Beckybuxxing and female sexual coercion are the two bitter pills that no cope can defeat. As long as you are taking the initiative in any way, you can always delude yourself that your failure is due to some social incompetence on your part, and that if only you would've said some random word in some random sentence 1% less forcefully and more suavely then you'd be slaying, and some copes are still possible when you see women approaching HTNs and higher while you rot, but no cope in possible when you realize that there are men women are willing to pay or use force to be with, and you simply aren't that man and never will be.