
Ramiel
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As incels most of us don’t have a good self concept. I know I didn’t for a lot of my life, being an uglycel with an ugly name and a certain feeling of attached guilt placed upon myself
But I think it’s good to have a decent self concept. Wont get you any bitches but I think it’s a good way to live a better life. It certainly makes the burden of “day 238746 with no girlfriend or friends” less bad considering you don’t feel gross about yourself. You feel more independent once you stop blaming yourself for all your misfortune and just live for what you have.
in other words I think getting rid of self hatred for purely self motivated reasons is better than holding onto anger and negative feelings. Again, won’t get you girls, but is less burdensome on the mind.
But I think it’s good to have a decent self concept. Wont get you any bitches but I think it’s a good way to live a better life. It certainly makes the burden of “day 238746 with no girlfriend or friends” less bad considering you don’t feel gross about yourself. You feel more independent once you stop blaming yourself for all your misfortune and just live for what you have.
in other words I think getting rid of self hatred for purely self motivated reasons is better than holding onto anger and negative feelings. Again, won’t get you girls, but is less burdensome on the mind.