Brutal This is how my views on SEX evolved over time

[SlayerSlayer]

For most of my life I viewed SEX as a ceremonious activity between lovers. When I took the redpill I began to see SEX as an act of hedonistic lust to get a dopamine high no different than merely 'partnered masturbation.'

Early blackpill I saw SEX as an act of power about a man wanting to dominate women, to prove his power over women. Now I see SEX merely as a sick status game of men competing against other men, and women are just the cannon fodder in a huge sex contest. Or to put it even more bluntly-- using women as living fleshlights just to humiliate and dominate other men. I think this is the most primal view of sex that makes sense to me.

The reason why this makes sense to me is that no man who FUCKS wants to genuinely help another man out to get laid-- we call such helper men 'cucks.' Even the ones we call 'cucks' are out there constantly giving bad advice out on the internet just to fuck with other men's game. Men primarily view beauty as the paramount feature of the 'conquest.' While we do appreciate beauty as individuals, if SEX wasn't about using women to dominate other men, I honestly think we wouldn't have been conditioned to really care about beauty as much. At the end of the day when you are actually in the act of fucking in one's POV you are so close you don't really even see the bitch all that well like a well framed shot-- you probably can put a pillow over their head, and clap them cheeks that way- and a fat chick will give you better head and make you a sandwich compared to Stacey. So in a physiological sense-- fat sex is probably better in a purely physiological way. It's just that most men are so wired into competition with other men, we are ashamed to fuck land whales.

 

[zephyr]

Now I see SEX merely as a sick status game of men competing against other men,

Wow. I never thought of it like that. Now this episode of Dexter's laboratory makes sense.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Wow. I never thought of it like that. Now this episode of Dexter's laboratory makes sense.

and they called John K a perv, and ME a pedo. This is just sick. I don't think kids should be exposed to this shit

 

[buried_alive]

Early blackpill I saw SEX as an act of power about a man wanting to dominate women, to prove his power over women. Now I see SEX merely as a sick status game of men competing against other men, and women are just the cannon fodder in a huge sex contest. Or to put it even more bluntly-- using women as living fleshlights just to humiliate and dominate other men. I think this is the most primal view of sex that makes sense to me.

Honestly, this looks like a feminist view. It makes women look like victims of sex, and they're anything but that. They are the big winners and choosers of sexual relationships, so, for them, sex is about exerting power over men and even other women too, when they're competing over chads. They wield it as a weapon. And for men sex is a scarce basic human need and strong a desire.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Honestly, this looks like a feminist view. It makes women look like victims of sex, and they're anything but that. They are the big winners and choosers of sexual relationships, so, for them, sex is about exerting power over men and even other women too, when they're competing over chads. They wield it as a weapon. And for men sex is a scarce basic human need and strong a desire.

just because its seems like it makes men look bad, or that women look like victims, doesn't mean it's not the way things are. This is exactly why women hate sex with non-Chads so much. If the game of sex is gonna be like this-- its gotta be CHAD ONLY.

 

[buried_alive]

just because its seems like it makes men look bad, or that women look like victims, doesn't mean it's not the way things are. This is exactly why women hate sex with non-Chads so much. If the game of sex is gonna be like this-- its gotta be CHAD ONLY.

Okay, probably that wasn't what you mean, but this unhealthy and destructive competition between men is extremely beneficial to women. That's why they are chad only. Sexual competition wasn't always like this, giving women way more rights than men, online dating and social media is what creating this cesspool we call dating today.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

Okay, probably that wasn't what you mean, but this unhealthy and destructive competition between men is extremely beneficial to women. That's why they are chad only. Sexual competition wasn't always like this, giving women way more rights than men, online dating and social media is what creating this cesspool we call dating today.

as much as it damages women, it damages men more IMO-- unless if they are the winners

 

[Swagpilled]

and they called John K a perv, and ME a pedo. This is just sick. I don't think kids should be exposed to this shit

we need to embed pawghalla into the brains of young boys

 

[yez]

Its over

 

[turbosperg]

"Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." (often misattributed to Oscar Wilde).

"power" is ultimately a display of breeding ability (including the ability of protecting one's offspring).

Sex is the last step in the exercise of power... the breeding of heirs to one's empire.

Everything else -- education, work, entrepreneurship, wealth acquisition, life experiences, social status, hierarchy, authority etc. exist solely to prepare the man for the exercise of breeding and fending-off for his offspring.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

"Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power." (often misattributed to Oscar Wilde).

"power" is ultimately a display of breeding ability (including the ability of protecting one's offspring).

Sex is the last step in the exercise of power... the breeding of heirs to one's empire.

Everything else -- education, work, entrepreneurship, wealth acquisition, life experiences, social status, hierarchy, authority etc. exist solely to prepare the man for the exercise of breeding and fending-off for his offspring.

the only "innocent" form of sex is masturbation if taken from a Pascal sort of viewpoint of staying in a room quietly to not do harm to the world. So in this aspect incels are the most peaceful humans on the planet. There is nothing more meek than to jack off peacefully in your room alone.

 

[turbosperg]

the only "innocent" form of sex is masturbation if taken from a Pascal sort of viewpoint of staying in a room quietly to not do harm to the world. So in this aspect incels are the most peaceful humans on the planet. There is nothing more meek than to jack off peacefully in your room alone.

Masturbation is not sex.

Partnered masturbation (a.k.a. "safe sex") is not sex, and neither are fellation or sodomy or gouinage.

Sex is the act that breeds.

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

sex is about power

 

[TheValeYard]

sex is about power

and control

 

[decembrist_kirillov]

and control

yes

 

[Fallenleaves]

Evolved like a pokemon

 

[TheDarkEnigma]

I've always viewed sex as something hedonistic and done only for the sake of pleasure. Even in my bluepilled days, I was aware of hookup culture but I thought not all girls were like that and only a few of them were thots. The guys that used girls and then leave I would view it as "misogynistic" because I bought into the "don't objectify women" shit.

I did viewed most foids as innocent and sexless angels who desire emotional connection and a man who "treated them right", and that they were attracted to a man's virtue and personality rather than looks (the "beauty comes from the inside" cope). Which is why when I had oneitis at school I wasn't horny for them or desired them sexually, I wanted companionship and (non-sexual) physical intimacy, I didn't really care about having sex with them. In other words, I had a Madonna complex. I would still watch porn at the time but I separated lust from romantic attraction.

Now I see sex a bit differently than I used to and that sex is an important part of physical intimacy, in fact it is the most intimate act. I no longer view romantic attraction as mutually exclusive from me wanting sex from them, and if I were to be in a relationship I would also want sex, since it would be pretty cucked for me to hang out with a girl and cuddle with her at night but she doesn't sexually desire me and cheat on me with another guy whilst denying me that same attention, and the ultimate point of a relationship is reproduction. I've also realized that all women are sexual beings, that they desire sex and are the grantors of it. Therefore, women exploit their sex appeal from men to their advantage.

That being said I still desire intimacy, kissing, and touching during the act of sex and I guess some form of bonding, not just for the sake of satisfying my lust. But I'm no longer foolish enough to want a long-term emotional connection with them.