I think you've got it backwards.
The most truly repulsed, exiled, non-NT get into the most scraps.
I'm not saying that incels have to get into fights to be incel. I'm just saying it's a common thing for many incels.
Life is not some Americana movie where the chads get into fights and learn what being a "real man" is.
Chads' muscles do not mean they have any real-world strength or toughness.
Their muscles are nothing but looks. They're like the breasts of a woman who has never had children and never will. Socially wanted because of some residual memory of what things like that used to mean. But practically meaningless.
Chads don't get into fights. Or as many problems. For them, like daddy Kennedy said, "don't worry--the insurance men will take care of it."