Blackpill There is no "rite of passage". Nothing will "man you up". Your personality is fucking genetic. It's ridiculous to claim otherwise.

[mylifeistrash]

I've wasted endless years and shit tons of money on going out, buying drinks and other PUA garbage. I'm still the same person as I was before.

Your personality is genetic. Putting yourself through endless torture isn't going to improve you.

If that were the case, POWs in vietnam would have came back better off than before.

Fucked up experiences only damage your brain. You don't go through trama and come out a better person. That's absolutely fucking insane.


Does a dog become better trained if you beat it? Even animal trainers claim only positive re-enforcement works. Putting a mammal through bad experiences makes it exponentially worse off.

 

[Gymcelled]

Your personality is the sum of all your experiences in life. Which are dictated by your genetics.

Nobody expect a dog who's been beaten and abused all his life to be friendly, playful and outgoing with humans.

Yet people expect this kind of behavior from unattractive men

 

[ionlycopenow]

Your personality is the sum of all your experiences in life. Which are dictated by your genetics.

Nobody expect a dog who's been beaten and abused all his life to be friendly, playful and outgoing with humans.

Yet people expect this kind of behavior from unattractive men

Exactly. That is why saying you're "non NT" is just saying "I'm ugly"

Hmm, what a coincidence good looking chads are always NT low inhib and outgoing while ugly guys are pretty much always fucking weirdo freaks

 

[Gymcelled]

Bumping this good thread ngl

 

[Personalityinkwell]

your personality is your face. in fact the etymology of the word personality states that personality = face

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Your personality is the sum of all your experiences in life. Which are dictated by your genetics.

Nobody expect a dog who's been beaten and abused all his life to be friendly, playful and outgoing with humans.

Yet people expect this kind of behavior from unattractive men

I mean personality traits are genetic lol
that and who you grow up around can REALLY shape how you act as an adult

 

[WØLF]

If you are ugly it doesn’t matter because it’s already over.

If you are Chad it doesn’t matter because you can make girls wet purely on looks.

If you are anywhere between this range, which is the vast majority of men, personality is VERY important.

If you have a social life and go out frequently, you’ll know how true this is. Only the PSL autist basement dwellers will deny this.

 

[Over_this_Life]

Personality is giga cope. Face and height is everything

your personality is your face. in fact the etymology of the word personality states that personality = face

truth

 

[Lone-Star]

Bumping this good thread ngl

 

[Dregster]

If you are Chad it doesn’t matter because you can make girls wet purely on looks.

Chad is the only living being on earth who can be a complete networth zero and still cuck a seven figure man

 

[WØLF]

Chad is the only living being on earth who can be a complete networth zero and still cuck a seven figure man

Chad can be in a maximum security prison for beating children and can get massive media coverage for his looks alone, get bailed out by a billionaire foid, and go on to become a multi-millionaire and one of the highest paid male models

 

[Deleted member 19236]

rite of passage = sex in high school

 

[ToxicPersonality]

Yeah. The last thing that changed my personality was after leaving high school and being confronted with "the real world". This turned me into a depressive. Ive been out of HS for 6 years now. Ive came a long way in the things i know and my perceptions etc, but personality wise, i am exactly the same person. I even traveled across the world, and i am the same "person" as before i did any of that. I dont even think any experiences can actually change a person past like 21 tbh. They could only get more depressive

 

[dirtykombatcel]

your personality is your circumstances.

your circumstances are your genes and upbringing.

thinking you can mold your social behavior in any way you want to be more magnetic is pure cope. you are your past unfortunately.

 

[rat888]

rite of passage = sex in high school

 

[Mainländer]

People need positive reinforcements in their early age years. This helps.

The only positive consequence of going through fucked up shit is valuing it more when things are better. Other than that, yeah, it only makes you fucked up.