Two possible jobs i could get now. Need advices

[Cybersex is our hope]

The first one is private investigator (they asked for hiring me). It can pay very well but i'm not 100% sure about that since i could have problem with it cause of my high inhib and low social skills (plus anxiety can be a real problem in such a job). It would be veeeery good spying foids if asked to though lol.
The second one is basically being an employee at a sporting goods store. It pays less but it's kinda stable (something like 1.500 dollars per month) and maybe less stressfull. It could still be viable living with my parents and using some of the money to escortcel

So it looks like i could exit my neeting life after graduation. I was lucky to have two offers but i'm unsure about the choice due to my inceldom/social anxiety/ non NT.

 

[acnescarcel]

private investigator retail is hell

 

[Blacktarpill]

Definitely the first option.

 

[Guest2]

Private investigator seems a much better option if you have the opportunity.

 

[Blacktarpill]

private investigator retail is hell

I wouldnt mind selling private investigators tbh.

 

[blond_elf_bard]

PI sounds fun

 

[Ecstasy]

Private investigator sounds good, but I have no idea of this job so you gotta decide.
But dont pick your career based on being high inhib or because you want to avoid social interaction. I worked in an IT job with customers and it make me low inhib as fuck. I can fake being a normie 100% now and my anxiety dropped. A job will force you to jump into the cold water.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

Private investigator sounds good, but I have no idea of this job so you gotta decide.
But dont pick your career based on being high inhib or because you want to avoid social interaction. I worked in an IT job with customers and it make me low inhib as fuck. I can fake being a normie 100% now and my anxiety dropped. A job will force you to jump into the cold water.

I deeply appreciate your support but i felt uneasy and full of anxiety evry time i forced myself into low inhib jobs or environments (also when i try to act low inhib i either sound fake or a jerk. It isn't something natural for me since i'm not NT). I tried working like a lifeguard and it was pure hell (everyone mocked or hated me). I tried being a secretary and i did a terrible job making my employers lose some money LOL. I tried to work as a runner in a restaurant and after the first day i began feeling deeply anxious everytime i was going to work in that restaurant and after a week they kindly invited me to quit the job since it wasn't for me.

This to say that NOT interacting with NT people is VITAL for me (i could even be at risk of nervous breackdown or incel rage if i interact TOO MUCH).
At the moment the only job i managed to do well was working in a harvest. Basically shutting up, harvesting grapes and taking it to the wagon. Zero talk with anyone (or nearly zero). This gives you an idea LoL

Private investigator seems a much better option if you have the opportunity.

It is but i'm scared to death of social interactions/social skills or anxiety

Definitely the first option.

I agree but the first options has potential emotional/psychological connotations that could harm me

 

[Ecstasy]

I deeply appreciate your support but i felt uneasy and full of anxiety evry time i forced myself into low inhib jobs or environments (also when i try to act low inhib i either sound fake or a jerk. It isn't something natural for me since i'm not NT). I tried working like a lifeguard and it was pure hell (everyone mocked or hated me). I tried being a secretary and i did a terrible job making my employers lose some money LOL. I tried to work as a runner in a restaurant and after the first day i began feeling deeply anxious everytime i was going to work in that restaurant and after a week they kindly invited me to quit the job since it wasn't for me.

This to say that NOT interacting with NT people is VITAL for me (i could even be at risk of nervous breackdown or incel rage if i interact TOO MUCH).
At the moment the only job i managed to do well was working in a harvest. Basically shutting up, harvesting grapes and taking it to the wagon. Zero talk with anyone (or nearly zero). This gives you an idea LoL

Well being a runner/waiter at the restaurant is one of the jobs I wanted to write I would not recommend for low inhib maxx. I know some people who do this job and its terrible. Lifeguard sounds too much aswell, that is why you need to find out if the position as investigator fits you. If they asked you to do it, they probably have a reason to believe you can do it. Just please don't choose a dead end job because you're incel. We have enough problems anyway...

 

[Cuyen]

first option seems nice bro

 

[ihaveno1]

id say investigator

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

Well being a runner/waiter at the restaurant is one of the jobs I wanted to write I would not recommend for low inhib maxx. I know some people who do this job and its terrible. Lifeguard sounds too much aswell, that is why you need to find out if the position as investigator fits you. If they asked you to do it, they probably have a reason to believe you can do it. Just please don't choose a dead end job because you're incel. We have enough problems anyway...

To be fair they asked for me since they know i was graduating in a economic/juridical field and
1 They needed that kind of degree
2 They needed nearly everyone they could get since there is a LOT of request for investigations and they don't have enough people to do the job.
So i definetly wasn't something special for them

Also, i know it's not motivating to choose a dead end job, however, considering i'll be living with my parents forever and won't get married isn't it just the more rational option to go for the less stressfull stable job that will grant me enough money to pay for the gym, videogames and escorts? I'm really conflicted

Also, my social/psychological problems are sometimes really bad (increased by a life of constant failures and mediocrity and as a lifelong KV) so i don't want to be forced to leave another job and feel depressed and useless again

id say investigator

I'd say the same however i've psychological problems with social interactions

first option seems nice bro

It is if you don't have social anxiety

 

[Marquis de Sade]

Private investigator and once you've got that sussed, bounty hunter.

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Definitely the first option.

 

[Gone Coping]

do the PI job, one day you can open your own incel detective agency

 

[Lubricure]

To be fair they asked for me since they know i was graduating in a economic/juridical field and
1 They needed that kind of degree
2 They needed nearly everyone they could get since there is a LOT of request for investigations and they don't have enough people to do the job.
So i definetly wasn't something special for them

Go for the first option, no hesitation. If you get a good job because you´re in demand, take it. The job market is worsening by the day, and you could really regret working in a retail, with such an opportunity on your the plate. Femoids in HR are cancer, and taking the first job would be a way to avoid them completely, or hopefully as much as possible.

 

[Damo the incel]

do the PI job, one day you can open your own incel detective agency

This, we need private incel Detective investment

 

[fOreVER]

Since you asked this question i think nether is right for you

 

[Deleted member 16624]

retail is hell

 

[Deleted member 14430]

The second one is basically being an employee at a sporting goods store. It pays less but it's kinda stable (something like 1.500 dollars per month) and maybe less stressfull. It could still be viable living with my parents and using some of the money to escortcel

Go for the PI, I do literally that and I can say its retail hell, dealing with soccer moms and little children all day is fucking horrible.

 

[Cybersex is our hope]

Since you asked this question i think nether is right for you

Or I just can't choose since I only want to ldar doing having the less stress possible lol

This, we need private incel Detective investment

Based

Go for the PI, I do literally that and I can say its retail hell, dealing with soccer moms and little children all day is fucking horrible.

I believe you. Maybe my job will be about unpacking stuff and puttin it in its place or something like that. I'l try this for this summer as a part time job and than I'll see what it's better