Discussion To be honest, it is really hard to conceive that Incels exist

[Leonardo Part V]

When I was 17/18, I didn’t really believe a man could reach his 20s without ever kissing a woman or having any kind of female touch. I looked around and even ugly adult men had wives or girlfriends. As I got older, I became the living proof it was possible and that I was wrong and lacked the means to understand this situation.

I never thought much about inceldom until I was 21. Up to that point, I thought I couldn’t get women due to some things that I was eager to change. The first was my wardobre, so I changed my style in my teenage years; then it was my crooked teeth, I got braces; then I thought it was my glasses, I got contacts; then I thought it was my lack of ‘real hobbies - I was just into reading, watching movies, and sports. So I decided to start running and going to the gym; then I thought my personality still wasn’t ideal, then I attempted to hang out with more people and correct my personality. Nothing worked. Then I started working and having money; it didn’t work. I got very frustrated, but I still thought being KHHV at my age was some skill issue; then I created a Tinder profile and got zero likes. This woke me up and I really started to understand my looks had something to do with it. That story is here:

In my case, I've accepted my inceldom after doing some Tinder experiments with myself and some fakes. Before that, I was kinda bluepilled on most things and redpilled on a few, but after I realized my looks were undoubtedly the main reason I couldn't get girls, everything started to make sense. Every single experience I had in the past was unravelled.

Tinder is reality, there is no way to cope with that. If women don't show you any interest in real life, it won't be different on Tinder, it will just reflect your experience [vice-versa is also true].

I made profiles with the exact same bios, personality and attitude, the only difference was the pictures, on one of them, I had my pictures and got 0 likes, on the other, I had my HTN friend's pictures and I got 30 likes in a day. This annihilated me and opened my eyes to the BP. Then, I tried to cope but I couldn't escape it, it was too clear, too obvious, and eventually, I had to accept it.

I don't understand how guys can go through the same situation and still cope that the BP is fake. It goes beyond my comprehension.

I just realised I was an incel when I created a Tinder account back in 2021. Before that, I thought it was just an individual experience and I would eventually grow out of it.

The thing is, I had to go through so much shit in order to finally understand my situation, and still it was hard to accept it. Now imagine for the average normie.

 

[Cryotron]

i was aware about that not all guys get girlfriends and any kind of experience with opposite sex, at least 5 out of 12 of schoolmates were incels.

 

[Maikowski]

because your perception of reality comes from hollywood movies, tv series, and netflix

 

[Leonardo Part V]

because your perception of reality comes from hollywood movies, tv series, and netflix

Definitely. Not only my past self, but most people's perceptions come from these sources.

 

[Failed Pullout]

Not really I always had a feeling I was just really unattractive also many documentaries would show off animals like elephant seals where the top males have harems and there are a bunch of sexless ones that stay to themselves or die trying to get some.

 

[Animecel2D]

I thought I was the only incel in the entire world

 

[Leonardo Part V]

I thought I was the only incel in the entire world

Same. But I thought I would figure it out eventually.

 

[Emba]

We don't exist bro

 

[Leonardo Part V]

We don't exist bro

Unfortunately, I’m all too aware of this

 

[Emba]

Unfortunately, I’m all too aware of this

My condolences bro

 

[BlackPilledNormi]

The guys I hang out with after school were Incels too, so atleast I wasnt alone. And until I got 20 I were pretty much in the same situation. I was an pretty dumb redipilled Idiot who thaught that I could change this misserable situation for the better, but this was a fuckin lie, that I got told and that I told to myself.