Venting The worst thing about being an incel is knowing that you'll never enjoy life.

[VST]

And you know that.
We will never get to lead the life an average man leads, we missed our opportunity.
We never got laid at 16/17.
We will never have a fulfilling relationship with a female, maybe even another human.
We will never get to feel desired, by another human.
Even if we somehow "make it", you'll be dwelling on all those vital milestones that you have missed.
At worst, nothing will change, at best, you'll be playing catch up with your peers for the remainder of your miserable life
We will never get to truly live and we will never get to enjoy it.

The state of non-existence is a preferable alternative to this "existence"

 

[Newbie17]

Wow...... Talk about brutality

That’s tough ngl

 

[UltraFayJr.]

I may not have a lifelong goal, but I dream of helping lives........somehow.

 

[Mainländer]

The worst part of being incel is that life is already cruel and shitty, but it becomes even more so as an incel. Tbh there are worse things in life than being incel, but I think being incel is the worst one that people don't empathize with. If you're disabled or something, that's worse than being incel, but people empathize a lot and treat you better for it. The government as well.

Only being a pedophile beats being incel in this category (shitty condition that makes you suffer but doesn't get you any empathy points either).

 

[Loooooser]

Such thoughts often cross my mind and I cry myself to sleep most of nights

 

[Deleted member 1252]

High IQ.

This is the thing that really gets me. I will never feel the safety, security, belonging and warmth of knowing my partner is waiting for me back home when I’m at work. Looking forward to getting home and talking and snuggling, or watching a movie together, or eating out together, or going on holiday together, or going out with our other coupled friends, or celebrating Christmas with our families.

Imagine, the average person just basically feels happy. His default feeling is happiness. Our default feeling is sadness, emptiness, anger, and loneliness. Imagine just kind of feeling generally happy and content ALL THE TIME. Imagine that being your NORMAL feeling. That’s how foids and non-ugly men feel during the day. Meanwhile my thoughts generally revolve around suicide fantasies. It’s unbelievable.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

If you're disabled or something, that's worse than being incel,

Depends on the disability.

When I try to think of things significantly worse than being an incel, I have to go all the way to slaves under horrible conditions or non-alpha prisoners.

 

[LonelyButterfly]

It's just a matter of time until I end it. There is absolutely no reason to even exist if you don't get the things that are normal for pretty much everyone else - love and validation.

 

[Mainländer]

Depends on the disability.

When I try to think of things significantly worse than being an incel, I have to go all the way to slaves under horrible conditions or non-alpha prisoners.

Something like being blind or not able to move your limbs. Of course being incel is way worse than some minor disability like not moving one finger from one of your hands or something.

 

[UltraFayJr.]

High IQ.

This is the thing that really gets me. I will never feel the safety, security, belonging and warmth of knowing my partner is waiting for me back home when I’m at work. Looking forward to getting home and talking and snuggling, or watching a movie together, or eating out together, or going on holiday together, or going out with our other coupled friends, or celebrating Christmas with our families.

Imagine, the average person just basically feels happy. His default feeling is happiness. Our default feeling is sadness, emptiness, anger, and loneliness. Imagine just kind of feeling generally happy and content ALL THE TIME. Imagine that being your NORMAL feeling. That’s how foids and non-ugly men feel during the day. Meanwhile my thoughts generally revolve around suicide fantasies. It’s unbelievable.

There's always single mom's, boy'o

 

[Deleted member 5861]

High IQ.

This is the thing that really gets me. I will never feel the safety, security, belonging and warmth of knowing my partner is waiting for me back home when I’m at work. Looking forward to getting home and talking and snuggling, or watching a movie together, or eating out together, or going on holiday together, or going out with our other coupled friends, or celebrating Christmas with our families.

Imagine, the average person just basically feels happy. His default feeling is happiness. Our default feeling is sadness, emptiness, anger, and loneliness. Imagine just kind of feeling generally happy and content ALL THE TIME. Imagine that being your NORMAL feeling. That’s how foids and non-ugly men feel during the day. Meanwhile my thoughts generally revolve around suicide fantasies. It’s unbelievable.

and normies think we have all these problems because they think we don't take showers or something ._.

 

[NeiboltStreet]

And you know that.
We will never get to lead the life an average man leads, we missed our opportunity.
We never got laid at 16/17.
We will never have a fulfilling relationship with a female, maybe even another human.
We will never get to feel desired, by another human.
Even if we somehow "make it", you'll be dwelling on all those vital milestones that you have missed.
At worst, nothing will change, at best, you'll be playing catch up with your peers for the remainder of your miserable life
We will never get to truly live and we will never get to enjoy it.

The state of non-existence is a preferable alternative to this "existence"

I find that missing out on that 'first love' during your teen years is the most brutal thing out of everything. That first love isn't the subject of literally THOUSAND of movies and books and TV shows for no reason, right? It's maybe THE most defining event in your entire life and something most people will even be able to look back on when they're 80.

Spoiler: Don't read if you don't wanna rope, please

That high school sweetheart will have a place in your head and heart probably for the rest of your life. Unless you didn't have any.

 

[Deleted member 1252]

and normies think we have all these problems because they think we don't take showers or something ._.

Yeah, you’d think if it was as simple as taking a shower/getting a haircut, in exchange for happiness and completeness in life, we’d probably just do it?

 

[wasted12years]

I don't care about not having a relationship in my teenage years. I know for sure that these relationships would not remain today anyways. I consider myself a fairly good looking average male. I'm just too shy, uninterested, possibly asexual. My only cope is spending time in nature. I love being alone. 9/10 females are materialistic and unnatural anyways. I don't want to adapt myself to some heartless femoid who only cares about shopping, modern culture and all that degenerate stuff. I'd rather pay for an escort if i had the chance. Not much difference.

 

[Konon]

One of the most Suicidefuel posts I've ever seen on this site.