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Serious Tips to get over a oneitus?

Incelomega

Incelomega

21 year old, 5,3, ugly manlet
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I know this is my first thread boyos but JFL I'm feeling like I want to rope.

I met this foid online in a discord group and we became friends back in 2014. This was before I took the black pill. She's not a landwhale but chubby enough to be 3/10 so I thought she was enough of my looksmatch to potentially ascend with. Basically I ended up being her emotional tampon for three years and she still messages me now. The thing that really kills me is we used to flirt until I sent her a picture of me; now I'm her "best guy friend" and "like a brother to her" she even messages me about guys she likes and complain about "how no-one likes her because she's fat tee hee"
The worst thing is she's like my dream girl- we like all the same video games and she's also mentally ill/NEET. It's killing me.

I want to stop thinking about her but I can't. Any tips?
 
Don't reply her messages,reply them so late and ignore and send short messages as reply
 
I know this is my first thread boyos but JFL I'm feeling like I want to rope.

I met this foid online in a discord group and we became friends back in 2014. This was before I took the black pill. She's not a landwhale but chubby enough to be 3/10 so I thought she was enough of my looksmatch to potentially ascend with. Basically I ended up being her emotional tampon for three years and she still messages me now. The thing that really kills me is we used to flirt until I sent her a picture of me; now I'm her "best guy friend" and "like a brother to her" she even messages me about guys she likes and complain about "how no-one likes her because she's fat tee hee"
The worst thing is she's like my dream girl- we like all the same video games and she's also mentally ill/NEET. It's killing me.

I want to stop thinking about her but I can't. Any tips?

Tell her the truth, if she can't accept it then you gotta move on boyo.
 
Don't reply her messages,reply them so late and ignore and send short messages as reply
This. You need to cut down contact or at least get in control of the coversations. Let her wait and suffer. Fap away the feelings if your oneitis is on a sexual basis. Do you think about her romantically? This sounds like blasphemy for disciples of the 2D but get a temporary waifu or something to get her out of your head.

She will stay in your mind some time but you really need to show her that you don't need that bitch. But don't tell her, just make her feel it.
 
Block her everywhere, delete pictures if you have, and that's the best you can do.
 
I had a similar situation, but we had a falling out. Still resented not being with her when I had the chance. Some time later (between Dec. 2016 and Feb. 2017) she declared bankruptcy and had a car accident. She also had high medical bills. It felt cathartic. Sometimes if karma truly is on your side, you don't have to do anything.
 
>oneitis
Bugs... easy on the soy...
 
I still think about my HS crush
 
ask her out and wait for her to insult you, it dosent really matter anyway you never had the chance
 

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