I remember when i joined a discord server by this kid that i found
View: https://youtu.be/1n5nOEJtrYA
To be fair, i dont think he ever advertised it as an incel community or even specifically for lonely guys but i at least expected to find a place with people in a similar position as me. Instead i joined the equivalent of a whatsapp group chat, it was completely filled with normies. Its been a long time but i remember chads posting pictures, i remember e girls claiming to be lonely but were very open about having slept with multiple guys. I dont think i ever found a single person there like me or in a similar situation... I left that server in a few days, since then i realized that the best use of discord is just to find friends to cope with. I have my own group of friends and we have been together for over two years now, even tho i have never come clean with them about my situation or asked if they were incel i secretly know they are.