tinder vs real life

[CaptainRussia]

some claim that tinders standrads are real life standards. that means if you are sub8 your gonna struggle with women. others claim that this only applies to tinder.
whats your take on this?

 

[Getlooksordie]

been going to bars/clubs for years.

Tinder is a very accurate representation of real life.

If you don´t have success on Tinder (getting lays) then you won´t have any success IRL.

 

[Hunter]

i agree. tinder makes you compete with men on a city scale. and there are a lot of 8s and 9s in the mix willing to fuck foids below an 8 on tinder. before tinder, hypergamy was much lower in the 00s since foids usually stuck to social circles to choose their boyfriend. online dating fucked everything up.

 

[Trycel]

Sometimes, it really feels like the beginning of the end. For all of us. What kind of president will be birthed from the generation of tinder. Maybe some orphan like all those super hero stories. Maybe Barack Obama actually got his huge ears from a radiation leak who knows?

 

[Modus Coperandi]

there is no such thing as "unreal life"

irl is a retarded term.

 

[CaptainRussia]

i've heard a lot of bs about how tinder is tinder and the real world is the real world, where your personality matters. from my experience, people see you, they attach characteristic traits to your looks aaaannnnd it's gone. enjoy proving to people that you are a human, after your looks fucked you in the ass real hard from the first second on.

 

[Blacktarpill]

Tinder is for ego boost.

 

[this is hell]

Tinder is real life. There is no "versus".

 

[Mainländer]

Tinder is definitely tougher. Not to say it's not "real life", but the competition is just too extreme and looks are even more stressed there.

Sub8 rule only applies to pulling gl girls from Tinder. To pull ugly to even average ones or to do so by other means you don't necessarily need to be that high.

 

[CaptainRussia]

Tinder is definitely tougher. Not to say it's not "real life", but the competition is just too extreme and looks are even more stressed there.

Sub8 rule only applies to pulling gl girls from Tinder. To pull ugly to even average ones or to do so by other means you don't necessarily need to be that high.

i have a question. whats your looks/10? has approaching in real life helped you?

 

[Mainländer]

i have a question. whats your looks/10? has approaching in real life helped you?

I have been rated twice here as 4/10. I'd rate myself 3,5-4/10. Before balding I was rated 5/10.

Since I was already balding once I decided to mass approach, no, I didn't enjoy anything significative from it despite my sheer amount of tries. But I did see lots of sub8 guys kissing and rarely even pulling. None was sub4 though. All within the 5-7 range.

 

[CaptainRussia]

I have been rated twice here as 4/10. I'd rate myself 3,5-4/10. Before balding I was rated 5/10.

Since I was already balding once I decided to mass approach, no, I didn't enjoy anything significative from it despite my sheer amount of tries. But I did see lots of sub8 guys kissing and rarely even pulling. None was sub4 thougg. All within the 5-7 range.

same experience. i get rated between 3 and 4 with outliers rating me 2 and 5. i lack demorphism and look like a babyfaced hermaphrodite. i used to talk to girls (i.e. martial arts training) but was treated like an annoyance. they were really uncomfortable beeing seen with me.
i agree with you that there are many 5-7 guys having girlfriends, but many of these relationships are quite rocky. i got quite some chatty people in my surroundings (they chit chat a lot, but not with me). i hear many complaints about their gfs. many of them slave their life away for their gfs out of fear of losing them. you obviously can get a gf when you are in the normie looking range, but those relationships will need constant effort from you side (from your side, not from hers), while as an 8 you can get a real realtionship, with mutual respect.

 

[platypus]

some claim that tinders standrads are real life standards. that means if you are sub8 your gonna struggle with women. others claim that this only applies to tinder.
whats your take on this?

Until very recently I was in the "tinder isn't real life bro" camp. But a recent club experience totally opened my eyes and now I see that tinder IS life.

 

[Mainländer]

same experience. i get rated between 3 and 4 with outliers rating me 2 and 5. i lack demorphism and look like a babyfaced hermaphrodite. i used to talk to girls (i.e. martial arts training) but was treated like an annoyance. they were really uncomfortable beeing seen with me.
i agree with you that there are many 5-7 guys having girlfriends, but many of these relationships are quite rocky. i got quite some chatty people in my surroundings (they chit chat a lot, but not with me). i hear many complaints about their gfs. many of them slave their life away for their gfs out of fear of losing them. you obviously can get a gf when you are in the normie looking range, but those relationships will need constant effort from you side (from your side, not from hers), while as an 8 you can get a real realtionship, with mutual respect.

I second everything you said. The further downwards your looks go, the trickest it is to acquire and maintain a foid. Normies struggle a lot.

Until very recently I was in the "tinder isn't real life bro" camp. But a recent club experience totally opened my eyes and now I see that tinder IS life.

Clubs are also tough. Try going to open air daytime/evening events where there's alcohol going on. Those are the best environments to approach in my experience.

 

[Tension]

Tinder is for ego boost.

That's for Chad. It's good for getting Blackpilled and suicidal thoughts if you're Incel.

 

[tooth monster]

I have been rated twice here as 4/10. I'd rate myself 3,5-4/10. Before balding I was rated 5/10.

Since I was already balding once I decided to mass approach, no, I didn't enjoy anything significative from it despite my sheer amount of tries. But I did see lots of sub8 guys kissing and rarely even pulling. None was sub4 though. All within the 5-7 range.

A 4 doesn't stand a chance unless you're filthy rich.

 

[Mainländer]

A 4 doesn't stand a chance unless you're filthy rich.

4 is basically playing it on nightmare difficulty. I wouldn't say it's 100% over like it is to a 2, but it's like 99,9% over.

 

[Looksredpilled]

Lol no, tinder is completley differnet than IRL. Most of you dont even leave your basement it seems.

 

[CaptainRussia]

i think many of the tinder is for chad only, have not approached women for years and never gotten anything

Lol no, tinder is completley differnet than IRL. Most of you dont even leave your basement it seems.

sare your experiences with us.

 

[MaxZM98]

i see tinder girls in real life. it's not like you can separate them.

 

[Zielony4]

Tinder is real life. With real life people.

 

[Lord Byron]

I think tinder is probably harder than approaching in person. Not just that women have a larger pool of more attractive men to choose from, but often when people end up dating they didn’t intiallly like each other. If all you do is swipe left, there is no chance to know them.

 

[Haircutbro]

Tinder is pretty close to reality
If you are doing good on tinder, you will do good in reallife
So, you wont have to do any talking, you dont need to be interesting etc, girls will sleep with you
If you do bad on tinder, you will have to do a lot of talking, be charming, funny, interesting ( like a superhuman, you have to entertain her all the time, and she never has to get bored )
Its unrealistic either way, because no human can do that, what those girls want, and if you try, its nerve wracking, to constantly having to talk, be funny etc
Which will lead to maybe getting a girl, but this girl wont love you, its all fake, and she will leave you anyway, because you just picked up a bitch
Its hard, but either way, if you do bad at tinder, you will have a lot of work to do in reallife
If you are ugly its over anyway
You will probably never get anything better than a disgusting looking fat stinking girl, that has such a fucked up character
But thats the way it is

 

[Villain]

Tinder is a part of reality... accept it