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Tired of my parents badgering me: "when are you going to get married", "you never had a girl at this age!", "go to the dermatologist to stop balding".

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Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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It's really fucking tiring.

I love my parents, especially after all I've put them through. But sometimes they piss me off.

Like with the balding thing. I'm already half-bald, I'm not going to go through years of trouble, taking medicine that barely works, spending a lot of money for just a chance to not be completely bald, to merely remain at half-bald. There's possible side-effects and all that. Well, I'm mainly bothered by the money for just a possibility of ... what? Still being ugly but merely half-bald? I've given up for years now, why the fuck would I care what I look like.

And the wife thing. God fucking damn it, it's like the bluepill is the absolute truth to them. I even blackpilled them slowly and while they agree, BAM, they fucking reset to bluepill mode and they're like "well, you'll find a good woman and get married and have kids then, soon right?" . My dad doesn't even want to hear me badmouthing women after he realized that I hate them, he's now very careful about this subject and praises women to no end. He's always been weird, he understands the nature of women but at the same time spouts shit like "can't live without them", and puts women on the pedestal and whatnot.

I guess once you swallow the bluepill you're in the cult forever.
 
Your dad knows the truth and he's coping hard
 
Your dad knows the truth and he's coping hard
Yep, he thinks the purpose of life is having a child. Understands that women are vile cunts but at the same time thinks the world of them and that men need women otherwise we're doomed or whatnot.
 
Your parents are the reason why you're ugly, that's the only blackpill you need to drop on them.
 
They probably already know it's over for you, but I have no idea why they are still asking. I think it hurts.
 
My dad is the same, he thinks women should be treated with respect and that they can do no wrong, I told him so many times how young women are trash but he refuses to believe it
 
Yep, he thinks the purpose of life is having a child.
i agree with him
 
I personally wouldn't try and explain the blackpill to my parents but you're in a difficult situation. No matter what they say you will never convince older people of the blackpill because it is contradictory to their personal experiences they had decades ago, but since they don't participate in the sexual market anymore (obviously) they don't understand how bad it has gotten since they were young. Imagine a normie boomer male, trying to compete with 500 other men for an obese, ugly landwhale. They would realise it was pointless and give up much earlier on than their millennial counterparts.
 
I personally wouldn't try and explain the blackpill to my parents but you're in a difficult situation. No matter what they say you will never convince older people of the blackpill because it is contradictory to their personal experiences they had decades ago, but since they don't participate in the sexual market anymore (obviously) they don't understand how bad it has gotten since they were young. Imagine a normie boomer male, trying to compete with 500 other men for an obese, ugly landwhale. They would realise it was pointless and give up much earlier on than their millennial counterparts.
I actually keep my beliefs to myself, I rarely reveal what I truly think, and you'd think that would be the case especially with my parents. But they're just so fucking persistent, they say these things on and on, it's like chinese water torture. I couldn't stop myself from dropping some blackpills accidentally.
 
it's hurtful to talk about romatic relationships(or rather lack of it) with your family. if you say that you're genetic trash both you and them are going to get hurt, even though that might be the truth. it's best avoiding them, maybe lie you're seeing a girl whatever and say that you broke up with her couple of months later. they won't be around for too long anyway.

femoids giving into their instincts and not caring about chastity is damaging to older people too. our families are hurt because of our situations. all they want is seeing us happily married and to hold their little grandsons/daughters. femoids giving in to their primal insctincs of riding the chad dick carousel, traveling and drinking ruined the traditional family concept.
 
It's their fucking fault, they know it but they're in denial
 
Well I quess that's a one positive thing resulting from the fact I wasn't ever close with my parents. Only topics I can talk with them about are:
1 food(they always talk about food, 50% of discussions are about food, what we gonna eat, how good was meal we just eat, what we gonna eat tomorrow etc etc)
2 clothes
3 money

Maybe SOMETIMES I can talk with them 5 minutes about movies or shit, till they will start talking about food - especially my mother(I can talk about cars with my father). Anyway they don't ask me such thing usually, maybe drop a hint here and there because esentially we are a strangers to each other, you not gonna ask stranger when you are going to get married, so they don't ask me neither. They are happy I'm earning good money, and unhappy that I don't eat as much and often as they
 
My condolences
 
Its their fault for giving you sub human genetics
 

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