im on nofap, planning to rebuild my old social circle from secondary school, going out more, what else?
You're asking the wrong person.
NT is cope if you are not optimal looking
i know but you need to be both NT and GL. looksmaxxing is the easy part.
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its NT or death.
Small steps. Make short conversations with people you meet on a daily basis (cashiers for one).
The trick, however, is to actually be in social situations. Such as school or work environments. Talk to people around you.
The trick, however, is to actually be in social situations. Such as school or work environments. Talk to people around you.
Idk, I see ugly NT normies get occasional leftover scraps. You'll never be able to compete with Chad of course but if you're gonna be ugly it seems better than being an ugly autist at the least.
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be good looking enough that people will like everything you say and do
legit blackbones
but how, lol? when i talk to cashiers im so autistic im putting all my focus and energy towards trying to sort out the transaction and not look like a total retard in the process.
Force yourself to say the words "How's your day so far?"
i do but i dont know how to respond when he/she talks about it. i instinctively just say yes as they go on and awkwardly look at them and when they ask me after i dont even know what to say.
"That's good to hear" is usually a response. Or "I'm sorry to hear that" if it's a bad day.
but how do i acknowledge them without looking like a complete autist. if they ask me how my day was how do i begin.
By having the line: "I'm doing fine, thank you. How is your day?" Come on, you can't be this autistic.
no i mean if i ask them before, then they ask me and i have to tell them how my day was.
"My day is going great, thank you."
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Rope yourself. Unless you're some kind of fakecel chadlite who's just losing weight, paying upwards of 50,000-100,000$ on a myriad of surgeries after extensive months of research is way more difficult than taking some anti-anxiety meds and implementing PUA techniques.
got it.
im a fatcel. if i do have good bones underneath then looksmaxxing is the easy part. if i dont then its over for me. i may or may not be a normie or chadlite post weight loss.
You can't. You get one shot at mantaining NT. Once it's broken, you're done
how bad is this NT problem?
for me? very bad. im not exactly rain man autistic but im more autistic than most with aspergers. being slow and low IQ makes me seem even more autistic on top of that, or maybe thats just part of the autism.
Don't bring up nofap when talking to normies.
ask them about their profession or what they are studying in school
they love to jerk themselves off
they love to jerk themselves off
i never do lol. ive only mentioned it on reddit and this site. im way too high inhib to go that far with normies, even my closest friends.
kek, will do.
if i go to a new institution i get a new reputation where i can start afresh.
Closest friends? And you're not NT? You definitely have potential.
Nofap, no porn, a glass of wine before bed.
are you at least acceptable looking so people can handle eye contact with you?
i only have like 5 friends that were from my social circle in secondary school, we were all socially awkward and some were aspie but its hard to find a social circle like that. in my college i have literally zero friends. i had 1/2 last year who left, kek.
yes.
im on week 3 of nofap.
if you can,try making as much eye contact as possible,it will help quite a bit to ntmax just dont stare at them of course,also if you can i would belive that getting medication for anxiety(if you have it) also helps
i do but thats pretty much the only NT thing i do. and my eye contact to look away ratio is fucked. i always try to focus on having an NT eye - look away ration but that distracts me from what the person is actually saying and i dont register everything. i will look into medication for anxiety, thanks.
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