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Can incels ascend is the question.
When we talk about inceldom, what often comes up is an expressed desire for a relationship but not just any relationship. No one here is looking for a short-term fling so to quickly satisfy sexual gratification, as we are aware that such a form of relationship may create feelings of attachment towards that first sexual partner hence the avid aversion of promiscuity among the majority of our members. Our yearnings are directed towards having a relationship with a person who validates us for who we are, with sex only playing a part in that. Being wanted by someone of the opposite sex is our first response when asked what it is we look for. I would posit that this desire for a relationship masks something else that commonly unifies the men of our community. Loneliness.
Yes, loneliness. Loneliness rooted in experiences of ostracisation. We are men who are living on the margins of the group and this solitude is a comparable to a slow dark death that eats away your spirit day by day. A virginal man who's been surrounded by a supportive circle, has friends, people whom he can deeply trust and rely on will quickly shy away from the incel community even though he theoritically shares a similar predicament. He's overall healthier and has a positive outlook on life, partly thanks to a strong flow of positive reinforcement through the course of his life. There is no doubt that your physical appearance is linked to how your life may possibly turn out, no matter how much you are a fervent supporter of the just world hypothesis where your circumstances are well deserved because you yourself must lay at ground of the majority of your misfortunes and that ultimately all responsibility lies within your grasp. This is an overly optimistic and I would say harmful way of viewing a person's fate.
The course of matters may have very well been triggered starting as soon as childhood: http://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/h0035083
However, let me stress that ugliness is not the one and all factor that is going to determine whether you will be among the marginals, it's why I shun the whole truecel trend where only ugly men can be supposedly be incel. I emphasize ugliness here to draw a cut and clear illustration of a subject we're strongly familiar with to give you an idea of what can contribute to being pushed towards the margins. It's needless to say that certain marginals are better equipped to escape but then the question arises, do you want to escape? Now that you who has witnessed from a dark coin in the room the operations from the inner circle, do you wish to embrace the current *system* or do you wholly reject it from the get go? Would you dare call it ascension?
Among our deepest desires is obtaining a girlfriend. A partner we want to trust and share our life with to alleviate the pain of solitude. You don't need to be blackpilled to know that a promiscuous girl who doesn't view sex as an intimate ritual of bonding between two people is not a viable option if you share the aforementioned ideal. Chances are that you will be met with more suffering than previously (cheating, breaking up). Buying into the platitude of *the past is the past* we can leave to gullible numales. What rests is the preferable option of a lifelong monogamous marriage, an option for men with an ounce of self-respect. Even so, in marriage you are married to a woman. This may sound as if I'm randomly pointing out that which is self-evident but my blackpilled brothers know what I'm trying to hint at. Woman, who's appearance inspires an innocent, pristine, playful sweetheart that is also a deep being who in its complexity can be discovered an endless array of mysteries. Beneath that appearance lurks... pretty much nothing. Woman is a vapid venomous viper. She is a born master in the art of deception, manipulation and dissimulation where she can convince the opposite party through an act she doesn't believe to be an act. Truth is subverted, absorbed and then projected. Some among us have the tendency to mock everything MGTOW stands for but I'm referring now with regards to MGTOW to men who have been with multiple women, lived marriage and have in the end decided they are tired of dealing with the opposite gender. I would not be so quick to dismiss what they've directly experienced. The attitude of the modern woman is intolerable, she is impossible to live with. The erraticism, entitlement, her incessant quarrelsome provocations are bound to drive a man to the border of insanity if completely left to do as she pleases. Pair this together with almost complete immunity granted to the woman because of gynocentric insanity.
I resurface the question again, what will you do once you "ascend"? Forget everything about the blackpill and fill yourself with bluepilled stupidity? Purposely blind yourself from everything you have come to know? Embrace the society you're living in with open arms? Submit to the foul, inferior woman who lacks an inner moral compass?
Is there such a thing as ascension in the first place? I think not.
When we talk about inceldom, what often comes up is an expressed desire for a relationship but not just any relationship. No one here is looking for a short-term fling so to quickly satisfy sexual gratification, as we are aware that such a form of relationship may create feelings of attachment towards that first sexual partner hence the avid aversion of promiscuity among the majority of our members. Our yearnings are directed towards having a relationship with a person who validates us for who we are, with sex only playing a part in that. Being wanted by someone of the opposite sex is our first response when asked what it is we look for. I would posit that this desire for a relationship masks something else that commonly unifies the men of our community. Loneliness.
Yes, loneliness. Loneliness rooted in experiences of ostracisation. We are men who are living on the margins of the group and this solitude is a comparable to a slow dark death that eats away your spirit day by day. A virginal man who's been surrounded by a supportive circle, has friends, people whom he can deeply trust and rely on will quickly shy away from the incel community even though he theoritically shares a similar predicament. He's overall healthier and has a positive outlook on life, partly thanks to a strong flow of positive reinforcement through the course of his life. There is no doubt that your physical appearance is linked to how your life may possibly turn out, no matter how much you are a fervent supporter of the just world hypothesis where your circumstances are well deserved because you yourself must lay at ground of the majority of your misfortunes and that ultimately all responsibility lies within your grasp. This is an overly optimistic and I would say harmful way of viewing a person's fate.
The course of matters may have very well been triggered starting as soon as childhood: http://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037/h0035083
Ss showed a significant preference for attractive children as potential friends and corresponding dislike of unattractive children. Finally, consistent stereotypes associated with differences in facial attractiveness were found.
However, let me stress that ugliness is not the one and all factor that is going to determine whether you will be among the marginals, it's why I shun the whole truecel trend where only ugly men can be supposedly be incel. I emphasize ugliness here to draw a cut and clear illustration of a subject we're strongly familiar with to give you an idea of what can contribute to being pushed towards the margins. It's needless to say that certain marginals are better equipped to escape but then the question arises, do you want to escape? Now that you who has witnessed from a dark coin in the room the operations from the inner circle, do you wish to embrace the current *system* or do you wholly reject it from the get go? Would you dare call it ascension?
Among our deepest desires is obtaining a girlfriend. A partner we want to trust and share our life with to alleviate the pain of solitude. You don't need to be blackpilled to know that a promiscuous girl who doesn't view sex as an intimate ritual of bonding between two people is not a viable option if you share the aforementioned ideal. Chances are that you will be met with more suffering than previously (cheating, breaking up). Buying into the platitude of *the past is the past* we can leave to gullible numales. What rests is the preferable option of a lifelong monogamous marriage, an option for men with an ounce of self-respect. Even so, in marriage you are married to a woman. This may sound as if I'm randomly pointing out that which is self-evident but my blackpilled brothers know what I'm trying to hint at. Woman, who's appearance inspires an innocent, pristine, playful sweetheart that is also a deep being who in its complexity can be discovered an endless array of mysteries. Beneath that appearance lurks... pretty much nothing. Woman is a vapid venomous viper. She is a born master in the art of deception, manipulation and dissimulation where she can convince the opposite party through an act she doesn't believe to be an act. Truth is subverted, absorbed and then projected. Some among us have the tendency to mock everything MGTOW stands for but I'm referring now with regards to MGTOW to men who have been with multiple women, lived marriage and have in the end decided they are tired of dealing with the opposite gender. I would not be so quick to dismiss what they've directly experienced. The attitude of the modern woman is intolerable, she is impossible to live with. The erraticism, entitlement, her incessant quarrelsome provocations are bound to drive a man to the border of insanity if completely left to do as she pleases. Pair this together with almost complete immunity granted to the woman because of gynocentric insanity.
I resurface the question again, what will you do once you "ascend"? Forget everything about the blackpill and fill yourself with bluepilled stupidity? Purposely blind yourself from everything you have come to know? Embrace the society you're living in with open arms? Submit to the foul, inferior woman who lacks an inner moral compass?
Is there such a thing as ascension in the first place? I think not.
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