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"There's lots of people who are single and happy"
You see people say this all the time. "There are people who are single and are completely fine with it". In essance, they're saying "Just cope with being single".
They call you entitled and so on, for wanting a relationship. But what they don't get is that it is impossible to get it out of your mind. You constantly compare yourself to people with normal romantic lives. The fact that we missed out on all of that - sex, affection, hitting milestones and etc. It makes one feel inferior.
It's impossible to be happy like that, you cannot take your mind of it indefinitely.
"There's lots of people who are single and happy"
This quote, it may be fully true. But it doesn't apply to us. We are not normal people, who experienced everything when we should have and are now single and happy. No, we have to live with the fear of being alone for the rest of our lives and that lingering and constant comparison to the people who surround us.
Hopefully this makes some bluepillers understand why we are "obsessed" with sex and relationships, and what it's really like.
You see people say this all the time. "There are people who are single and are completely fine with it". In essance, they're saying "Just cope with being single".
They call you entitled and so on, for wanting a relationship. But what they don't get is that it is impossible to get it out of your mind. You constantly compare yourself to people with normal romantic lives. The fact that we missed out on all of that - sex, affection, hitting milestones and etc. It makes one feel inferior.
It's impossible to be happy like that, you cannot take your mind of it indefinitely.
"There's lots of people who are single and happy"
This quote, it may be fully true. But it doesn't apply to us. We are not normal people, who experienced everything when we should have and are now single and happy. No, we have to live with the fear of being alone for the rest of our lives and that lingering and constant comparison to the people who surround us.
Hopefully this makes some bluepillers understand why we are "obsessed" with sex and relationships, and what it's really like.