Awhile back I just realized.... if my dad were in my life he could have taught me how to get girls but nope! He was a Chad who didnt give a fuck! If I could I would burn his ass alive at the stake! I hate him. But no he screwed a bunch of girls and left.
Anyways. my mom is also at fault, as well as my grandparents and so on. Okay so basically it goes like this. I see these super nerd guys get with hot girls. fat guys, socially anxious guys, etc etc. I started asking people how they met, they met either at school or church around here. .. I realized looking back. In high school. a lot of these kids who formed cliques and sat with each other at tables knew each other from outside of school. So when I came in there, I was a loner, an outcase trying to fit in.... good luck with that, because it didn't happen.
Anyways why? Well my family was jewish and raised me as such. but being a half jew, girls at the synagogue weren't super fond of me. If I was raised as a christian and went to one of the popular churches in town I would have been more accepted and had a greater amount of girls to talk to. There were only like 4 or 5 my age at the small synagogue I went to growing up.
Yeah maybe I'd still have social problems not having a dad but you know, I would have had greater chances because more women means more chances. If you go to a place where there are only at most 5 girls your age, and one rejects you, that spreads to the others and they also reject you as well. So now 5 out of 5 girls have rejected you. So in your mind all girls are like this 100% of them. If I went to the big mega church there would have been hundreds of girls. so even if 5 rejected me, there would still be 95 to go. Also, I probably at least would have had a group I found and fit in with. like the nerds and other social awkwards. Because by high school most of the guys in the church stopped going by their late teen years and there were more girls than guys. So when there is a shortage of guys, girls start to loosen their standards some. That's prob how those nerd/omega/social awkward/ugly guys got decent looking women is because they all grew up together. So the girls at least dont feel threatened by them... like me.... an outsider trying to approach them they get scared and creeped out. There is no way around that fact. It may have been different if they knew me since childhood and realized I wasn't a threat. Then maybe being tall would come to my advantage. Girls like tall guys no doubt about it but if they don't know you that tallness is turned against you because they see it as threatening. but if they knew you that all changes. My face is not pretty and I'm socially akward AF however... I may have still got lucky and not be an incel right now if my family didn't basically isolate me from society.
it's fucking child abuse!
Anyways. my mom is also at fault, as well as my grandparents and so on. Okay so basically it goes like this. I see these super nerd guys get with hot girls. fat guys, socially anxious guys, etc etc. I started asking people how they met, they met either at school or church around here. .. I realized looking back. In high school. a lot of these kids who formed cliques and sat with each other at tables knew each other from outside of school. So when I came in there, I was a loner, an outcase trying to fit in.... good luck with that, because it didn't happen.
Anyways why? Well my family was jewish and raised me as such. but being a half jew, girls at the synagogue weren't super fond of me. If I was raised as a christian and went to one of the popular churches in town I would have been more accepted and had a greater amount of girls to talk to. There were only like 4 or 5 my age at the small synagogue I went to growing up.
Yeah maybe I'd still have social problems not having a dad but you know, I would have had greater chances because more women means more chances. If you go to a place where there are only at most 5 girls your age, and one rejects you, that spreads to the others and they also reject you as well. So now 5 out of 5 girls have rejected you. So in your mind all girls are like this 100% of them. If I went to the big mega church there would have been hundreds of girls. so even if 5 rejected me, there would still be 95 to go. Also, I probably at least would have had a group I found and fit in with. like the nerds and other social awkwards. Because by high school most of the guys in the church stopped going by their late teen years and there were more girls than guys. So when there is a shortage of guys, girls start to loosen their standards some. That's prob how those nerd/omega/social awkward/ugly guys got decent looking women is because they all grew up together. So the girls at least dont feel threatened by them... like me.... an outsider trying to approach them they get scared and creeped out. There is no way around that fact. It may have been different if they knew me since childhood and realized I wasn't a threat. Then maybe being tall would come to my advantage. Girls like tall guys no doubt about it but if they don't know you that tallness is turned against you because they see it as threatening. but if they knew you that all changes. My face is not pretty and I'm socially akward AF however... I may have still got lucky and not be an incel right now if my family didn't basically isolate me from society.
it's fucking child abuse!
