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There is a VERY high chance that before you were mistreated at school, you were mistreated at home, even if you didn't experience it that way.
It is the subtle things. Being ignored, belittled, neglected, made to feel you don't matter etc.... and yes even not being red pilled by your dad about the nature of this world and how to correctly behave falls in this category. Being left on auto-pilot is being mistreated. Being left to be raised on TV is being mistreated.
I realized this time and time again: Usually people who received a good upbringing don't get bullied, even if they are ugly. Their parents instilled in them enough self-worth that shit like this doesn't bring them down.
Yes you were bullied because you are ugly, but that is just a symptom of an underlying problem which is rooted in your family and upbringing.
Only in dysfunctional families does bullyng have such a traumatic and catastrophic effect, because there are no safety mechanisms. We grew up without a "shield" so to speak, which is why every abuse hit so deeply. On actually healthy children shit like this falls off like rain off a coat.
It is the subtle things. Being ignored, belittled, neglected, made to feel you don't matter etc.... and yes even not being red pilled by your dad about the nature of this world and how to correctly behave falls in this category. Being left on auto-pilot is being mistreated. Being left to be raised on TV is being mistreated.
I realized this time and time again: Usually people who received a good upbringing don't get bullied, even if they are ugly. Their parents instilled in them enough self-worth that shit like this doesn't bring them down.
Yes you were bullied because you are ugly, but that is just a symptom of an underlying problem which is rooted in your family and upbringing.
Only in dysfunctional families does bullyng have such a traumatic and catastrophic effect, because there are no safety mechanisms. We grew up without a "shield" so to speak, which is why every abuse hit so deeply. On actually healthy children shit like this falls off like rain off a coat.
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