Serious To what extent does personality matter?

[Choler]

If you are not mentally retarded, you know looks are not everything, that's why you see short ethnics sub-humans having sex, yes they are not getting good sex, they are oofy doofies, they are simp cucks and will be replaced by a more attractive man when the foid gets the chance, we all know that, but they are still getting sex once in a while, so to what extent does personality matter in ur opinion?

 

[fokusin]

It's a joke

 

[AnApparentMyth]

It matters only, when it doesn't need to.

 

[IloveDeath]

It doesn't, personality would only matter if everyone looked and sounded the same, which will never happen.

 

[kaijicel]

It doesn't, personality would only matter if everyone looked and sounded the same, which will never happen.

 

[Alone4life]

it matters when you have to choose 10/10 serial killer and 9/10 nice guy

 

[IloveDeath]

it matters when you have to choose 10/10 serial killer and 9/10 nice guy

? They would choose the serial killer with no hesitation.

 

[Choler]

? They would choose the serial killer with no hesitation.

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[Nullified]

I would say it’s half half. Half looks half personality. Sub5 looks, way less chance nearly 0.
Average, okay looks = considerably low but possible chance.
Annoying, unmemorable or unsociable autistic personality, even less chance. Hyper NT guys are blessed.

 

[unborndegenerate]

OP is right, every sub5 cuck gets sex until chad walks in the room

 

[Ghost]

The only "personality" that matters is how much of a bad boy you are. That's the only way I've seen a sub 5 get a girlfriend

 

[nogymforyourface]

Go read my chadlite threads asap if you think personality matters even 1%

 

[glutty]

Only long-term relationships where you would plan to marry and/or raise a family, in terms of sex it's not so much.

 

[Grodd]

It doesn't

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

You need to be able to be able to put up with being around people in the first place I guess.

 

[unban Tax 2]

Personality doesn't matter it's all looks

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

I mean, it does matter, but looks matter more. If you're an average guy, personality does honestly matter (I mean, yes, you should still take care of your appearance, and you won’t be getting as many girls as Chad, but it still matters somewhat). However, if you're a 7 or higher in looks (model-tier level) or a 3 or lower in looks (hideously deformed with maggots coming out of your mouth), it doesn't really matter. An attractive criminal can still get girls, while a severely deformed guy with maggots coming out of his mouth won’t get girls no matter how great his personality is. That said, if you're an average guy, like a 4 to 6, your personality does matter—but by personality, I mean being neurotypical and not severely mentally ill.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

Looks only not matter to incel/Chads for normies being extrovert is really important

 

[TheJester]

Very little. I think personality is only of matter if you are like Non NT or NT.

Personality basically means whether you are insane or a weirdo or if your normal/mentally healthy.

 

[Friezacel]

Shitpost

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

I mean, it does matter, but looks matter more. If you're an average guy, personality does honestly matter (I mean, yes, you should still take care of your appearance, and you won’t be getting as many girls as Chad, but it still matters somewhat). However, if you're a 7 or higher in looks (model-tier level) or a 3 or lower in looks (hideously deformed with maggots coming out of your mouth), it doesn't really matter. An attractive criminal can still get girls, while a severely deformed guy with maggots coming out of his mouth won’t get girls no matter how great his personality is. That said, if you're an average guy, like a 4 to 6, your personality does matter—but by personality, I mean being neurotypical and not severely mentally ill.

Autism and mental illnesses can be caused by genetics. Mental illnesses can also be caused by a difficult childhood, none of which is within your control.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/323310423_Personality_and_Romantic_Attraction

Key Findings on Personality and Romantic Attraction:​

General Findings and Definitions:​

• Romantic Attraction Defined: Romantic attraction involves positive cognitive, affective, motivational, and behavioral reactions toward a potential romantic partner, usually in initial encounters.
• Focus of the Article: The article emphasizes studies with realistic approaches and ecologically valid indicators of romantic attraction, such as the desire to see someone again. It focuses on initial romantic interest rather than actual partner choice.

Physical Attractiveness:​

• Strong Predictor: Physical attractiveness is the most potent predictor of romantic attraction in real-life dating situations, including speed dating and online dating.
• Eliciting Interest: Daters who rate their body and face as more attractive are more likely to elicit romantic interest.
• Online Dating: Singles with more attractive profile pictures receive significantly more messages on online dating sites.
• Incremental Validity: Once physical attractiveness is considered, other personality traits often fail to predict romantic attraction.
• Halo Effect: People ascribe positive attributes to physically attractive individuals, and these attributions are sometimes accurate.
• Evolutionary Perspective: Physical attractiveness may signal health and reproductive potential.
• Limitations of Short Interactions: The strong effects of physical attractiveness might be amplified in short interactions (e.g., speed dating) because it is easily detectable. The importance of physical attraction decreases with longer acquaintance.

Big Five Personality Traits:​

• Inconsistent Findings: Findings regarding the Big Five personality traits' effects on romantic attraction are inconsistent across studies.
• Ideal Partner Preferences: People prefer hypothetical ideal partners who are high in extraversion, low in neuroticism, high in conscientiousness, and high in agreeableness.
• Men's Attraction: Men are more interested in women who are high in extraversion, low in neuroticism, high in conscientiousness, and high in agreeableness.
• Extraversion: Extraversion may have a positive effect on romantic attraction, but this is not consistently found.
• Neuroticism: Some studies suggest women are more interested in less neurotic men. Shyness (linked to high neuroticism and low extraversion) can negatively affect women's attraction to men.
• Openness to Experience: Openness to experience sometimes predicts women's romantic interest in men, but this is not consistent.

Narcissism:​

• Beneficial for Early Attraction: Narcissism can be beneficial for early romantic attraction.
• Seen as Attractive: Narcissistic individuals are seen as more attractive mates by their peers.
• Success in Approaching Women: Men higher in narcissism are more successful in approaching women in public places (i.e., they obtain contact information more frequently).
• Mediation by Physical Attractiveness and Social Boldness: Narcissists' mate appeal is mediated by physical attractiveness and social boldness (extraversion).
• Underlying Mechanisms: Extraversion makes narcissistic men attractive, while physical attractiveness mediates narcissistic women's appeal.
• Admiration vs. Rivalry: Narcissists' charm and self-assurance (admiration facet) are attractive, while their exploitative tendencies (rivalry facet) cause problems in long-term relationships.

Personality Similarity:​

• Attraction to Similar Others: The idea that people are more attracted to others similar to themselves is widely held.
• Hypothetical Contexts: Studies in hypothetical contexts support the idea that people report attraction to others with similar attitudes and values.
• Weak Effects of Actual Similarity: Actual similarity in personality has less robust effects on romantic attraction.
• Perceived Similarity: Perceived similarity is more strongly associated with attraction than actual similarity, especially in short interactions.
• Causation: Perceived similarity might be influenced by romantic attraction, rather than predicting it. People may perceive those they are attracted to as more similar to themselves.

Conclusion:​

• Physical Attractiveness Dominates: Physical attractiveness is the strongest predictor of romantic attraction.
• Inconsistent Big Five Effects: The predictive power of broad personality traits (Big Five) on romantic interest is unclear.
• Specific Traits: More specific traits like shyness or narcissism may be better predictors of romantic interest.
• Perceived vs. Actual Similarity: People are more attracted to those they perceive as having similar personality traits, rather than those who actually have similar traits.

 

[manletcel1488]

Personality only matters if you are chad and even then it only matters for long term, even then it doesn't matter very much as the foid will reconstruct reality to make you seem like a good person.

 

[Light Yagami]

It doesn't matter at all. It's hard to quantify differences in personality when you are comparing 2 neurotypical individuals. The only kind of "personality" you can deem to be detrimental would be mental disorders, but that's not really a personality. It's simply a brain matter distortion. The same way how having muscular atrophy doesn't count as a type of physical fitness. Once a healthy standard is met, personality as a concept stops existing.

 

[TheJoker]

Personality means nothing.

Its all about looks. Look being likeable is not actually that difficult. I make women
laugh at work it isn't hard to be likeable. That doesn't mean they are attracted.
Our society is very discriminatory towards certain pheno types and appearance structures.

This type of male is not considered worthy of a date. This is how society pushes lookism.