Assuming you're a true incel, i.e., you are and always will be incel, there are only two ways of dealing with your inceldom. Cope, or the rope.
There are probably many ways of coping with inceldom, but here are two I've noticed:
A)Eliminating or reducing the desire for foids
This is my current method of coping. Having watched a lot of anime and read some manga, I've so become used to the behavior and appearances of 2D women that the thought of being with a 3D foid seems unpleasant. And, having taken the blackpill, I realize that being in a romantic relationship with a 3D foid just isn't something that's worth it. No doubt, the foid would have had many sexual partners before me, it would cheat on me, manipulate me, etc., as all (or virtually all) 3D foids do. Because both sexual and romantic relations with a 3D foid seem unpleasant to me, I have reached a kind of acceptance of my inceldom.
Also, that's just the method that I ended up utilizing. There are other methods of accomplishing the same thing. Religioncoping, for example.
The problem with this method is that it requires maintenance, and it isn't entirely within your control. We all follow the same biological imperative, and it guides all of our actions, though to differing extents depending on one's genes. The innate desire to be with a foid is eventually going to rise to the surface, and if you are not able to suppress it, you'll be back to square one. For people with a weak innate desire, it isn't too difficult, but for those with a strong desire, it is very difficult.
B)Deluding yourself into believing you aren't incel
This is essentially what the "I'm an unattractive virgin but I'm not an incel" incels on IT do. If you aren't an incel in your own mind, then maybe you won't suffer as an incel, even if you are an incel in reality. These types of men generally believe they're just down on their luck or believe that they're celibate by choice.
I think this option is much less desirable than 1 because it doesn't have its foundation in the truth like 1. 1 starts by accepting the premise "I am incel", and instead works to suppress the unfulfillable desire which is a cause of inceldom. 2 will lead to a great deal of cognitive dissonance, and I suspect it is prone to a kind of sudden shattering, where all the lies and delusion that has built up over the years is brought down like the wind blowing over a house of cards.
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Then there's the rope:
It's fairly straightforward. Dead men can't be incel. The unique suffering of an incel results from the absence of sex and romance from his life; he wants these things, but he can't get them. If he no longer exists, there is no longer someone for whom the absence of sex and romance is a deprivation, so the problem is solved.
There are probably many ways of coping with inceldom, but here are two I've noticed:
A)Eliminating or reducing the desire for foids
This is my current method of coping. Having watched a lot of anime and read some manga, I've so become used to the behavior and appearances of 2D women that the thought of being with a 3D foid seems unpleasant. And, having taken the blackpill, I realize that being in a romantic relationship with a 3D foid just isn't something that's worth it. No doubt, the foid would have had many sexual partners before me, it would cheat on me, manipulate me, etc., as all (or virtually all) 3D foids do. Because both sexual and romantic relations with a 3D foid seem unpleasant to me, I have reached a kind of acceptance of my inceldom.
Also, that's just the method that I ended up utilizing. There are other methods of accomplishing the same thing. Religioncoping, for example.
The problem with this method is that it requires maintenance, and it isn't entirely within your control. We all follow the same biological imperative, and it guides all of our actions, though to differing extents depending on one's genes. The innate desire to be with a foid is eventually going to rise to the surface, and if you are not able to suppress it, you'll be back to square one. For people with a weak innate desire, it isn't too difficult, but for those with a strong desire, it is very difficult.
B)Deluding yourself into believing you aren't incel
This is essentially what the "I'm an unattractive virgin but I'm not an incel" incels on IT do. If you aren't an incel in your own mind, then maybe you won't suffer as an incel, even if you are an incel in reality. These types of men generally believe they're just down on their luck or believe that they're celibate by choice.
I think this option is much less desirable than 1 because it doesn't have its foundation in the truth like 1. 1 starts by accepting the premise "I am incel", and instead works to suppress the unfulfillable desire which is a cause of inceldom. 2 will lead to a great deal of cognitive dissonance, and I suspect it is prone to a kind of sudden shattering, where all the lies and delusion that has built up over the years is brought down like the wind blowing over a house of cards.
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Then there's the rope:
It's fairly straightforward. Dead men can't be incel. The unique suffering of an incel results from the absence of sex and romance from his life; he wants these things, but he can't get them. If he no longer exists, there is no longer someone for whom the absence of sex and romance is a deprivation, so the problem is solved.
