SuicideFuel Tired of my parents taking me everywhere they go

[Cuyen]

I just argued with my dad, he says some relatives countryside want to see me before I go to another city for college. I said ok then let's go, but he want to go there at the morning and i said no we should go during the day but he called me names. I fucking hate it they take me everywhere they go. worst part of having ethnic family they want to take me everywhere "muh relatives" fucking hell im almost 20 and they still think they can take me everywhere they want. I said no and resisted, now he got mad and said fuck it then. I dont have go to everywhere you want just fucking lol cant wait for moving out
he used to treat me with no internet but now i dont care fuck beat me if you want or take internet fuck it i wont go anywhere

btw they take me everywhere when its about relatives, not when they go to friends etc

 

[Aribaa]

Same bro. Its like they want me to get brutally mogged by my relatives

 

[Rassimov]

incel trait: your parents treating you like you're still 12.

 

[ThouShallObeyKing]

I just argued with my dad, he says some relatives countryside want to see me before I go to another city for college. I said ok then let's go, but he want to go there at the morning and i said no we should go during the day but he called me names. I fucking hate it they take me everywhere they go. worst part of having ethnic family they want to take me everywhere "muh relatives" fucking hell im almost 20 and they still think they can take me everywhere they want. I said no and resisted, now he got mad and said fuck it then. I dont have go to everywhere you want just fucking lol cant wait for moving out
he used to treat me with no internet but now i dont care fuck beat me if you want or take internet fuck it i wont go anywhere

jfl at u

last time i visited family? dont remember, probably 7 years ago, im 23 mind you

they ask me to go with them i say no

just no reason to go there ifyou genuinely dont want.

do what you want, not what you dont want. and focus on getting to know what you want to do, and to organize your lifestyle in a way that you have very minimum of things than you dont want to do in your daily routine

 

[LastGerman]

incel trait: your parents treating you like you're still 12.

Not only your parents, but actually everyone.

 

[Cuyen]

jfl at u

last time i visited family? dont remember, probably 7 years ago, im 23 mind you

they ask me to go with them i say no

just no reason to go there ifyou genuinely dont want.

do what you want, not what you dont want. and focus on getting to know what you want to do, and to organize your lifestyle in a way that you have very minimum of things than you dont want to do in your daily routine

im NEET

 

[Deleted member 19858]

I've never had any contact with any relatives, not sure if that's good or bad

 

[Blacktarpill]

Yes man i used to rage when we had visitors and stuff.
My mothers family is fucking huge.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

I've never had any contact with any relatives, not sure if that's good or bad

Same here, I have like 10 cousins and no contact to them.

 

[Guest2]

incel trait: your parents treating you like you're still 12.

Yes very true. My mother still treats me like I'm 8-11 despite me telling her seriously at least once every few days and very seriously every week or two that she needs to stop. It's just humiliating and definitely fucked up my head a bit

 

[Deleted member 17997]

@Vermilioncore thought?

 

[wizardcel]

Visiting relatives fucking suck. I can't stand spending one day in someone else's house.

 

[ThouShallObeyKing]

im NEET

im too

 

[Ignas]

Yes man i used to rage when we had visitors and stuff.
My mothers family is fucking huge.

Can relate well but it's from my dad's side. Cause my great grandpa impregnated 5 different foids

 

[ovrload]

Im 26 only time I go visit grandparents/cousins is on Christmas holidays

Can relate well but it's from my dad's side. Cause my great grandpa impregnated 5 different foids

Lol Filipino whores

 

[Deleted member 17719]

I was allowed to stay at home when I was around 12 as I had older siblings in house

 

[zangano1]

I don't have many relatives tbh, I visit grandparents once a year but I barely talk to them

 

[Deleted member 17419]

They low-key want you to incestmaxx.

 

[Napoleon de Jizzbal]

I wish my old people would travel to SEA and take me

 

[ovrload]

I wish my old people would travel to SEA and take me

So you could fuck a 5ft noodle

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

incel trait: your parents treating you like you're still 12.

 

[ihaveno1]

yea this is really annoying

 

[muharremabi]

Parents are the most retarded taboo in this shitty world. İ dont talk with my mom anymore. Hate my retarded dad as well. Their fucking neglgence ruined my fucking life. I've had enough that they bring me into this world and expose me to torture.

 

[fOreVER]

I hate my extended family. They are assholes

 

[Neggr]

Im pretty successful resisting

 

[TheGambler2]

in every relative meeting I would sit muted with my head down,it was a torture.i don't go anymore but sometimes the relatives come to my house and they have to storm my fucking room despite the door being closed fuck you let me cope in peace

 

[mcfroggy]

incel trait: your parents treating you like you're still 12.

My parents treat me the same in my early 20s and when I was 12. Sure I live with them but its so fucking rage inducing when I'm just about done eating and they say 'don't forget to wash the dishes' like what the fuck do you think I've been doing this last decade, magiking away the grease from my plate? Don't get me started on how they try to micromanage every little thing I do.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

My parents treat me the same in my early 20s and when I was 12. Sure I live with them but its so fucking rage inducing when I'm just about done eating and they say 'don't forget to wash the dishes' like what the fuck do you think I've been doing this last decade, magiking away the grease from my plate? Don't get me started on how they try to micromanage every little thing I do.

This is definitely an incel trait. How can a man be confident in himself when he is treated like a dumb kid his whole life?

 

[Deleted member 1042]

My parents treat me the same in my early 20s and when I was 12. Sure I live with them but its so fucking rage inducing when I'm just about done eating and they say 'don't forget to wash the dishes' like what the fuck do you think I've been doing this last decade, magiking away the grease from my plate? Don't get me started on how they try to micromanage every little thing I do.

This is a small part of a bigger problem that is going to increase the number of incel men. This helicopter parenting and keeping men at home with their parents (either cultural or financially motivated) destroys confidence and chances of getting laid. If you are normie tier, then having your own place to bring women to is very important for your success in sex. I've seen many women express living at home with parents as a turn off. I'm not surprised.

 

[mcfroggy]

This is definitely an incel trait. How can a man be confident in himself when he is treated like a dumb kid his whole life?

They're the reason I'm so high inhib and depressed, if I do anything not perfectly I'd get screamed at and punished. What's the point in trying if you always get bad results? Now I'm just neet.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

They're the reason I'm so high inhib and depressed, if I do anything not perfectly I'd get screamed at and punished. What's the point in trying if you always get bad results? Now I'm just neet.

Yeah I also had helicopter parents which resulted in me being shy as fuck growing up with zero confidence. I moved in with other family members to go to college and live a mostly isolated lifestyle now. It's much better.

 

[Rassimov]

Yes very true. My mother still treats me like I'm 8-11 despite me telling her seriously at least once every few days and very seriously every week or two that she needs to stop. It's just humiliating and definitely fucked up my head a bit

My parents treat me the same in my early 20s and when I was 12. Sure I live with them but its so fucking rage inducing when I'm just about done eating and they say 'don't forget to wash the dishes' like what the fuck do you think I've been doing this last decade, magiking away the grease from my plate? Don't get me started on how they try to micromanage every little thing I do.

Sometimes I wonder how much did "liberal" parenting contribute to our condition. They have made us passive with their well intended sheltering and overprotective attitudes, which nonetheless resulted in severely fucking up our development as social beings. This type of parenting is in a way even worse than a conservative one; a stern proud father kick his sons ass if he saw him dwelling in his room jerking to loli porn, rotting his potential away. A traditionalist coulnd't accept his son, that bears his name, to be a failure and would rather kick him out in the real world. Modern cuck parenting and the welfare state made us all but complicit in our passivity.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Sometimes I wonder how much did "liberal" parenting contribute to our condition. They have made us passive with their well intended sheltering and overprotective attitudes, which nonetheless resulted in severely fucking up our development as social beings. This type of parenting is in a way even worse than a conservative one; a stern proud father kick his sons ass if he saw him dwelling in his room jerking to loli porn, rotting his potential away. A traditionalist coulnd't accept his son, that bears his name, to be a failure and would rather kick him out in the real world. Modern cuck parenting and the welfare state made us all but complicit in our passivity.

What about a healthy medium where a parent tries to understand the child's issues and works with him or her to fix them? Honestly if I had a child who had obvious social issues when they are very small it would be a very easy fix just ALLOW THEM TO SOCIALIZE.

 

[Rassimov]

What about a healthy medium where a parent tries to understand the child's issues and works with him or her to fix them? Honestly if I had a child who had obvious social issues when they are very small it would be a very easy fix just ALLOW THEM TO SOCIALIZE.

I'm not against your proposition. But If I had to chose between my "liberal" yet sheltered upbringing and a traditionalist stern one; I think I would not even be a virgin today, if my father would grab me by the collar and beat the self-indulged passivity out of me.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

I'm not against your proposition. But If I had to chose between my "liberal" yet sheltered upbringing and a traditionalist stern one; I think I would not even be a virgin today, if my father would grab me by the collar and beat the self-indulged passivity out of me.

They know the damage they are doing. In fact they enjoy it. Secretly they don’t want you to be successful, but I try my best in spite of it

 

[Vermilioncore]

@Vermilioncore thought?

My parents also take me everywhere. I am also forced to eat dinner and forced to stay indoors after hours despite being in my mid 20s. Incel trait #760 -- being a manchild

 

[Deleted member 17997]

My parents also take me everywhere. I am also forced to eat dinner and forced to stay indoors after hours despite being in my mid 20s. Incel trait #760 -- being a manchild

 

[Deleted member 16582]

worst part of having ethnic family they want to take me everywhere

lol my dad (ethnic half) is the same. he always drags me to see distant family and also evrey time he takes my little siblings out he drags me along i look stupid hideous incel going along with family to the zoo or restaurant or something, just let me rot in my room jfc

 

[Dionysus]

Im pretty successful resisting

lucky man