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Today is approach day but I feel demotivated

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i said to myself that I will approach women one day a week

today is that day since I usually go to the swimming pool and there's a mall nearby

but I feel demotivated - when I say hi they all walk away pretending they didn't hear me

If I ask them what they are doing, they say something and look away.

And the whole time my heart is racing at 150 bpm

I would rather do max deadlifts every day than this torture tbh
 
JFL only chad can have success approaching randoms
 
If you are really an incel and aren't border lining a normie, why the hell would you be approaching them?
 
OP might be a fake
If you are really an incel and aren't border lining a normie, why the hell would you be approaching them?
OP might be a hopecel who stills believe that he has some chance to land something but we really wish him the best.

Hit the gym, get a haircut, shower and be confident OP
 
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OP might be a fake
OP might be a hopecel who stills believe that he has some chance to land something but we really wish him the best.

Hit the gym, get a haircut, shower and be confident OP

I guess I am a realist. You don't just walk up to random people to try and start a conversation if you are a weirdo.
 
I remember my friend got this ioi.. "hi" from a jb. He didnt answer her cuz he is a retard. Fuck I will never forget going past a femoid and her saying hi, glad we ignored that roastie, we did not say shit back lmao she was just left there walking with "hi".
 
Jesus man, don't approach a moving target.
 
I remember my friend got this ioi.. "hi" from a jb. He didnt answer her cuz he is a retard. Fuck I will never forget going past a femoid and her saying hi, glad we ignored that roastie, we did not say shit back lmao she was just left there walking with "hi".

hi from a jb?

ur friend must be chaddy chad
 
cold approaching is a setup for failure. gl tho.
 
Lol@falling for PUA memes

I remember a video of a guy who had tried 2000 approaches for nothing (ugly manlet). He was completely broken.
 
I don't mind cold approaches in theory, though in practice guys rarely manage to pull it off.

What other women are saying about being interrupted is important and it's where most guys fail. If I am in the middle of something, working my way down a shopping list, reading, listening to music, (whatever) interrupting my train of thought is going to annoy me. That starts him out way in a hole, and he's going to have to have something truly incredible to say, or be so good looking my brain forgets there was ever anything else in the world, including previous annoyance.

Taken directly from /r/askwomen
 
Jfl at approaching in 2018. If a girl wants you (good luck as a sub 7 autist) she'll let you know and jump on your dick.
 
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No, take it from someone who spent every weekend for 6 months doing this. You better have a 7/10 face and a good frame to pull this off. It doesn’t matter if you’re going after 2-3s, you will fail badly and like 99/100 times. The one time you didn’t fail? She gave you a fake number. That’s what some PUAs consider to be a success.
 
Approaching women is the hardest thing ive done in my life, im not exaggerating. Wasting time, money and energy to get humiliated and rejected is pure hell. And knowing that it will continue until you succeed is fucking suifuel. I gave up after years trying, i could not take any more rejections.... I hope we see sexual cyborgs soon, i think i would never feel the need to approach a woman again if i could fuck a doll in a 3D environment or some shit like that every day.
 
No, take it from someone who spent every weekend for 6 months doing this. You better have a 7/10 face and a good frame to pull this off. It doesn’t matter if you’re going after 2-3s, you will fail badly and like 99/100 times. The one time you didn’t fail? She gave you a fake number. That’s what some PUAs consider to be a success.
I didn't know about your PUA background. 6 months every weekend is crazy! Did you get anything?
 
I didn't know about your PUA background. 6 months every weekend is crazy! Did you get anything?

Yes, I went through the PUA stuff back in ‘05-‘06 bigly. Got NADA from it.
 
Neva approach a woma without an IOI. Unless you're a 8/10 mentacel. If you really want to do this, try to force yourself to go to places design for that. Bars, clubs, activities with females(dancing classes) or something like that.
 
Neva approach a woma without an IOI. Unless you're a 8/10 mentacel. If you really want to do this, try to force yourself to go to places design for that. Bars, clubs, activities with females(dancing classes) or something like that.

if you are an 8/10, online dating will work well for you

i am not
 
JFL only chad can have success approaching randoms

Stop using that term to describe spoiled rich niggers riding the coat-tails of their rich parents. 'Piece of shit noise" would be much better.
 
Is that a photo of you? You'd make an awesome rapist, seriously.

No, that’s a guy someone posted on here. He’s white so I think he has a better shot than me tbh.
 
Darn. That guy would make an amazing rapist.

This guy rapist mogs him

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Stop using that term to describe spoiled rich niggers riding the coat-tails of their rich parents. 'Piece of shit noise" would be much better.
chad is looks not money and status
 
Only Chads can cold approach. You sound like you don't have the social skills to pull a maneuver like that.

Also randomly saying Hi to girls somewhere is not the best way. As someone else mentioned you need to go to socially conducive places like a bar etc where talking to random people is the norm. And even still prepare for major rejection.
 
Only Chads can cold approach. You sound like you don't have the social skills to pull a maneuver like that.

Also randomly saying Hi to girls somewhere is not the best way. As someone else mentioned you need to go to socially conducive places like a bar etc where talking to random people is the norm. And even still prepare for major rejection.

i don't go to bars and clubs

it's too expensive and time consuming
 
i don't go to bars and clubs

it's too expensive and time consuming
Well then approach women you see almost everyday or often. Approaching random women is extremely difficult to do in all seriousness unless you're very good looking. Even normies struggle in this area because cunts are so discerning.
 
Well then approach women you see almost everyday or often. Approaching random women is extremely difficult to do in all seriousness unless you're very good looking. Even normies struggle in this area because cunts are so discerning.

legit
 
>approaching

>blackpill

choose one
 
I remember my friend got this ioi.. "hi" from a jb. He didnt answer her cuz he is a retard. Fuck I will never forget going past a femoid and her saying hi, glad we ignored that roastie, we did not say shit back lmao she was just left there walking with "hi".
was she a stranger?
 
but I feel demotivated - when I say hi they all walk away pretending they didn't hear me

If I ask them what they are doing, they say something and look away.
Not sure why you even bother. You may be building a reputation as the local creep/probably a rapist.
 

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