LDAR [Venting]I Feel Both Very Mature & Very Immature At The Same Time

[DarkStar]

This is a fact about myself which I absolutely detest, it has made could change: I am trying to make some efforts to change things but you guys know how those are, a constant uphill struggle which seldom yields half of the results I wish it would.

I have been told this fact about myself constantly, since it has been a trait of mine i've always had. Even in my teen years, I recalled my own mother saying to me on various occasions that I can be "very mature for my age on somethings but then also very immature on a lot"

Back then, I would be more mature than most of my peers in terms of humor, general behavior, and was(ironically) more honest with my parents than most of the little shitstains I knew: However, I also would recall getting frustrated over videogames such as COD to the point I would scream at my TV & even broke headsets a few times.

it comes down to just controlling my emotions over stuff as well, I also struggle at times to keep sort of a general solidly planned schedule in life. I do still make one, but it's very vague & I oftentimes don't even achieve half of the shit on it I need to do.

Even on here, many have noted how at times I seem very rational yet at others let my emotions take the wheel seemingly.

 

[Krobus]

Same, but I have been getting better at recognizing ragebait and not getting mad these days.

But there are moments where you want to just give a reply and insult them but you also don't want to look easily provokable
IRL in my low-inhibition days I would be very unfiltered & transparent but overtime I became more closed off.

 

[wereq]

a constant uphill struggle which seldom yields half of the results I wish it would.

Yeah this is what I've been struggling with and losing to everyday. Its this thing where the effort/struggle to reward ratio is severely skewed against me which makes life feel worthless. My mind is starting to give up now; can't go on striving when there's so little hope.

 

[AsiaCel]

Autism trait.


View: https://www.reddit.com/r/autism/comments/wv94na/do_you_ever_feel_extremely_mature_and_at_the_same/


I am essentially treated like a child everywhere I go (other than fellow autists), yet they would think I'm a walking encyclopedia (not my words) or "family man" (again, not my words)

 

[FuckYou]

In many ways I’m mentally closer to someone much younger than myself. I’d say I’m a bit emotionally underdeveloped.

 

[Fantasea]

Calling all Zencels
@Animecel2D
@PersonalityChad
@NIGGER BOJANGLES
@NeverEvenBegan
@LeFrenchCel
@Paladin
@Pikacel
@sadlemon
@Suigin Trismegistus
@Mihailo Toloto

 

[PersonalityChad]

Calling all Zencels
@Animecel2D
@PersonalityChad
@NIGGER BOJANGLES
@NeverEvenBegan
@LeFrenchCel
@Paladin
@Pikacel
@sadlemon
@Suigin Trismegistus
@Mihailo Toloto

I sort of relate to @DarkStar to an extent tbh, mentally it's like I'm 14 (since i didn't get to experience important developmental milestones like getting a gf) but also 80 at the same time.

 

[Mihailo Toloto]

Calling all Zencels
@Animecel2D
@PersonalityChad
@NIGGER BOJANGLES
@NeverEvenBegan
@LeFrenchCel
@Paladin
@Pikacel
@sadlemon
@Suigin Trismegistus
@Mihailo Toloto

Publicly, I'm extremely mature, but in private, I act like a child

 

[Emba]

Fascinating

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

Calling all Zencels
@Animecel2D
@PersonalityChad
@NIGGER BOJANGLES
@NeverEvenBegan
@LeFrenchCel
@Paladin
@Pikacel
@sadlemon
@Suigin Trismegistus
@Mihailo Toloto

I am also MENTALLY STUNDED.

I am a literal MAN CHILD.

I AM 31YO KHHV. THERE ARE MIDDLE SCHOOLERS OUT THERE WHO MOGG ME WITH SEXUAL EXPERIENCE.

Men need sex from women for a healthy mental development. It is INHUMANE to be KHHV at 31.

I'm not just mentally a child, even physically I kind of look like one. I am a framecel. Thin wrists, narrow shoulders, small forearms.

I am going feral, this is NOT NORMAL

 

[Fantasea]

I am going feral, this is NOT NORMAL

Don't worry about it

 

[Suigin Trismegistus]

If you become frustrated with something to the point where you are throwing a temper tantrum / gamer raging, it may be because you are too attached to something or a particular outcome to the point where your very identity or perceived status is threatened. For example, the self-identified "pro-gamer" who keeps dying against a particular team or player in a competitive match. You have too much attachment to the desire of being the winner.

The solution is learning to let go. If you let go of the idea of always being the winner, or some other outcome, and things go badly, you will experience less grief. When you let go, you will realize that in the bigger picture of things, losing wasn't that big of a deal. The sun always comes up the following day.

Learning to let go more on things that intersect externally with the world and soyciety at large will at least allow you to act more maturely and maintain your cool.

 

[Chuddy McChud]

Truecel trait ngl. When ever i do wrong (usually caused from excess pride jfl) I've never had an issue with personal accountability, I always know when I'm in the wrong, or in the right, but i view things through the lens of "me vs them" so even though i can acknowledge my wrong doing, ill never outwardly admit to it, I guess some people must think of me as very immature.

 

[TooSomething]

I am also MENTALLY STUNDED.

I am a literal MAN CHILD.

I AM 31YO KHHV. THERE ARE MIDDLE SCHOOLERS OUT THERE WHO MOGG ME WITH SEXUAL EXPERIENCE.

Men need sex from women for a healthy mental development. It is INHUMANE to be KHHV at 31.

I'm not just mentally a child, even physically I kind of look like one. I am a framecel. Thin wrists, narrow shoulders, small forearms.

I am going feral, this is NOT NORMAL

In some esoteric circles it is said that men are like batteries who need regular regarging and women are like this well of infinite energy and also black wholes who for male energy.

Men need female attention, not just sex to thrive, it is said.
I assume that in the real world it triggers the secretion of important hormones for the male to develop properly.

If a man ks deprived of these triggers he cannot develop properly, even if everything is on point, diet, sleep, exersize, genetic predisposition.

Basically, the men who were already genetically attractive enough at an early age have won because they have harvested all the female attention and starved everyone else around them.

But even if an incel, later in life, surgery maxxes and finally gets the attention and energy, it will be to late as the developmental phase is long over.

It is over.

 

[Friezacel]

I feel intelectually mature, but emotionally and sexually immature

 

[Rapistcel]

Fascinating

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

the men who were already genetically attractive enough at an early age have won because they have harvested all the female attention and starved everyone else around them.

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

I can relate to that. It's honestly a strange duality—being able to understand the nuances of the world, while at the same time feeling like a child in terms of my emotions and relationships. I have the capacity to see through the bullshit, but I also struggle to navigate human interaction and live a normal life.

I suppose the maturity comes because I’ve been forced to confront brutal truths about life and society early on. And the immaturity comes because I never got to live a normal youth, so part of me is stuck at the age when everyone else left me behind. My experiences, or lack thereof, have stunted me for life, and it's unlikely a change will occur.

 

[TooSomething]

It is so over if that theory is true. At 38 all that is left is to LDAR for me. Not even kidding.

 

[D. B. Gooner]

Not indulging in some pointless activities young people partake in makes us seem more mature. I genuinely hate social events, drinking, smoking, normie small talk, and my family has noted how mature I am, yet sometimes they'll spin it differently and call me boring instead. Either way it's not by choice, I just can't force myself to like certain things. I don't consider myself mature, I am just me, if that me happened to be immature, I'd proudly be immature.

I am also a big rager, in gaming and other dumb stuff, like when a youtube video wont load, or when people walk too slow in front of me. I think letting emotions rule you is a good thing. To repress them would be to enslave your true self to appeal to others. It's just that high t people would simply be less prone to feeling emotional to the point where they'll have outbursts. But when they do feel emotions, they express themselves.

Why would you wanna be considered mature anyways? I believe the word is mostly used to shame people into being better wage-slaves. Happy and healthy humans are always playful, no matter the age. I don't think your age should affect the way you behave. Wisdom might affect the way you behave, but it does so naturally, there is no need to force anything.

 

[Kamanbert]

You mentionned it i think the core of the problem is that you dont manifest that maturity through control of your own life. Kinda feel the same. But it somewhat sucks to be muh disciplined, it's present day soyciety that forces it upon us to an insane degree

 

[caineturbat2003]

Relatable. The fact is that we haven't experienced most of the shit a normal person would do that would develop on said experience and become a more matured version of themselves. The difference between us and your average normie is that we have a more high functioning brain and we get to see this world for what it really is while at the same time miss out on most life. The opposite happens to a normie. Due to his sheep-like personality and maybe his low IQ, he's bound to not fully comprehend this world and become the slave of a system that knows how to exploit his nature, while at the same time getting to experiencing teen love, a good social group, friends that actually respect him, etc.

We, truecels, are polar opposites of the normies. So it's, I guess, only natural to be mature on how this world works, but not knowing jack shit on emotional stuff since most of our lives we've been looked down or treated like clowns by our peers.

 

[SubhumanGamer]

Same but I probably have bipolar or some shit

 

[Do Not Redeem]

How do

You cope

 

[Regenerator]

I try to act as mature as possible all the time but sometimes I can't help myself.

 

[poorenglishcel]

I am like a 5 year old mentally.

 

[poorenglishcel]

Publicly, I'm extremely mature, but in private, I act like a child