Emperor Palpatine
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I found very interesting discussion on an Italian psychologist site. I would like to know your considerations. The guy is 30 years old virgin and says he has never had a girlfriend and doesn't know what to do. Here I translated the most significant parts of the answers given by the Therapists:
I don't know if these psychologists are so blupilled they don't know what they are saying or are lying knowing they are lying. As soon as they hear of a thirty-year-old virgin, they think at James Stewart, a famous actor 1.90 tall. And many people say : "go to see a therapist". That's probably the kind of advice you'll get from a therapist.
Regarding the idea of getting an escort, I confess that I'm rather hesitant. Once upon a time the ritual of losing virginity with prostitutes was a very common thing for boys, but we are talking about other times, when relations between the sexes and above all the occasions and conditions that allowed them were quite another thing. And then, if it were really an escort, I think it would cost you a fortune. Perhaps you could fall back on some cheaper colleague, who as an added value could hardly give her the "protected" relationship you would like. Rather, I would start by exploiting you natural characteristics to your advantage. Precisely because it is uncommon for a guy to still be a virgin at 30, and above all because girls love novelty and things a little out of the ordinary, the next time you happen to joke or flirt with a girl, try leaning on the back of your chair, cross your hands behind your neck and, with the relaxed and playful air of someone who knows a lot and tell her: "Do you know I'm still a virgin?" Your friend will only answer amazed and then you will be able to play on this and baste jokes on it. Keep the tone of the discussion as if you are hard to please, that you still haven't found the right person and that you are in no hurry. I'll leave it to you to figure out what to say next. And then see what direction it takes.
In front of a beautiful girl, today they are all beautiful, you, a bit like James Stewart, or another champion of good cinema, with nonchalance, and smiling at yourself and at the situation, tell her you're a virgin. Well!! If word gets around, you'll find fifteen, fifty, a hundred girls ready to take you to bed and they'll all be understanding, and won't let you feel the unfortunate situation you imagine. They will be delicate, maternal, graceful, gentle, polite, sweet and will guide you towards the dark world of the "feminine"! The feminine is a world to explore, not only physically and sexually, but also and above all psychologically. The feminine has these psychological characteristics: it is nocturnal, it is lunar, it is sensorial, it is sensitive, the woman is receptive, intuitive, synchronic, tender, indeterminate, unpredictable. The lesson comes to us from Jung's analytical psychology and Eastern philosophies. They will take you by the hand and joyfully lead you into their world. And then your fears of it will disappear, and you will understand that that world is fairy. You will acquire serenity and audacity. And you will no longer be afraid of that world.
I don't know if these psychologists are so blupilled they don't know what they are saying or are lying knowing they are lying. As soon as they hear of a thirty-year-old virgin, they think at James Stewart, a famous actor 1.90 tall. And many people say : "go to see a therapist". That's probably the kind of advice you'll get from a therapist.