The one common factor I've been seeing in all the books, games, anime and even some historical accounts and documentaries I've read and watched is that usually the relationships resembling the ideal spawn from situations where the boy and the girl in question were forced by circumstance to rely on each other.
In ancients times, or even in recent centuries, men and women were constantly presented with situations that tested their ability to adapt and survive. Men would take the lead in these scenarios and prove, through their actions, their suitability as a mate on a visceral, but subliminal level to women without knowing it. Because women are sensitive to those demonstrations, as it is an important event that tells their subconscious that this man is powerful and courageous enough to protect them and their offspring, a strong sense of attachment is planted in that woman's heart with the memory of that feeling and the memory of watching the man overcome that difficult trial alongside her.
Afterwards, the woman has a lasting respect and possibly gratitude in addition to the attachment from the event, and becomes far less likely to be with other men in the future as a result. Furthermore, it's the feeling of respect that makes the woman submissive, coming from demonstrating your competence in a way directly relating to the woman's life, making them want to genuinely help you, not out of an artificial sense of obligation from a cultural structure, but from a personal experience that couldn't have been more real.
In the modern world, we're deprived of those demonstrative survival situations that were essential for a long lasting result in mate-selection, and so now more value is placed on superficialities that only go to the extent of physical appeal, outward displays of confidence and just the general ability to impress with showmanship. Since these superficialities differ, and there is always a bigger Chad, those feelings of "love" will fade and be replaced all the time, leading to the modern age of unlimited sluttery.
A partial solution to this problem is having couples go through a rigorous rites of passage, and either have their relationship fall apart at the realization of each other's incompetence or undergo a nirvanic rebirth where the woman will be securely tethered to the man mentally and emotionally.
In ancients times, or even in recent centuries, men and women were constantly presented with situations that tested their ability to adapt and survive. Men would take the lead in these scenarios and prove, through their actions, their suitability as a mate on a visceral, but subliminal level to women without knowing it. Because women are sensitive to those demonstrations, as it is an important event that tells their subconscious that this man is powerful and courageous enough to protect them and their offspring, a strong sense of attachment is planted in that woman's heart with the memory of that feeling and the memory of watching the man overcome that difficult trial alongside her.
Afterwards, the woman has a lasting respect and possibly gratitude in addition to the attachment from the event, and becomes far less likely to be with other men in the future as a result. Furthermore, it's the feeling of respect that makes the woman submissive, coming from demonstrating your competence in a way directly relating to the woman's life, making them want to genuinely help you, not out of an artificial sense of obligation from a cultural structure, but from a personal experience that couldn't have been more real.
In the modern world, we're deprived of those demonstrative survival situations that were essential for a long lasting result in mate-selection, and so now more value is placed on superficialities that only go to the extent of physical appeal, outward displays of confidence and just the general ability to impress with showmanship. Since these superficialities differ, and there is always a bigger Chad, those feelings of "love" will fade and be replaced all the time, leading to the modern age of unlimited sluttery.
A partial solution to this problem is having couples go through a rigorous rites of passage, and either have their relationship fall apart at the realization of each other's incompetence or undergo a nirvanic rebirth where the woman will be securely tethered to the man mentally and emotionally.
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