This is somewhat a response to the thread @InMemoriam had where he was responding to a reddit post about how " It really hurts but a lot of neurotypicals call you ''Incel'' as an insult, even though you're not one."
In the redditor's statement, he said the following:
"To be honest, those insults if anything make me more likely to engage in that ideology, because those words cause suffering, and suffering leads to exploring that underworld."
EXACTLY. EXACTLY!!! THIS IS WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING.
You demonize men for being understandably a bit upset for being perceived as strange socially, or for being unable to attain a partner despite their best efforts, and it's no wonder that a lot of young men become incels/start to hold misogynistic beliefs.
It's only natural! You wanna chastise people and call them vile shit, they're gonna wanna retaliate and most likely become what you're calling them out of spite, because they've done nothing to deserve this sort of cruel treatment. That's exactly how I ended up here.
"You're just not the best looking, which is why nobody wants you, but don't get mad!! Don't get mad lil guy!! Or else you'll be an evil incel and we'll all hate you! Don't get mad now little fella!!!"
Those types of passive-aggressive, belittling, infantilizing statements are what causes men to go down the rabbit hole.
And then the people who say this shit to you, say they're doing it to "help" you. You're not helping me with shit, you're making me hate you more.
Add learning about dating statistics, women's biological nature, and hypergamy to the mix, and you'll have a prime candidate for someone who has over 500+ posts on sites like this.
You can't just isolate people and spit on them when they try to express anger for being left out, while claiming you're doing them a favor. You're pushing them away from you even further, and what's worse, what they'll begin to believe in has more objective truth rooted in it. They'll probably never come back to believe the lies you've spouted at them for their entire life.
In the redditor's statement, he said the following:
"To be honest, those insults if anything make me more likely to engage in that ideology, because those words cause suffering, and suffering leads to exploring that underworld."
EXACTLY. EXACTLY!!! THIS IS WHAT I'VE BEEN SAYING.
You demonize men for being understandably a bit upset for being perceived as strange socially, or for being unable to attain a partner despite their best efforts, and it's no wonder that a lot of young men become incels/start to hold misogynistic beliefs.
It's only natural! You wanna chastise people and call them vile shit, they're gonna wanna retaliate and most likely become what you're calling them out of spite, because they've done nothing to deserve this sort of cruel treatment. That's exactly how I ended up here.
"You're just not the best looking, which is why nobody wants you, but don't get mad!! Don't get mad lil guy!! Or else you'll be an evil incel and we'll all hate you! Don't get mad now little fella!!!"
Those types of passive-aggressive, belittling, infantilizing statements are what causes men to go down the rabbit hole.
And then the people who say this shit to you, say they're doing it to "help" you. You're not helping me with shit, you're making me hate you more.
Add learning about dating statistics, women's biological nature, and hypergamy to the mix, and you'll have a prime candidate for someone who has over 500+ posts on sites like this.
You can't just isolate people and spit on them when they try to express anger for being left out, while claiming you're doing them a favor. You're pushing them away from you even further, and what's worse, what they'll begin to believe in has more objective truth rooted in it. They'll probably never come back to believe the lies you've spouted at them for their entire life.
They want me to leave the only place where I have found a modicum of social acceptance. The only place that reaffirms my experiences and empathises with me. And for what? Further mockery, gaslighting and social isolation?
