while I feel like I’ve missed out on everything. I just don’t know how to make up for all the time I’ve lost.
I got extremely suicidal at the end of my teens due to the reasons you described, I missed out on everything, didn't make memories, nothing, just rotted in my room all day where 2 years passing felt like 2 months. I don't know how I didn't rope. The age pill is brutal.
 
I feel you. Made a similar thread a while ago
 
My whole life was wasted ngl
 
Nothing you could've done
 
I’m 18, and I feel like I’ve completely wasted my teenage years. While the popular kids were out there making memories, having fun, and living life, I’ve just been watching it all pass me by. I haven’t done anything meaningful, haven’t made any real connections, and I’m left feeling empty. These should’ve been the best years of my life, but instead, I’ve just felt stuck, invisible, and alone. It’s hard to see everyone else moving forward while I feel like I’ve missed out on everything. I just don’t know how to make up for all the time I’ve lost.
Did you graduate already? Take an extra year of High School and try again? Join a club. Aside from that, you just have to keep moving forward.
 
Go to university or college. If you have no idea what you want to do, maybe take a year out and just get a part time job and spend time thinking about careers. But yeah, university/college can be like a second chance at highschool. It's basically the last bastion of being truly young. I mean, I fucked up my university years but that doesn't mean you will. But yeah, try being 26 instead of 18. I'd kill to be your age again. Your last couple of teen years and your early 20s are still a potential turning point in your life. It's after you hit mid 20s and beyond that it becomes nightmare difficulty for things to get better.
 
You still have time until you turn 21, then females will start thinking about the future and demand much more from a man. Nowadays a man needs to have his shit together by 25, influencers and celebrities are getting younger every year.
 
I use to feel like I wasted my teens but I look back and I see there really was never an escape for me
 
COPE. I'm 34 and I FEEL and LOOK like a 'teen'.:yes:
shawn michaels wrestling GIF by WWE
 
I used to think the same. Now I‘m 22. Nothing changed.
 
You still have a slim fighting chance but you've most likely peaked already, happened to me too. It will only get worse with age
 
I’m 18, and I feel like I’ve completely wasted my teenage years. While the popular kids were out there making memories, having fun, and living life, I’ve just been watching it all pass me by. I haven’t done anything meaningful, haven’t made any real connections, and I’m left feeling empty. These should’ve been the best years of my life, but instead, I’ve just felt stuck, invisible, and alone. It’s hard to see everyone else moving forward while I feel like I’ve missed out on everything. I just don’t know how to make up for all the time I’ve lost.
Same for me, I achieved literally nothing all I did was jerk off to porn at home
 
im 20 years old. and id do anything to have my childhood back instead of the shitty last 8 years
 
Welcome to the dome my friend i also am 18 and just realized that special “moment” is gone its fucking over after high school before many foids become sluts for chad


I had oneitis in highschool that i talked to for a couple of months never in my life have i wanted a gf so bad after she left to another high school
 
I’m 18, and I feel like I’ve completely wasted my teenage years. While the popular kids were out there making memories, having fun, and living life, I’ve just been watching it all pass me by. I haven’t done anything meaningful, haven’t made any real connections, and I’m left feeling empty. These should’ve been the best years of my life, but instead, I’ve just felt stuck, invisible, and alone. It’s hard to see everyone else moving forward while I feel like I’ve missed out on everything. I just don’t know how to make up for all the time I’ve lost.
I'm 21 and I feel the exact same way. Unfortunately it does not get much better, I've just adapted and dealt with it. Our lives ought to be more than this monotonous hell, and yet, for reasons beyond our control we can do pretty much nothing to fundamentally change it.

Although, maybe there is some hope since you'll have a final year as a teen. I would imagine that if you've always struggled with getting foids as have I that it's probably too little too late. But, I would figure out how to put myself in a position so that my twenties are at least tolerable. I'm still figuring that out as I go.
 

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