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SuicideFuel Trying to socialize

keksofthebest

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As the title says, Trying to socialize is suifuel. I literally have no clue about it other than introducing myself to others. Socializing has never been a strong suit of mine, as in previous posts, i've said that i've always sat alone during lunch and other times where it's natural to go out and socialize. I am in my 12th year of School, so this is the last year of school, and it's honestly been depressing, when i was younger I was very lowinhib, but as the years went on, i started to recluse into myself. Since this is high school i'm talking about, everyone has their friends to talk with and have fun with. I'm the complete opposite, of these other people. I stutter alot, and I avoid eye contact like the Plague (Though i wouldn't mind if i caught the plague). Everyone knows who their friends are now. And it's near impossible to get into a friend group without feeling you don't belong there or you feel as if you're being annoying. I feel very depressed when I see foids talking to their other foid friends. The other day this Girl (More like Young Woman) was talking about her soon to be husband, while holding her friends hand. I stopped for a second to observe this, and I realized what I am missing out on,not only Teen love but, also having Friends. This has sent my mental state into a state of despair....and to the realization that this will probably be my happiest time as i don't have much to look forward to other than working for the rest of my life.
 
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Lolimancer

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If you looked at least average ,people would had initiated conversations with you, tried to be your friend and stuff and you'd actually develop a personality

You can't learn socializing if nobody intends to be associated with you.
keksofthebest said:
or you feel as if you're being annoying.
because you are to them
 
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You can socialize with people in here.
 
0Energy0Happyness

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I'm trying to be more low inhib
 
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Ugly=no social life.
 
keksofthebest

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0Energy0Happyness said:
I'm trying to be more low inhib
Good luck on that, hopefully you won't be mocked, laughed at, and humilated by other people as i was.
Lolimancer said:
If you looked at least average ,people would had initiated conversations with you, tried to be your friend and stuff and you'd actually develop a personality

One of the harshest realities of lookism, and for the people who have gotten close to me friendship wise they describe me as a "Good person" and they Genuinely enjoy being around me. But those people have moved on with their lives, gotten girlfriends and other things of that nature, things that signal being NT. They don't have the time to be around that person who can barely look others in the eyes.
 
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Relatable. After all these years i barely bother with people as i know im unable to even have a conversation with people. Im dependent on the other person making a big effort, meaning i only manage to talk to people with the same narrow interests as me. Also these people prefer to talk to someone else after just a short while. Even when talking with peers at the top level you need to be able to talk about life outside your interest.
 
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NorthernWind said:
Ugly=no social life.
What a joke of a society, especially for one that claims to care about mental health
 
investigatorcel

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there are no friends when you have bad genetics
 
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i suck at socialisation even in a virtual world.
 
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