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Serious Three Simple Tips On How To Not Procrastinate As An Incel (For Those Like Me Who Struggle With Procrastination & You Really Want To Stop)

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lol i've been doing this subconsciously for years, its unironically legit and works effectively to achieve something u have set as a long term goal
especially the fapping part, that part describes exactly how i experience it, i dont even view fapping as a pleasure because i genuinely dont enjoy doing it. The only time i ever fap is when it becomes a hurdle to get work done, so i just get it over with as quick as possible, it makes me slightly physically tired but compared to not being able to focus at all at what i want to do makes it a tradeoff im willing to go through

i think the thing with people losing motivation really quickly with something usually points to their naivety of expecting things to fall in to place accordingly to how they imagined it, for example starting a long term goal and deciding against actions like fapping because its ''demotivating'' or whatever else no fappers use as arguments , its simply unrealistic unless youre a fucking eunuch, you cant go against the natural flow of your body for a long period of time and expect it to go smoothly jfl
 
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Imagine that this is the kind of ridiculous inhuman robotic shit one has to do to cope with not having sex. Fucking really is the most important thing in the world. It’s near impossible to get shit done if you’re not fucking. it’s difficult to even think.
 
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kekfuel said:
you cant go against the natural flow of your body for a long period of time and expect it to go smoothly jfl
This
SchrodingersDick said:
Imagine that this is the kind of ridiculous inhuman robotic shit one has to do to cope with not having sex. Fucking really is the most important thing in the world. It’s near impossible to get shit done if you’re not fucking. it’s difficult to even think.
If we all had "sex lives" we'd all be much "happier", regardless of whether we had "social lives"

If some random girl just showed up and fucked us everyday and never made eye contact or talked to us we'd still be "happier" lol
 
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nice, i might try that next week.
 
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Dude did you take the "Everything is predetermined because everything is energy, and you as a energy you cannot control energy because you cannot pill?
 
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BlkPillPres said:
I am a master procrastinator, I get what I need to get done on most days but even i find myself falling into a rut of doing nothing every once in a while

Over the years I've figured out a kind of formula for incel males to get what they need to get done and not procrastinate and laze around all day

Here are the steps:

1. MASTURBATE (YOUR YEARNING FOR SEXUAL SATISFACTION IS AT THE ROOT OF ALL OF YOUR FEELINGS OF LONELINESS & DEPRESSION)

Yes, the first step really is that simple, I've noticed that when I am trying to focus and study something or complete a task, my mind would drift off into thinking about NON-SEXUAL things and I'd get distracted, or I'll load up a quick youtube video to take a random break that lasts hours instead of minutes, or some other kind of distraction like that

I'm sure this has happened to a lot of us, and that sequence of events GIVES YOU THE ILLUSION that it isn't sex on your mind, BUT IT ACTUALLY IS ABOUT SEX

This thread here is relevant for the copers who don't get it:

Yes your loneliness is in fact directly connected to your libido even when you feel lonely after masturbating, its because sex is also psychological

If you didn't have a libido you would not care about being affectionate or intimate WITH SPECIFICALLY WOMEN

If "loneliness" itself was really your issue you could just get a pet dog or cat to fill the void, but it isn't, your brain is internalizing your sexual yearning FOR WOMEN, that's why you want to be affectionate and intimate WITH WOMEN (the loneliness you feel is directly connected to your sexual attraction for women)


Once I masturbate all of a sudden I can focus on what I have to do, AND ITS EFFORTLESS

Your mind is racing and thinking about all these different things and looking for distractions BECAUSE YOU ARE TRYING NOT TO THINK ABOUT SEX

You are trying not to feel "lonely" and "depressed", your mind is looking for a distraction from your reality

This is why all this NoFap nonsense is garbage, your libido is something you just have to deal with and "get out of the way" if you want to focus on your daily tasks without distraction. You cannot ignore or avoid it because it will fuck with you

Heck even me making this thread right now is me distracting myself from sex :feelskek:, I haven't masturbated for the day yet so I haven't gotten to my studies, so this is a very meta experience right now (self awareness is very important)

DO NOT OVER DO IT

IF YOU HAVE THE FREE TIME & ENERGY TO DO IT 3+ TIMES A DAY THEN YOU AREN'T WORKING ON SHIT :feelskek:



2. EXPLOIT YOUR BRAINS REWARD SYSTEM (TAKE SYSTEMATIC BREAKS AND REWARD YOURSELF ONLY WHEN YOU DO THE WORK)

This is essentially the exact opposite of the LDAR formula, LDAR is you supplying yourself with entertainment and leisure just for the sake of it

Instead you should put in your allotted hours for work/study and reward yourself in intervals

For example something I'd usually do is "hour on hour off", for an hour I work on a task and for the next hour I watch an episode of a show or two episodes of an anime (whatever comes up to an hour)

You never feel fatigued or bored when you take this approach, depends on how long you can go, you can do 2 hours on and 1 hour off, but I know myself, I know I'm lazy as fuck so I give myself as much breaks as possible, I never really liked studying anyways :feelskek:

Also introduce food as part of it too (like your favorite snack)

If you like chocolate (who doesn't like chocolate?), you can eat like a piece (just a piece) everytime you finish a "shift"

Be sure to rinse out your mouth with water and drink some water after eating that piece (or any other snack

You do not want the taste of chocolate in your mouth when you go back to work/study, you will end up going back to eat the whole bar of chocolate :feelskek: (take the temptation out of your hands, be honest with yourself and know yourself)

TREAT YOURSELF LIKE A MACHINE, LIKE A SWITCH BOARD, YOU HIT BUTTONS AT THE RIGHT INTERVALS, TO MANIPULATE THE MACHINE INTO DOING WHAT YOU WANT

Which naturally leads into the next point


3. OBJECTIFY DON'T HUMANIZE (DO NOT HUMANIZE YOURSELF, OBJECTIFY YOURSELF, USE STIMULI TO GET THE RESPONSE YOU WANT)

Basically program yourself to function as you need yourself to, get yourself into a daily routine, whether its exercise or your regular tasks, but there has to be a "reward system" in play else you are just torturing yourself (and a sexual release is an essential part of that reward system, it doesn't work without it, again, NOFAP IS BULLSHIT)

If all you do is work you will mentally break and get tired and "fall off the wagon" and go back to bad habits

If you work with breaks inbetween and you are sexually frustrated, you will likely break and still "fall off the wagon"

The most dangerous thing about humanizing yourself and viewing yourself under such terms is that it makes you sympathize with your own circumstances, and once you sympathize with yourself it makes it easier for you to justify and rationalize doing nothing and just feeling sorry for yourself

You want to mentally objectifying yourself, I am not even joking, stop trying to see yourself as "human", society doesn't treat you like one anyways

Only think of the results you need to get out of yourself and how you can manipulate yourself into doing what you need to be done

It sounds weird to look at it this way (very meta too) but you need to realize that you are your own enemy, you aren't even a friend of yourself, because what we all want to do deep down IS THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF WHAT LEADS TO SUCCESS, AND ONE DAY ESCAPING OUR SHITTY DEPRESSING LIVES

Please realize I'm not saying the cliche bullshit of "you are your own worse enemy", no that's bullshit, society is your worse enemy, but sadly you can't really trust yourself either, you are also an enemy, just a minor one

The truth is you can't really trust yourself to even have your own best interests at heart, because as an animal your body will give preferential treatment towards temporary present interests (feeling good now) over your future interests which are more abstract and have more to do with "higher levels of cognition" (having a successful future)

To refer back to tip 1, your dick and your libido doesn't care that its distracting you from getting to the point in which you can one day easily pay for sex, your dick and your libido doesn't have the foresight to see that its ironically getting in the way of something that is to their benefit, THEY ONLY CARE ABOUT NOW

YOUR BIOLOGICAL IMPERATIVES ONLY CARE ABOUT NOW

So you have to fight against your own body to work towards the future you want, AND THAT'S A FIGHT YOU WON'T WIN

THIS IS WHY MANIPULATION IS THE BEST APPROACH, NOT STRUGGLING AND TRYING TO PROVE HOW "ALPHA" YOU ARE TO YOURSELF
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