TheNEET
mentally crippled by sleepoverless teen years
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- May 27, 2018
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It's impossible for a normie to empathize with us or give us any reasonable advice. They live a life that so insanely different that they can't even envision the hopelessness of our situation: it's like a dog giving a cow advice how to be loved by humans and not end up on a plate. The dog can't comprehend that it's not his merit that led him to being loved by humans, it's just the way they were born -- it was over for the cow the day she was born, while the dog was always destined to be loved.
Their privilege always shows up. Take the phrase "get a job" for example -- they don't even take into account that not everyone can just "get" a job, for many it's a difficult process: people have disabilities (and not always they get legal protection or can just live off disability -- if you're an autist with photosensitivity you'll get told to grow balls and banned from using shading glasses at work in Poland), people may have skills or education that's not in high demand (and no, people aren't evil for not adapting themselves to capitalism), maybe there's no demand for labor in their country in general. There are endless issues that may lead you to becoming a NEET and you don't necessarily need to be a bad person. It's an extremely privileged position to assume that the only reason you may struggle with employment is being lazy, avoiding work on purpose etc.
Meanwhile for normies things often "just happen". You'll never have to actively hunt for a job, you'll never know the feeling of sending out 100 resumes and not getting a single response despite applying for jobs you're terribly overqualified for, seeing terribly unprofessional people getting the position you wanted just because they're pretty and have better connections. Many normies will get a comfy position because "a friend of my friend works in a big corporation and they need a technician, don't worry about skills or experience -- you'll learn as you go". I wish I didn't have to struggle and things "just happened" to me. Imagine the stress-free existence.
Pic rel: Incels buying into normie bullshit and trying out their advice.
Their privilege always shows up. Take the phrase "get a job" for example -- they don't even take into account that not everyone can just "get" a job, for many it's a difficult process: people have disabilities (and not always they get legal protection or can just live off disability -- if you're an autist with photosensitivity you'll get told to grow balls and banned from using shading glasses at work in Poland), people may have skills or education that's not in high demand (and no, people aren't evil for not adapting themselves to capitalism), maybe there's no demand for labor in their country in general. There are endless issues that may lead you to becoming a NEET and you don't necessarily need to be a bad person. It's an extremely privileged position to assume that the only reason you may struggle with employment is being lazy, avoiding work on purpose etc.
Meanwhile for normies things often "just happen". You'll never have to actively hunt for a job, you'll never know the feeling of sending out 100 resumes and not getting a single response despite applying for jobs you're terribly overqualified for, seeing terribly unprofessional people getting the position you wanted just because they're pretty and have better connections. Many normies will get a comfy position because "a friend of my friend works in a big corporation and they need a technician, don't worry about skills or experience -- you'll learn as you go". I wish I didn't have to struggle and things "just happened" to me. Imagine the stress-free existence.
Pic rel: Incels buying into normie bullshit and trying out their advice.