This entire post can be broken in half because of what they think they're calling us out for. Incels are not advocating for rape and murder, nor are they really advocating for anything bad or unfair to happen to anyone. We are understandably frustrated that the sexual and social experiences most people have are totally out of our reach because of genetic factors we can't control, which is made worse by the fact that society is constantly pushing the idea that self improvement is the respectable path we should all follow. On top of that, we're tired of being attacked for no other reason than people thinking they're above us and using us as stepping stones for their own social lives.
If a single one of these Reddit geniuses could make a real argument explaining why incels are fundamentally wrong we'd have something to listen to, but all we ever get is "Okay INCEL why don't you just RESPECT women and stop being so GROSS haha."