Your face doesn't get a say. Neither does your brain. Foids are the only ones that get a say, and they get their say by rejecting or accepting your advances, which you must make.
Exactly and based on my 100% fail rate, it's safe to say my face is the issue.
And sure to your other point, finishing high school as a virgin is a bad sign, but there's more than one reason for a guy being a virgin. If you're a normie, you have to put in work and endure rejections to finally get sex. If you don't make the effort (for whatever reason) by being social and actively trying to hook up with foids, you will be a virgin but not necessarily an incel, especially not a lifelong one. You could even be a virgin due to bad luck (the three girls you tried to hook up with didn't like you), bad judgment (you aimed at girls far above your looksmatch) or another person's malice (some popular kid picking on you and giving you the social equivalent of the plague) but you could still be attractive enough to not be an incel.
There's a misconception among coping incels that men can only be incels or Chads. In fact both are minorities - the vast majority of men are normies and they have to put in effort to get sex. If they don't they're volcel and they do not belong here.
You've stated:
"If you're a nomie, you have to put in work and endure rejections to finally get sex"
At what point is too much work > reward?
For example, if there's a normie who spends upwards of £20,000 on accessories to improve his SMV whilst going to the gym 6 times a week every year, restricting his diet to keep an extremely low bodyfat and spending hours on extra-curricular stuff all for a: 32 year old landwhale.
Is it even worth it?
I know I'm ugly, so the last thing I want to do is invest any more time and effort into chasing something that doesn't fucking exist?
This is akin to the blue-pilled advice which IT and other idiots give.
There's a misconception among coping incels that men can only be incels or Chads. In fact both are minorities - the vast majority of men are normies and they have to put in effort to get sex. If they don't they're volcel and they do not belong here.
How much effort is too much effort?
Expecting someone to work on himself for 10+ years and him yielding no results is mentally suicidal.
I've put in effort and I've failed, I'm not going to grind for
x years for something that isn't even guaranteed. That's
Insanity - trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Have you seen
@FACEandLMS 's recent livestream with the redpilled coper (bulldog)?
There was a segment where he states for a guy to
stand a good chance to get laid he has to approach ~ 300 times.
Notice how it's not guaranteed, but it gives you a
chance.
Tell me how would any sane man feel after 300 rejections? You'd feel like shit. It would have been a waste of time. In Vain.
You'd be angry at all the worthless work you put in and it would send you over the edge.
There should be a balance between not putting in so much work to the point if it backfires it mentally destroys you
and putting too little work making you a volcel.